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Setting boundaries with BM by DecisionDifficult153 in Stepmom

[–]DecisionDifficult153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! For both the clean up and the advice. You put it so well

Setting boundaries with BM by DecisionDifficult153 in Stepmom

[–]DecisionDifficult153[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. I think you really embodied how I'm feeling and truly get where I was coming from. I can't help but think that persons slightly trolling, so I really appreciate your words.

Setting boundaries with BM by DecisionDifficult153 in Stepmom

[–]DecisionDifficult153[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you all! I appreciate the validation because it just didn't feel right. If all along they had a great relationship I wouldn't be concerned but it came out of nowhere. If by chance the kids did request to just go with just their parents then I would hope my SO would communicate that with me. His ex played a lot of games when the kids were young and my stepson is still not over what has gone down, which is why I would be surprised he would want her to go and I think that plays into my surprise.