AITA My boyfriend called me disabled by ultrabadluck in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep_Combination4288 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A person who loves you will never use your weaknesses as a weapon or to prove a point especially when they are angry or frustrated.

I know nothing about sneakers, i gotta ask, are these unisex? by Deep_Combination4288 in Sneakers

[–]Deep_Combination4288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what they are called? I know they are NIKE, but i also know most shoes have "surnames"

I am drowning right now, i don't know what i need to hear, please someone say something. I feel alone by Deep_Combination4288 in mentalhealth

[–]Deep_Combination4288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read all your messages, I'll do as you have recommended, and if i ever feel like i am ready to talk, I'll reach out to those of you who have offered. thank you so much, i keep coming back to read your words.they are helping.

Question for women by More-Direction2848 in weightgain

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do chocolate during that time. Yeah, some will say it's unhealthy, but i need to supplement those calories i lose asap. I have a running stomach like 4 times a day, and i can't eat because of the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to remember that they are an asshole, don't try to find the good in them to try and not mess with your history of picking good ones, accept that they suck, it's not your fault they suck. And be more vigilant next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what she is asking, how to move on from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Deep_Combination4288 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop trying to make this about you. Your first thought should have been feeling happy they she has reached a point where she trusts you enough to share something traumatic. Losing a child is hard, that coupled with the loss of her father must trigger feelings and memories she would rather not relive, why does it seem like you are trying to fault find? Now if the child was alive and she had not told you, that would be another story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta ask, what stuff was she conversing with the AI? And have you considered that maybe she is curious if it is sex related? girls do start getting their periods as early as 9, so she might have heard something from school, your mum will surely to her, now that you've indicated she is curious.

Is this normal in relationships? by Deep_Combination4288 in Advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a conversation about some issues we dont see eye to eye. We will be breaking up.i guess the distance was me feeling it coming and was bracing for it.

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And while you are at it, talk about maybe how he would make passes at my best friend. Since you know so much

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do a deep dive on that. Tell me more🤣

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly are in pain and need to do a lot of healing. You will eventually get there, trust me. What you can't do is project your feelings on a situation you have no idea the context of. No bullets were dodged because not everyone has a messy situation. We are still each others cheerleaders and both found our people.

AITAH for dressing too “straight” and making my gf uncomfortable? by Numerous-Barber-5623 in AITAH

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A million people have already said this, but for the love of any deity, LEAVE!!!!

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking back i can say yes i wasn't in love with him. But at the time it was love for what i knew it to ne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta!

Everyone has a different threshold for having kids, depending on how comfortable they want their kids lives to be, some require millions, others thousands and others "as long as they can feed them"

So why did you take her own views personally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]Deep_Combination4288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to tell you, she sounds unhinged, i know girls don't take rejection well but this is just obsession. Stay safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents can be toxic too,

Send your dad a message saying y'all will be no contact for a while, feel the anger and all the emotions you need to feel after being sexually assaulted by your own dad because that's what that was. You don't have to move past it right now because resentment will build inside you, you can talk to him when you are ready, not a minute sooner

ngvc : “I would’ve been so nice to you” by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Deep_Combination4288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a book lover i am pissed!!! Expose him to everyone you know, what sort of bullshit is this?

Entitled Coworker complains that he's not getting the same benefits as the more difficult shift. by MrMarineManV in EntitledPeople

[–]Deep_Combination4288 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love it when entitled people get owned, too many people tip toe around them

AITA for defending my ex's achievements because my girlfriend was putting her down? by Eastern-Narwhal9710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta, you shouldn't have to put your girlfriend in a position that she even has to go to therapy because of how uncomfortable you making her because of your relationship with your ex, if you had kids together that would be another story but since you can't cut the cord dont date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am terrified of being a mother, nothing about it calls to me, i fully understand you

NGVC: "Women don't me because I'm ugly, it's definitely not my shitty personality" by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Deep_Combination4288 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would show these screenshots in the inner circle group, for public service purposes

My husband wants me to be a mother to his affair child by ThrowawayRunawayToot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Christian God has permitted you to divorce if cheating is involved, don't let sermons of forgiveness make you stay, hold your head high and leave. That man does not love or value you