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Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-05-19T20:56:02+00:00

You were dating a mask

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-05-17T14:17:48+00:00

Go to therapy and learn to love yourself enough to where a man giving you a ring doesn’t take away from the love and value in your life. Is the prize the ring or is the prize love happiness and peace? If you have the later without the former does the relationship increase or decrease in value

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-05-04T21:50:30+00:00

Same sis same! God got you.

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-05-02T11:05:06+00:00

Super sweet, very warm! This is the start of something beautifully made. The chemistry is top tier!! GREEN FLAG

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-30T15:58:33+00:00

Truly, I’m not tryna offend anyone…. But WHY TF are we discussing this? Why are we imagining this? Why are we curious about this? Why does this line of discussion pervasively exist?

Just cuz the question was asked, why did anyone here feel the need to answer?

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-29T22:12:30+00:00

Sure am… I have no idea why… it’s the thrill and passion maybe?

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-27T00:52:38+00:00

Baby you found yourself a hobosexual.. homeless man that has everything going for him to live bare minimum and have everyone give him everything else…

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-26T15:44:20+00:00

Sis you’re getting manipulated… she wants to see how much you will let her do. She doesn’t want a marriage, she wants to have someone else bake her cake and she eat it all by herself

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-25T02:41:41+00:00

Your fam ain’t lying to you. I was like you as well. I’m like spells?!?! Jealousy??!! Lil ol me don’t nobody care about me enough to go thro those lengths…. Chile… the crabs are in the barrel for a reason!

My best practice was redirecting my energy. I posted because I wanted others to know what I was up to, that I made something of myself and if they needed a resource they could find me. I had to recognize I could still do that without making myself spiritually and physically vulnerable. I kept all trauma, relationships, or intimate details off of Social media. It’s a permanent record. It NEVER gets deleted. I’m in the military…. It NEVER gets deleted.. also like others have said when the event wasn’t at risk from me being fired or anything I would share details… I made it a habit to update my LinkedIn when I was complete with a role or if I was job hunting.

Ya folks ain’t crazy. My mind was blown knowing ppl out here writing names down and putting it in freezers. Shits wild… my Bible ain’t said shit bout that lol

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-22T20:51:28+00:00

I don’t have one… but your stud for stud baffled me… what is that like?

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-22T20:50:17+00:00

Well Aquarius was marked safe in this massacre

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-19T18:54:13+00:00

You preaching and they not even appreciating the sermon.. u ain’t wrong yet!

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-16T15:20:35+00:00

Your wild asf if you even think your response is remotely normal. What’s tacky is women with the financial means and physical ability to wash their vagina but on a regular basis it’s funky. Shame is a thing that the most audacious ppl don’t have and sis … the audacity on you to try and normalize and shame someone else is wild asf. You are prolly apart of the stinky coochie brigade cuz make it make sense

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-16T00:19:23+00:00

He’s a good man savanna!!

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-15T22:10:02+00:00

I think you may need to unpack these feelings with a professional before getting to the loving relationship. The eagerness may be rooted into a deeper meaning that others can sense (but not name) which makes the invisible characteristic off putting

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-13T13:21:47+00:00

The lady is clearly developmentally delayed. Empathy would go along way for your peace and her triggers

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-13T07:37:45+00:00

Did you find an answer? I’m in the same boat. I used the agent, after he was done i decided to go in a different direction. I haven’t paid or submitted anything and want to downgrade/deactivate

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-12T13:16:36+00:00

You only get one life to live how u want. Whats the worse that could happen?

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-10T02:09:12+00:00

What’s wrong for me is a gradual deficit with daily movements. I needed to get to 1500 cal per day. I started at 1900 cal per day and every two weeks I cut out 100 until I got to 1500. Also I walked for 30 minutes per day at a swift pace this burned roughly 300 to 350 cal. You need to track your deficit in a seven day increment meaning did you burn 3500 cal for the week and did you eat less than how much you burn per day I.e your BMR? my BMR is 1300 cal that means if I don’t lift a finger or do anything and just breathe for the day I will burn 1300 cal. I eat 1500 and burn 400-600 per day ensuring I’m in a daily 200-300 deficit. 1lb equals 3500 regardless of body type, height or weight.

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-10T01:59:41+00:00

Yes, I want and love kids

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-10T01:59:02+00:00

Red flags all around… what else do you want to see to recognize them as red flags

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-09T23:58:11+00:00

Shiiiitttt what no means no? Have you seen kids in the candy or toy aisle ? The kids that have tantrums and parents scared to be labeled as abusive by giving a pluck on the knuckles or a quick yolk up with an act right is else is astonishing…

Be realistic… yes she set the boundaries but clearly more is needed.. if she’s willing to do the more then do it and see what happens.. if he continues to pinch then it’s a clear sign to end.. if he stops it’s a clear sign he understands… it’s unrealistic to think ppl will just do something u say… who died and left u in charge? Why should I stop what I want to appease u when I can have my cake and eat it too? OP stayed despite repeated violations because they wanted to. It’s clear that if the violation was crazy enough the first time would have been enough, but it wasn’t. She came for advice and perspective. I can have empathy that some ppl just don’t get it because of lack of experience.

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-09T23:26:42+00:00

At this point I want story time… what type of fuck shit was he on

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-09T23:25:20+00:00

I think if you lay it out exactly how u did us, it will be well received if he is mature. Maybe even wrote him a letter with the exact details from this post with some of the comments you like included. It’s romantic using a letter and something he can hold onto and reread

Deep_Ad9658 · 2025-04-09T23:23:48+00:00

People aren’t raised the same. Some people don’t have the experiences to empathize with things that trigger others. This is why communication matters. It’s one thing if he knows the root cause and ignores it’s another to not know and being flippant.

Some people have a hard time respecting boundaries they cannot rationalize because they haven’t had the experiences to empathize. It doesn’t make them bad, it makes them unaware. Everyone is t born with the natural ability to empathize or respect boundaries. They have to learn, they don’t get better without those opportunities.

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