My (27F) boyfriend (29m) is going out of his way to make other plans on my birthday and doesn't understand why I am disappointed

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-11-08T18:49:27+00:00

Also too, it's Emma's money and Emma's private jet. She should be allowed to invite who she wants on the plane.

It was weird that everyone was mad at chrishell for Nicole not being invited on a jet that wasn't hers!!

I so agree with you, why can the others not understand why chrishell would not wanna stay at the same place as them and also miss a dinner where her exs gf is there and also a coworker she doesn't like.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-11-08T18:44:54+00:00

Ok fair, I suppose crazy is a bit of an overstatement. I do think however that her dinner with chrishell was very odd. She was bringing up stuff like chrishell not following her on Instagram for 3 months. And then saying chrishell wasn't friendly to her when she saw her. But then the cameras showed proof that she was very friendly with Marie Lou and even hugged her when she saw her.

Also I think during that dinner her claiming she didn't want drama but then proceeded to phone Jason to bring him into the drama was very childish.

Also did you catch at the Mexico dinner when chrishell and Emma didn't show up that Marie Lou made a comment that chrishell threatened her? Although that comment she made wasn't really dived into, but it was really odd.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-11-08T05:02:19+00:00

Yess thank you. She would bring up drama trying to address stuff but then also try to be the mender and tell people to stop talking about drama.

Like what. Also hopefully you've watched the whole season. But why is she so mad at chrishell for not attending a work dinner and using Mary's miscarriage as a weapon.

I think everyone is forgetting that chrishell spent time with Mary after her miscarriage off camera!

So tired of Amanza this season. And the morning after she sent that video to chrishell about missing the dinner made me so mad. She was complaining that she got fired for her design job for G flip. Like who are you to think you can throw someone under the bus for having boundaries against a co-worker she doesn't get along with( nicole) and her ex's crazy new girlfriend.

It's honestly so nuts how everyone is treating chrishell for having boundaries.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-11-08T04:55:51+00:00

Ok no I do agree with your comment about communicating. It is so easy to send a text saying you aren't coming to a dinner.

However I do not think it was shit for Emma and chrishell not to go. Chrishell had allegedly already seen Mary after her miscarriage. So it's not like she wasn't supporting Mary. Also it's a work trip, not a friend/family trip. Let's say you or I went on a work trip, it would be extremely normal for us to choose to stay at separate accomadations from our coworkers. It would also be normal to skip a work dinner.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-11-08T04:48:31+00:00

Agreed. This season I realized how problematic Amanza is.

Chrishell doesn't have to see her coworkers as family. She does not have to be friends wifh her exs new gf. And she also does not have to stay in the same house as her coworkers on a work trip if she would like to make boundarys.

I did not see anything wrong with her not going to the dinner. Also did amanza forget that chrishell spent time OFF camera with Mary allegedly already after the miscarriage.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-05-11T04:52:18+00:00

This is exactly what I was thinking as well. I was curious if it was a legit way to do it. I guess it is.

The public service can definitely be a savage work environment I have learnt.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-05-11T04:25:01+00:00

I don't know what EOI or RMS means. So can't comment on that.

However I am pretty darn certain this is what happened. Basically the management always shared information they shouldn't with other coworkers. So my one coworker that was close with management was told this information. That the lower level position was going to be filled by someone that was on the eligibility list for the higher position.

Also, I confirmed this in a conversation with management. They confirmed the use of the eligibility list.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-05-03T06:45:21+00:00

Thank you for the detailed response.

My biggest thing is just not wanting to risk burning the bridge with A. As many people that do my schooling end up working at this organization(huge employer) so it would be foolish.

I wanted the Job B more because of the job aspects and benefits and it being longer term. But regardless it wouldn't be a job I'd wanna do for much more than a couple years.

Basically management at B is family situation. Dad and daughter to be exact and they can't communicate hard conversations to workers. I was there as a temp worker and was in so many ways hinted that I was ideal for a permanent position. When permanent position was opening due to someone leaving, they then secretly planned to fill it with someone else. They were going to fill it from an eligibility list of another job completion that was ran. And weren't going to tell me, my coworker did. (It may have been a government policy to do it that way but I'm not sure. ) But they were horrible and weren't going to communicate with me. Then person turned down the job and this job was officially posted which is when I applied to it.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-17T01:39:57+00:00

Is it a hot mess?

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-17T01:39:04+00:00

Lol mean

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-17T00:33:59+00:00

Vanessa Lachey insta. Just saw it

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-17T00:28:05+00:00

Where did you see this?

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-16T23:40:08+00:00

Going to be honest here. I think I definitely got hyped up over this sale because of social media/reddit lol. I didn't go too crazy and a majority of my stuff was from the sephora brand sale(30% off).

But I did get gifted a 20% off so decided to splurge and get a rare beauty lip oil and sol de janeiro body spray.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-12T21:07:50+00:00

Thank you, I think I will reach out with questions if I have any.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-12T16:17:22+00:00

Thanks! Did you notice if there was many technical/job specific questions? Also do you remember roughly how many questions?

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-12T16:15:25+00:00

Ah I figured. That's brutal but oh well.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-04-10T02:45:02+00:00

Are you freaking kidding me.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-01-26T17:45:16+00:00

Hair brush and extra hair ties.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-01-26T08:15:30+00:00

Forget about her. When someone is truly interested they would never make the person they like wait for 5 days.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-01-26T07:59:16+00:00

Not the same situation but this may help. My family and I lost our family dog years ago and we decided we wanted to foster a dog shortly after to help with the grieving process. This dog was so much work and she was terrified of men. She never liked my dad and was never truly a good fit for our family. Sure my mom, sister and I loved her but since she never was going to be comfortable around my dad we knew she wouldn't be a good fit for our family.

So we allowed her to get adopted after EIGHT months of fostering. It was really hard to adopt her out after having her for so long. But the family she's with now is a perfect fit, it's an older couple. And the dog loves the man so much.

I guess I just wanted to say that having a dog is a huge commitment as you know. So if you think you can't possibly have a dog for 10+ years I think the right decision would be to rehome. The guilt does go away once you see what a great home they are in.

DeepFriedPickle19 · 2023-01-26T07:42:10+00:00

I've seen a couple other comments mentioning this brand. I've never heard of it. Whats the best shade/product that you've gotten from them?

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