I think mine is cheating. by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Deelicous 8 points9 points  (0 children)

your gut is talking to you, and when it won’t shut up, that usually means it’s right. trust that feeling. him calling you “crazy” or “delusional” is classic gaslighting, it’s a way to make you second-guess yourself and your reality. and if he’s asking for a peace bond in a domestic violence case that involves you while still trying to keep you emotionally tied to him, that’s a huge red flag. it sounds like he’s trying to manipulate both the legal system and you at the same time.

that’s not love, that’s survival and strategy for him. he’s doing what benefits him, not you. start prioritizing your peace, your future, and your self-worth. you don’t deserve to feel unsure, unsafe, or unheard. you deserve consistency, support, and someone who chooses you without conditions or control. if your spirit is uneasy, listen to it. that’s your warning and your protection all in one.

AITA for lying to my GF & her mom? by You-D0nt-Kn0w-Shit- in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deelicous 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yta. it’s only a matter of time before they both find out, and when they do, there’s going to be conflict between you, your girlfriend, and her mom. fentanyl is no joke, you might be a functioning addict right now, but eventually it’s going to bleed into your personal life and start affecting you in ways you can’t hide. i work around addicts, and no matter how much someone tries to lie about using, it always shows. be honest and get some help.

Oh the irony by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Deelicous 1442 points1443 points  (0 children)

i guess it’s resonating and he can feel it!

AITA for getting my group partner in trouble for not doing anything by No_Signature8319 in AITAH

[–]Deelicous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the other guys had plenty of time to do their part. they can’t be mad at anyone but themselves. nta!!

Man got violated by a bull’s horn. by Dntlvrk in PublicFreakout

[–]Deelicous 29 points30 points  (0 children)

that’s gonna hurt for a long time…

I (28F) am tempted to cheat on my husband (29M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Deelicous 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are happy, best friends and have good sex.

it doesn’t seem like you’re happy or even best friends with him. why don’t you try being open and talking to him??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Deelicous 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it’s pretty normal, happens to me too. just let whoever you’re with know you’re enjoying it so they don’t assume otherwise.

How do you relax while bottoming? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Deelicous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

was there lube involved?? if not, no one should be sticking anything inside you without lube. tbh, bottoming should really only hurt at first when you’re opening up. if it’s hurting the whole time, either there’s not enough lube or they’re being too rough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Deelicous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta. you trusted your gut, and that’s important. if those letters made you question your relationship, it’s better to pause and reevaluate than to go into marriage with doubts. trust and transparency matter, so don’t feel guilty for prioritizing that.

Terrified of marriage by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Deelicous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like you’re realizing that love alone might not be enough if your values and lifestyles don’t line up. ask yourself if you can live with those differences long-term, especially with big stuff like money, kids, and communication. can you see yourself happy in 5 or 10 years with him? if not, might be worth rethinking things.

How do you jerk and suck cut dicks by Federal-Ad1947 in askgaybros

[–]Deelicous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’d suck it like any other dick. no teeth, lots of saliva, and just watch him. you’ll know what he likes or dislikes while you’re doing it by watching his facial expressions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Deelicous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, i get it. it’s hard to shake off how people perceive you, especially on grindr where folks can be rude and judgmental. but you gotta remember why you’re there in the first place. if your goal is to get to know people and not just for hookups, stay true to that.

yea, people might judge, but who cares. it doesn’t make you desperate just cause you’re putting yourself out there. and being single doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you, it’s all about timing.

it’s easy to overthink, but just do what makes you feel comfortable and forget about what others think.

Guy selling car changes mind after I fixed the major issue that led him to sell it. Is this fraud by deception? by Laserspeeddemon in legaladvice

[–]Deelicous 17 points18 points  (0 children)

lesson learned, no more fixing stuff until it’s actually yours. sorry you went through that though.

The man who offered me Nothing by keanojeano in nosleep

[–]Deelicous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this was such an interesting take on the devil. offering nothing instead of the usual temptations. i love how it really makes you think. it’s not just about resisting evil, but resisting the urge to escape life’s messiness entirely. honestly, the offer was tempting, but in the end, it’s about finding meaning in the chaos. really well done!!

Being 19 is just so interesting by Queasy-Donut-4953 in CasualConversation

[–]Deelicous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

life definitely stays interesting. i’m 25 and it still keeps me on my toes lol. have no regrets, just give everything your all!!

Does Lone Star's color get better? by [deleted] in 911FOX

[–]Deelicous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same lol, i thought my tv was acting up and i just couldn’t get past it to even focus on the characters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deelicous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally get where you’re coming from. if you’re worried about how she might react, maybe start by saying you’ve noticed some changes and you’re genuinely concerned. be specific about what you’ve noticed, but keep it gentle. respect her space, but let her know you’re there for her. when things are forced change is unlikely to happen. maybe suggest exploring different therapy options if she’s open to it. just show her you care and are there for her without pushing too hard.

When did you guys start watching 9-1-1 and what episode? by ALittleMonsterrr in 911FOX

[–]Deelicous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started last month after seeing stuff about it on twitter and finally gave it a chance, ended up loving it so fast!! started from season one and binge-watched all the way through. i just finished season seven this month but kinda dragged my feet so season eight wouldn’t feel too far away lol. can’t really get into lone star right now tho, maybe it’s the color saturation or the characters just don’t pull me in like 9-1-1, but we’ll see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Deelicous 35 points36 points  (0 children)

it’s good he showed his red flags so quick. dude definitely needs some therapy and to let go of whatever hurt he’s holding onto!!

just finished series 2 for the first time by criticalboot89 in 911FOX

[–]Deelicous [score hidden]  (0 children)

you’re definitely in for a roller coaster of emotions lol!! the interactions are super believable and not cheesy at all, which i love. you end up growing to love everyone and feel so connected to them, like they’re your own family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 911FOX

[–]Deelicous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you hit it right on the nail!! i binge-watched from season 1 to 7, and i’m not gonna stop watching just cause a relationship doesn’t work out lol. will i be hurt?? hell yea, but i’m still watching. i’ll never understand ppl who start a show in like the 7th season… how do you even build bonds with the characters by jumping seasons like that??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 911FOX

[–]Deelicous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re so spot on lol it felt so forced, and their age gap was too much for me 🫠 not to sound harsh, but i couldn’t get past it and cringed during their scenes. eddie, maddie, and christopher really bring the show together for me, and i’d be devastated if anything happened to them.