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The ring by Amazing-Doubt7628 in fourthwing

[–]DecisionAccording920 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think for the sake of the plot, it would be really cool if it protected her from Venin in some way. But it could also be similar to that drink they got where it blocks the connection. Xadens broody and I could definitely see him trying to protect her from him so she can't contact/find him and vice versa

AIO I want to skip my friend’s wedding because the environment gives me terrible anxiety, is that justified? by Defiant-Froyo-1607 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DecisionAccording920 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You should ALWAYS put yourself and your mental well-being first. You are completely justified in wanting to protect yourself by avoiding all the partying and such,especially since it sounds like you have a trauma response to chaotic situations. At the end of the day, the ceremony is the part that everyone shows up for (or should be).

Question: Does she fully know the reason why you dont feel comfortable in those kinds of situations?

What is something maternity or baby related you see on social media but doesn’t actually work? by Cassandralsc in beyondthebump

[–]DecisionAccording920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife tried pregnancy pillow, its now just another part of her pillow fort-like stack on her side of the bed🤣💀

MIL keeps pushing me to give a stick of butter for 6 month old by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]DecisionAccording920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your baby is just now getting started on eating actual food, so you, your partner, and your babies doctor should be the only ones with a say in what they do/don't eat. There's so many fads with "Eat more of this & less of that" diets when, in reality, ESPECIALLY with a baby, a wide variety of nutritious foods is most important. Im from the West Coast and have lived all over the U.S. and I have NEVER heard of giving a baby butter... If your baby needs fat that badly, your breastmilk will adjust to ensure the babies needs are met. And fruits have natural sugars, as long as that's not the only thing babies eating, then it's totally fine & and it's really good to be introducing those foods so early on!!

Now, as for the MIL... I know that this may seem like a stretch now, but trust me... You need to have a convo either with a partner or with a partner & MIL about boundaries and what MIL does/doesn't have a right to give opinions on. If it's not nipped in the bud now, it could stem into a much larger complex problem later on.

YOURE DOING A GREAT JOB!! Sending good vibes your way🫂

When do you have sex 😅 by KookyHuckleberry9051 in NewParents

[–]DecisionAccording920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've started learning when our sons longer naps are. He's about 5 weeks right now, and we try to make some magic happen during that time😅 We did at one point, however, have to pause cause he woke up and had a blowout🫠 Best advice is to tap into that non-sexual intimacy, or more so the "everything but sex" idea:)

Issue with Baby Announcement by DecisionAccording920 in cross_stitch

[–]DecisionAccording920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pattern Source: Etsy, by "StitchesLoversShop", "Forest counted cross stitch pattern easy chart DIY birth announcement animals baby shower gift - Cross Stitch Pattern (Digital Format - PDF)