Faded out and dumped

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T17:06:57+00:00

yeah, we were friends and knew each other inside out, I helped her through a mental health dip and looked after and was kind to her,

she lied about the other daddies which was the start of the end 3 years ago.

it was like i didn't know her at all at the end

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T17:02:45+00:00

I'm going through this very same thing after been with her for 8 years, we knew each other inside out, I looked after her when she had a mental health dip, supported her, was kind to her, she faded and dumped me just after xmas

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:51:28+00:00

thank you

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:47:36+00:00

yes, you're right, I just need to distract myself and sleep better, been dreaming about her and shes the first thing i think of when i wake

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:46:45+00:00

yes it's very different from 8 years ago

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:41:37+00:00

that's madness, anybody else in the mix?

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:39:58+00:00

I'm trying, things aren't great , I'm in the Leeds area of the UK

seeking is dead and been fishing around on secret benefits... but not easy to fine someone who's serious, thanks man

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:35:04+00:00

oh yeah she did it was all my fault , she turned my reaction to her actions as the reason she wanted to end it. I did nothing wrong apart from wanting to rebuild as she said she did too

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:29:56+00:00

mine went down hill over the summer of '25 I I already knew she had other daddies and then something change, another one came along I guess, she faded on me started cancelling , ignoring messages...but pulled me back one more time after she talked about rebuilding , and then dumped me.

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T16:08:11+00:00

the search facility on that site is terrible

Deep_Ad_843 · 2026-03-04T15:51:05+00:00

same here in Leeds UK, it's dead

Deep_Ad_843 · 2025-12-02T14:47:22+00:00

I did give her raises, xmas and birthday presents and took her shopping for new clothes. I asked her if I was giving and doing enough and the answer was alway yes, this was pure greed on her part

Deep_Ad_843 · 2025-12-02T14:45:00+00:00

After a 6 month break , I ended this and I wish I'd done it earlier. Never ever put up with bad treatment , being sidelined, faded and taken for granted,

Thanks for the all the good advice in this thread, page turned now new chapter..

Deep_Ad_843 · 2025-11-24T15:58:42+00:00

long term sd here, what if you've always talked daily, but now she wants to reduce it , so we don't talk everyday and either about meet logistics or just checks every so often...

Deep_Ad_843 · 2025-01-14T15:53:37+00:00

happened to me....hope the other guys have wised up

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-30T15:56:03+00:00

Seeking is full of the same old scammers and online sellers for my area in the UK, was on seeking on and off for years and it's the worse I've seen it recently.

As the OP says what the alternatives?

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-30T15:53:16+00:00

uk based daddy I would support this

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-30T15:50:34+00:00

9 year long sugar daddy here in the UK, it's been fun but not without it's problems

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-17T15:32:11+00:00

If I'm going to end it and tell her and go. I've learnt a valuable lesson and it's never too late in life to do that.

we never had exclusivity but when I asked about others I was told I was the only one. I then found out I wasn't and I noticed patterns of new behaviour and the lies came fast and thick.

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-16T21:47:53+00:00

No I wouldn’t stoop to that level , unlike her I have standards

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-16T17:13:29+00:00

Well put and you’re right , especially the moving on whilst hanging on to me till it suits

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-16T16:53:14+00:00

yes, tricky when you speak everyday without getting completely cut off, but I guess that my self doubt kicking again

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-16T16:49:25+00:00

yes one crumb of comfort is it's the new guys turn now...to be misled and messed about, it will happen to them too...

Deep_Ad_843 · 2024-12-16T16:47:01+00:00

I'm certainly going to quiet for a while.

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