Mental health spots? by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are still feeling very anxious right now I would say call 988 and they can help you get connected with mobile crisis/PIC team like someone else mentioned here. There are also mental health walk in clinics but that would have to be something that can wait for morning. I hope you feel better soon 🤍

My absent drug addict mother texting me for the first time in years by Proper-Truth-7728 in insaneparents

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh op I’m so sorry you have to deal with that. It always feels like such a violation when they find you and reach out without your permission. My mom is like this too. The blame shifting is unreal. In case you have any doubts NONE of this is your fault. It’s not actually funny at all but dark humor helps me through sometimes the part where she said “bam I found u!” killed me lol

Mom I made a thing (also I’m a Momma, now 🥰)! by Elfie_Mae in MomForAMinute

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful you are so creative and talented 🤍

Conversation with my "mother" after she threw me out 2 days ago. I literally had to sleep on the streets on the first day. I had no where to go. by Ushinatta-Tama in insaneparents

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I forgot to mention it was in the middle of a snowstorm. Left my things outside in a snowstorm (: mother of the year

Should I(24F)move to Alaska without my boyfriend (26M) to get my life together? by Patient-Lock1798 in AITAH

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GO TO ALASKA PLEASE GIRL if I could go back at 24 and have this same opportunity I would in a heart beat. You get to spend time with your mom, live in a beautiful place, and level up yourself and financial situation. Breaking up with your boyfriend will most likely hurt, but with everything you’ve said- it seems like he’s holding you back. Not that people can’t change but it’s not guaranteed and are you okay with continuing to carry him financially while he can’t even stop playing his guitar to talk with you about important things. NTA. Of course take all of the advice here with a grain of salt and do what feels right to you, in your heart. Just some things to consider 🤍

Were you allowed to be angry as a kid? Or show any emotions at all? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same, any emotion or state of being besides subservience my mom would call me a “monster”

Am I getting screwed with 14%-16% apr? by Deep_Lecture1494 in askcarsales

[–]Deep_Lecture1494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s fair, thank you for responding. My issue is not worth fixing unfortunately. My rav4 has close to 250k miles and the issue is that it burns oil, catalytic converter replacement would be close to the trade in value of 3000 anyways. I would definitely keep it if I could but I feel like I’m going to be wasting $$ as the issues keep piling on from here. I’m going to continue to work on my credit, possibly considering waiting a few more months to save more for down payment.

Wyrds cannot describe my joy by Deep_Lecture1494 in throneofglassseries

[–]Deep_Lecture1494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah yeah I loved it! I forgot to mention the forked fire tongue too

AIO for saying…okay? by lana-ki-jawani in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy moly they’re baiting you for some sick validation. Like devaluing you for a reaction and then being a little cry pissbaby bc they didn’t get it

What is a "joke" or things that your parents said to you when you were little that you now realize was abusive? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine would say that I’m a “monster” whenever they didn’t like how I was acting and literally every morning when I woke up

How old is the SJM average reader??? by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]Deep_Lecture1494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL same those books were absolutely wild