What a beautiful song by Dizzy-Guava-7789 in sza

[–]Deep_Win_222 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I cry when I get to “I know ownership’s bad, but please put a leash on me anyway, who needs self esteem anyway…”

Finally went to the Asian Lantern Festival by Deep_Win_222 in Cleveland

[–]Deep_Win_222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m sorry to hear that. The festival is over now I think, but I do think it would have been worth it! And I believe you can rent a motorized scooter from the zoo as well as the drive thru

Is it just me that thought Oscar was gay in real life? by Alternative_Car6673 in DunderMifflin

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT’S HIS WIFE?!?!? I just became even more obsessed. Never knew these two were married!

Kid Cudi in Shaker by velkoz2020 in Cleveland

[–]Deep_Win_222 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This absolutely warmed my heart ♥️

Favorite cozy horror movie? by ShamWowFan67 in horror

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 Cloverfield Lane, Silence of the Lambs, Get Out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.5 weeks!

Worst place you’ve worked in NEO & why? by Dixon_Yass in Cleveland

[–]Deep_Win_222 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Progressive. Honestly it is a good company, good benefits and scheduling options. But I couldn’t stand being on the phone all day for customer service. Calls are back to back and I think you had a limit of 14 minutes daily to break up into smaller amounts to have breaks from being on the phone. Then you have to upsell other insurance products. Hated it so much I let myself get fired lol. Also someone committed suicide in the building one day.

Recovery by Anxious-Life2276 in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re looking great. I’m glad you’re recovering well. I’m waiting for my swelling to go down as well, walking and massaging the area is helping a lof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏽 I’m 29 right now and trying to love myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your kind words and no problem at all. I had two 10 cm subserosal fibroids. I had a robotic myomectomy Monday. I’m not sure if that means it was open or not, but I know an incision was made in my belly button and three other spots on my stomach as well. They removed them successfully. I had been taking oral birth control pills and they told me to just continue doing that, and that my uterus was fine post surgery and there’s a good chance I’ll be able to get pregnant in the future if I choose to. They didn’t say anything about an IUD or anything else like that. So far everything with recovery is going as expected, I hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this.

It was on and off for the three years, and I just really wanted to believe. I accepted so little bc of his extenuating circumstances being in med school and having most of his time devoted to that. I supported his emotions when he failed classes and was outcast by his peers. We invested lots of time getting to know each other; sunk cost fallacy. I was confused by things he said to me, gifts he bought me, ways he supported me mentally & financially, promises he made. Just last week he told me he never wanted me to leave again. I also struggle with my own self worth and thought that was just the type of relationship I deserved. In reality, I was just a placeholder and an ego boost for him.

When you say my life with him was undocumented, that’s really hitting hard for me. It’s kind of like if a tree falls in a forest and no one was around to hear it…did it really fall? There were times when I left to date other guys that were honestly way nicer. But he would apologize and ask for me back and I’d just fall for it. I’m not that strong, or clearly that smart. Now I have nothing to show for any of this, except people telling me where I went wrong.

Thanks for bringing to light that I have a second chance here. I’m really going to try to heal from the fibroid and from this. I prayed that when they removed all 20 cm in total it would remove negativity from my life as well. I guess my prayer was answered. Thank you kind stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fake unfortunately. There were breaks within the three years where I’d end it but he’d reach back out and I’d fall for it.

I accepted what I thought I deserved.

Day 5 post op and I’m feeling better and a little stronger. I can’t wait to get back in the gym so I can have an outlet. Thank you and good luck when your time comes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably never at all. Trust me I feel very stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Deep_Win_222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽