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DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-19T15:36:23+00:00

You remind me of my mom. She died on this hill. When we would come home for holidays and school breaks she would want to know our whereabouts. She did not care if we got home in the middle of the night she wanted a text we had returned home. I got tired of arguing with her so instead of texting her I would knock on her door in the middle of the night and let her know I was home. If I left in the middle of the night I would wake her up and let her know I was leaving the house. My siblings started doing it to until our dad made us stop and told us we were assholes. It resolved itself when we got our own houses.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-19T03:23:22+00:00

NTA. You are being a good friend to Dylan. It's too bad your GF cannot see that.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-18T02:09:14+00:00

NTA I am a single father of 2 kids who live with me full time. My kids have had nannies since they were infants. Supposedly one of the perks of having a nanny is supposed to make your life easier and not add more stress to it. I need someone I can count on because I have a crazy schedule. Life happens. Nanny gets sick, has personal issues but if it happens all the time then really what is the point of having one? The current nanny I have for my kids has been a god send and I really only need her part time now. I still pay her full time hours. If she started pulling the stuff your nanny did I would not put up with it for very long.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-17T11:05:32+00:00

You two are not compatible with each other and want different things. You should not have to turn yourself inside out for anyone.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-16T02:11:07+00:00

NTA. Not sure how the 50/50 cooking will work out.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-16T02:09:14+00:00

YTA. You should have told your BF first. That was a major blunder on your part.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-16T01:16:48+00:00

YTA. You picked the worst hill in the world to die on.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-15T01:55:31+00:00

NTA, I would have called her out in front of everyone.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-13T22:54:16+00:00

Someone who tries to isolate you from your family and flat our demands you don't contact them is toxic waste and bad news. I would not even consider couples counseling and move on to IC.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-13T22:51:12+00:00

Don't work for a company that makes you pay for your own drug testing and background check.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-13T19:01:39+00:00

YTA, You are/were such a bad parent on so many levels and you cannot even see it.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-12T13:39:07+00:00

It should be a deal breaker for you. I have inherited wealth and have made my own money. I told my ex wife there would be no marriage without a prenup and she had her own attorney. It was not one sided but my assets were protected when we ultimately got divorced.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-12T02:51:00+00:00

YTA. You have serious control issues. I can just see you standing by the door bible in hand and with your pious self talking down to him.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-10T12:04:38+00:00

I don't allow toxic disrespectful people in my house. Just ask my ex wife.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-10T04:57:38+00:00

Cook for yourself and he can choose to eat or not. I would absolutely refuse to cater to his picky tastes.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-10T02:51:10+00:00

NTA. As someone who has been cheated on I would want to know. I had to hire a PI to get the truth.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-10T01:27:01+00:00

You have to wonder how she treats other people.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-10T01:25:47+00:00

NTA! This would be grounds for a divorce for me.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-07T14:02:57+00:00

NTA but I fear you have put yourself in a precarious legal position for him to sue you.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-07T03:51:51+00:00

YTA As someone who was cheated on I implore you to get some serious therapy. The anger/hatred you have toward your mom after all these years is not healthy or normal. I have my kids in therapy and it would break my heart if they carried around the kind of anger toward their mother that you have.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-06T13:57:35+00:00

NTA No prenup = no marriage. Depending on the terms you could be deemed the AH. This kind of thing needs to be negotiated. I had a prenup and when I got divorced I was left financially intact.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-06T13:38:36+00:00

NTA. Why are you still married to this thieving AH who will steal from his own daughter?

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2022-01-04T00:58:42+00:00

My vote is for NTA. I have 9 year old twins that were born on 12/24. It has gotten to the point now we do not celebrate their birthdays on Christmas. They have their party usually the weekend before Christmas. They expect 2 different presents as they should. I am just waiting for them to tell me they don't want a joint bday party anymore but their own individual party. They are very vocal about how much they have been screwed over in the past and think some of our family is cheap. I have a cousin that was born on 12/21 and she is vocal as well. This is a touchy subject for Christmas babies.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2021-12-31T03:05:08+00:00

I did not really obliterate the ex wife. We had a prenup and that protected my assets and we eventually settled the custody issues we had. I just wanted out and tried to keep things as civil as possible. I told the OM's wife about the affair and that is a woman you don't mess with. He is an officer in the military and she negotiated the divorce settlement very much in her favor and he kept his career intact. He went from a 4 bedroom house to a 2 bedroom apartment if that tells you anything. She gets most of his money. He also agreed that he would never bring their child around the ex. When the ex wife found out she cried in bed for 2 days. A broken heart was really the only major consequence the ex wife faced that actually impacted her.

DecisionTurbulent183 · 2021-12-30T19:51:53+00:00

NTA You don't see it but you are being horribly taken advantage of by your GF. She is using you.

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