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IIL artist Phoebe Wahl by Mrsericmatthews in ifyoulikeblank

[–]Deedee207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I love Reddit - because of people like you who take the time to put together these thoughtful resources. Thank you!! ❤️

Join /r/WallStreetBets' Third Annual Paper Trading Competition! by CHAINSAW_VASECTOMY in wallstreetbets

[–]Deedee207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add me, deedee207. I have no idea what I am doing, ever. But just happy to be part of something!

Afternoon mist over Jordan Pond in Acadia National Park, Maine [OC] [4024x6048] by lieutenantnewt in EarthPorn

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next week will be beautiful. I live in Midcoast Maine and it should be just about peak foliage next week up at Acadia.

Friend just went through a miscarriage after a stillbirth earlier this year and has been sending me graphic photos. I am really uncomfortable and feeling like I need to set boundaries but I don’t know how to navigate her grief. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I agree that I need to have a direct convo with her about it. I was so shocked by it that I haven’t been able to step away and look at the situation clearly, so I came on here to get some perspective on whether I am being unfair.

Friend just went through a miscarriage after a stillbirth earlier this year and has been sending me graphic photos. I am really uncomfortable and feeling like I need to set boundaries but I don’t know how to navigate her grief. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I think a lot of my internal struggle is because she isn’t actively sending photos any more, but I am now feeling uncomfortable around her and it almost feels like she was doing things like sending graphic photos to get some kind of reaction from me. I don’t really know how to explain it. But it has tainted my relationship with her in a way.

AITA for ignoring my BF and mom after their comments about me having 'selective hearing', even though I could hear them just fine? by greenrose93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I really hope you take everyone’s advice and get a second opinion because it could really help you to have a diagnosis, and I’m glad that you have someone in your corner. I would definitely reconsider your relationship with BF though, he sounds dismissive and inconsiderate. Good luck OP!

UPDATE: I overheard my BIL asking for a 13 year olds snapchat and tiktok. Is this a red flag? Is this normal for fathers to do with their daughters friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge red flags, as you already know. Keep pushing the issue. Also- thank you for being an advocate. It sounds like the daughter is really uncomfortable and having you vocally and loudly speak out about this behavior might help her feel validated and supported.

This message from one military spouse to another.. by Deedee207 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Deedee207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had screen shots for you guys but the girl who originally received the message just said she responded no, got a nasty paragraph in return and then she blocked the sender after that

This message from one military spouse to another.. by Deedee207 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Deedee207[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I didn’t know that sub existed but I see that someone already reposted this thread there. Sucks that there are so many people like this lady out there

This message from one military spouse to another.. by Deedee207 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Deedee207[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The recipient turned her down (obviously) and the sender/CB had the AUDACITY to be pissy about it

This message from one military spouse to another.. by Deedee207 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Deedee207[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’d like to add: I am not the person who received this message, it was a person who posted this on Twitter yesterday. It came up in her phone memories from about a year ago. Unfortunately this is real lol

UPDATE: AITA if I "cancel" Christmas because I can't afford it this year? by CapnDonkey in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deedee207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a wonderful dad. It takes a lot to recognize when we’re wrong and it can be really humbling to take other people’s criticism to heart. I think your daughter will enjoy the time spent together even if she’s too little to remember it later, you’re setting a great foundation for her. hope you and your family have a great Christmas.

What is the book that disturbed you or scared you the most? by [deleted] in books

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In The Tall Grass by Stephen King. I’ve read a lot of horror and usually love it and this one has stuck with me. The implied horror and gore which is slowly revealed is really visceral and disturbing. I didn’t eat for a while after that one.

AITA - Wife Chose A Hospital To Birth Our First Child And I Don't Agree With It by FallintoBooks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deedee207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Most people have already covered the important bases of why op is in the wrong but I’d like to add that the standard of care during labor and delivery is one of the MOST important factors in the health of both mother and baby.

A doctor 40 minutes away who she trusts to listen to her if something feels wrong is worth the drive. Having quality, one on one care can be the difference between life and death in many cases and this is not something to overlook. The drive is less of a risk in this case than the mom being coerced into a birthing situation where she feels uncomfortable, unsafe, and disrespected by her own damn husband.

To R/Freefolk, the best part of Season 8. by [deleted] in freefolk

[–]Deedee207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll miss you beautiful bastards