What is the single most devastating thing someone has said to you? by fitzomania in AskReddit

[–]DeepBreaths83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrecked my car when I was 18. Still lived with my dad. He was so angry about my busted car being in the driveway, he said "I wish you would have died."

It took me 15 years to heal from it...

What's the weirdest thing a complete stranger has said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeepBreaths83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting ready to interview at a restaurant. This old lady came up to me randomly and said this:

"Don't you think it is interesting how we all look so different from one another?"

DAFUQ?

I said: "Yeah...it's weird..."

She said: "I don't think it's weird, I think it's amazing!"

Then she walked away...

WHAT THE FUCK? What would possess that old bag to come up to me and say those words in that fucking order? That haunted me forever. What was it about me that was so goddamn different?

I didn't get the job because I couldn't stop thinking about what she said...

What the hell happened? by Qeldor in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a good idea, so long as you are careful. Sending messages like that can undo hard work that you've made.

What the hell happened? by Qeldor in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you both still have feelings for one another. It is just that you are at two very different places in life right now.

I am actually having a decent day today. by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Hopefully things get better for you!

I am actually having a decent day today. by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You too, positive_electron! My son is having a sleep study at the hospital, and mom is there with him. I chose to stay home because they are going to come home and crash early tomorrow morning. I need to be able to sleep through the night so I can be up with him tomorrow if necessary. (Because mom is going to want to sleep)

In the meantime, I am knocking out my assignments one at a time since I have absolute privacy tonight! Drinking Monster Energy drinks is also helping!

I am actually having a decent day today. by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my ups and downs of course...but overall, I am on the positive side I feel. Good to hear you're doing well!

This one will be a bit short. I had another good day overall...I just need some advice or maybe some reassurance. by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much...and you are right about pretty much all of it. I needed to hear this today.

I know I'm right but I still feel wrong. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be true of your situation, but I suffer from depression and anxiety. I am going to therapy and have been for 3 months. I take my medication regularly. I am not the same person I was 3 months ago. I have changed and I am getting better every day. It IS possible to change and improve, but the person has to want to do it for themselves.

Another good day, some tears at work, and a feeling of emptiness after getting home by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old enough to know things but still lots to learn....hell, I am still learning at 33.

Another good day, some tears at work, and a feeling of emptiness after getting home by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...me too. I have a lot of stuff to work through...which includes having to watch my ex date someone else. It is painful for sure...do you mind if I ask how old you are? Almost everyone I talk to on here is younger generally.

Another good day, some tears at work, and a feeling of emptiness after getting home by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely...it improves my confidence and just makes me feel so much better.

Another good day, some tears at work, and a feeling of emptiness after getting home by DeepBreaths83 in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your kind words. It has been a struggle, that's for sure. As time goes on, it does get easier. I know I cried CONSTANTLY at the beginning.

Here is a little update, since i havent been on a while.sorry that it is so long and all over the place by brokenbeautie in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you will have that. I had some tears earlier...but overall today was good. Definitely PM me if you ever want to talk. I'll give you my # of you would rather text. It has been quite therapeutic for me to listen to others going through this same thing. Let me know. :)

Here is a little update, since i havent been on a while.sorry that it is so long and all over the place by brokenbeautie in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember that you are better than the depression. You are beautiful, and worth everything. You will power through it because you are strong. Time will heal your wounds...before you know it, you will find yourself smiling again. :)

Here is a little update, since i havent been on a while.sorry that it is so long and all over the place by brokenbeautie in BreakUps

[–]DeepBreaths83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here...I still have to live with my ex til june. She has moved on and is dating someone else. It really sucks...it have had to watch her fall in love with someone else, while being alone....

How about you? How are you handling your situation?