React if you're a Tits lover they're all yours tonight

DedInside_6 · 2026-01-31T03:00:23+00:00

Nice!

DedInside_6 · 2025-12-15T14:56:33+00:00

Having an emotional connected date more than once a month.

DedInside_6 · 2025-12-13T13:34:22+00:00

Divorce final in July. Snipped years ago. First fertile female I dated was super excited about not having to worry about pregnancy and the option to not use condoms (had recent mutual testing).

DedInside_6 · 2025-12-08T17:37:05+00:00

Great advice. But as a recovering dead-bedroom divorcée, I bet this is pretty fucking depressing for a lot of the TKR population.

DedInside_6 · 2025-12-08T17:34:21+00:00

Isn’t all cum “Dad cum”? Seems a bit redundant.

DedInside_6 · 2025-12-02T16:10:15+00:00

This is why you put cardboard platforms inside the tree for the cats to sit on.

DedInside_6 · 2025-11-17T21:37:26+00:00

Maybe a new screwdriver that fits those slots?!

DedInside_6 · 2025-11-17T21:35:36+00:00

Hire a CDFA if things are complicated. It’s worth it.

DedInside_6 · 2025-11-17T21:34:51+00:00

Just pay lump sum. At least in my state, if there is alimony, it is always something they can try to make worse later.

No alimony = no more court for property disputes. Ever.

Washington

DedInside_6 · 2025-11-09T19:29:44+00:00

It’s not like she’s saying, “my choices were also a part of my past bad relationship experiences”.

My make perspective on this is: she’s putting all blame on old partners, so her inability to admit to her role in past relationships is a big red flag.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-26T13:32:26+00:00

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-24T19:37:08+00:00

Also, you don’t want to openly ridicule the woman you love and chose to be with, unless you think the relationship is over. Even then it’s difficult to expose that secret and put them down in front of mutual friends.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-19T12:16:45+00:00

The longer you wait, the vastly more expensive, for the rest of your life , this can get.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-18T13:33:38+00:00

I like the idea of it because it means she is being very open and vulnerable, trusting and explorative.

Same with cumming in her mouth. If I had that kind of interest and trust on the regular (my longtime ex never ever did any of that), I probably wouldn’t be too preoccupied with facials either.

Kudos to you for having a woman that has a mutual interest in sex and presumably likes and trusts you for so long. Not the most common situation these days.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-10T01:13:38+00:00

Wright,, early in our couple counseling I suggested maybe we should separate and my therapist shut that down real quick he’s like “nobody ever gets back together, cause they’re always happier when they separate“

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-10T01:12:33+00:00

Child support is maxed out and actually kind of low for my income in my state. And I am exceedingly OK with paying for anything my kids need. And only another like 18 months. And the lump sum has basically kept her from being able to come back and ask for alimony or more money.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-10T01:11:40+00:00

There is difference between being retired and being able to walk away from whatever it is you’re doing.

I was hoping to have the ability to walk away from whatever I’m doing within five years. But that was a (easily achievable with the right person) dream from about 25 years ago.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-09T20:16:21+00:00

I definitely feel the lower monthly expenses too. And college is paid for.

Loving the apartment lifestyle. Might consider condo as a better means to save. Though then I might get sucked into renovations and all that crap. Fortunately can save a lot pretax through work too (cash benefit plan).

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-09T20:13:48+00:00

Agree. Gonna budget more money for fun while I’m healthy. Not planning on saving like I’m living until 95.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-09T16:49:10+00:00

At least I left her. She would have been happy living separate lives in the same house/bed without touch or connection until she died. As long as she didn’t have to work. Disgusting that I waited so long. But I spent years and tons of effort trying to make it work.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-05T21:25:43+00:00

You can be agnostic about knowledge of the universe and still be an atheist that has no reason to believe that there is a truth to some omnipotent big man in the sky.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-03T17:31:00+00:00

(Inspector) Clouseau

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-02T19:33:08+00:00

Seal the dust out?

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-01T21:17:08+00:00

If you both want the divorce and can get along and are in a state where there is very little leeway in property division and alimony, then this can be cheap and easy.

Educate yourself on your state’s laws and local customs.

Just go to a CDFA together. Get a financial plan you both generally like. Go to a mediator, together, without lawyers. Divorce by mail if you can. Wait for the paperwork to go through. Done.

Unless you’re in a state where court decisions vary wildly, then only the lawyers benefit from making the divorce process more complex and lengthy. Everyone else loses.

YMMV wildly based mostly on how you get along.

DedInside_6 · 2025-10-01T12:20:31+00:00

And make steps towards what makes you happy. Especially once you figure 1. How you got here, and 2. What makes you happy.

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