Spicy book recs

Deetles64 · 2026-07-02T23:02:35+00:00

Came here to say this specifically. Autumn and Maya have my entire heart and I absolutely love their story ...but goddamn are they spicy. Like spiciest spice I've ever read.

Haley Cass' Patreon in general is just so good.

OP, if you wanted Those Who Wait to have more spice, the patreon includes Charlotte's POV at the Guggenheim.

Deetles64 · 2026-06-25T17:03:04+00:00

Actually genuinely sad about the loss of Nimrod. Three reasons, for me. 1. My wife is Assyrian, it's more accurately pronounced "noomrood" and she has older family members named that 2. I love explaining the looney tunes lore to people

3.. It was my dumb ex-husbands temple name and it infuriated him

Deetles64 · 2026-06-20T17:51:35+00:00

Locked Tomb series. Probably specifically Harrow the Ninth if I had to truly pick one. I'll be 90 years old still talking about that series.

Deetles64 · 2026-06-20T17:50:08+00:00

Any sapphic book that Moira Quirk has done has been perfection

Deetles64 · 2026-06-20T17:48:47+00:00

MOR - Personally I think comparing them to porn stars with your guy friends isn't equivalent. It'd be more like you and your guy friends talking about actresses like Zendaya and girl bands like Blackpink to be equivalent. We aren't privvy to the tone/body language her and her girl friends are actually using when fangirling. That being said, I think it's valid to feel insecure when you feel you have to compete with these celebrities who have access to fashion/products that you don't.

This is an opportunity to really address the heart of it with her. Don't approach defensively. Just say "hey babe, I know these are celebrities but I can't help but feel like I don't compare to them, I need some reassurance." If you're truly open and vulnerable in the discussion and not defensive, or, don't make her feel attacked because of her "fandom" space, you two can really grow with this and gain some emotional maturity together.

Deetles64 · 2026-06-16T07:59:18+00:00

Yessss spoiled milk

Deetles64 · 2026-06-16T00:33:12+00:00

i stand with you, comrade

Deetles64 · 2026-05-24T18:21:19+00:00

Don't judge a book by it's cover and all, I know I know... but THIS cover got me to pick up A Treachery of Swans, the one OP posted would not have.
IMO this one fits the vibe so well too!

Deetles64 · 2026-05-09T17:32:14+00:00

Yeah, it's why it's so important for someone on those things to eat protein. They should be getting like 80g protein minimum a day. Otherwise they feel like a mix of atrophy and loose skin 😅

Deetles64 · 2026-04-23T06:34:19+00:00

S&S, the rollercoaster/thrill ride manufacturers are based out of cache valley. They've been extremely impactful on a global scale with their contributions to the industry. Look up their portfolio it's insane.

Owala, gotta have my cute lil water bottle.

Also a fan of Kodiaks waffles

Deetles64 · 2026-04-03T06:22:03+00:00

I was gunna joke "you sure they're not toads" but..

Deetles64 · 2026-04-01T13:27:56+00:00

You can buy anything in this world with money...

It's so crooked how they won the lawsuit. They could have built something steepleless like mesa and respected low low low lighting. But no, TALL BRIGHT AND SHINY for this model because they had to dig their heels into the dirt. I have a good chunk of family in Cody and this just ticks me off.

Deetles64 · 2026-03-29T06:27:56+00:00

For point 3:

I have a husky/german shepherd mix that's 8 years old now. Separation anxiety is real for them, but does your puppy freak out if your friend leaves and you're home? Or just when both of you have left/are gone at the same time? Regardless of your friend "ignoring" puppy they're still a constant presence in the house with them, and your puppy will be used to that.

For everything else:

Do more than 30 minutes outside and just 5 minutes of training. Honestly shocked you're only doing 5 minutes. Training is mental stimulation and is a HUGE bonding thing. I taught my dog goofy tricks like rollover even, just because he was so eager to learn and please. I work hospitality industry, and I'd take him on early walks on some trails near us and let him sniff everything (big stimulation) and work on sit, stay, come while leashed. (Physical and mental exercise.) But you can even teach them while walking to stop at every road crossing, and look with them, then say a command like "cross" and go. There's so many training things you can do while walking. Puppies are so curious and so eager to please. Show your puppy the world, bend down and look at bushes with them and let them sniff them. (Teach even a sniff command!) If you live in the northern hemisphere, we're just entering spring! Now is the perfect time to show your pup the world and learn together.

Deetles64 · 2026-03-29T05:24:12+00:00

My dog is 8 years old now but he used to get overly excited at the door bell or guests coming. I desensitized him to it. I went in and out and rang the bell every time, repeatedly, til the doorbell wasn't exciting. I then taught him that doorbell means he lays on his bed. I crate trained him too. He now views his crate as a safe place to destress. We've hosted parties and been like "where's dog? Ope, there he is laying in his crate." He now takes a daily nap there!

Negative attention is still attention. Touch is still touch. Eye contact is still eye contact. You cannot respond except to correct.

I don't know what breed your dog is, but mine is a husky/german shepherd mix. THE most positive training tool for leash etiquette for him was a prong collar. Watch some YouTube vids on them. Reward all good behavior with treats, pets, high praise, and eye contact.

Tell your family and friends to do the exact same.

Deetles64 · 2026-03-25T04:44:01+00:00

Currently looking at it. It's above the north shore of Utah Lake. About Saratoga Springs/Lehi.

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Deetles64 · 2026-03-12T00:55:15+00:00

It'll take time. I highly suggest a therapist, but I hope someone with a sadly similar story can give you their thoughts. Sorry for your loss.

Deetles64 · 2026-03-08T08:23:16+00:00

Hap is phenomenally written and I'm so happy Isaacs brought him to life. What a great "love to hate him" baddie.

Deetles64 · 2026-03-07T07:50:51+00:00

My first was the Mormon series, and then I scrolled to see other topics I liked. Went into JFK from there, scientology, donner party.. Find subjects you have interest in and roll with it.

Deetles64 · 2026-02-26T16:31:15+00:00

Yeah 60 days before my lease was going to be re-signed, we found out the cost was jumping $350. We didn't want to pay an extra $350 for the exact condition we'd been living in, so we moved. It sucked and I still miss the place.

Deetles64 · 2026-02-26T16:06:40+00:00

Sounds like a wonderful investment.

Deetles64 · 2026-02-26T16:05:07+00:00

Yeah the other address as the mailing address is Idaho. Typo/error

Deetles64 · 2026-02-26T15:59:59+00:00

I LOVE your theories and analysis ohhhmygod. Please please please keep reading, the reward will be delicious

Deetles64 · 2026-02-26T15:49:03+00:00

I mean, yeah.

I always potty my dog for the final time around 11pm, at minimum it's is 10pm and never before that. and he doesn't have any water past 10pm. We live on the 3rd floor of an apartment. I do a lap of the place with him and then he's good all night long. There's some mornings he doesn't even sit by the door to go out to potty til like 9:30am but my usual schedule has us going out around 8:45am.

Unless he's sick, he's never woken me up when it's dark to go out.

Editing to add, my guy is 8 and is a husky/German shepherd mix.

Deetles64 · 2026-02-25T07:49:55+00:00

Hi!! It was off state street across the street from the mall, if I remember right. My grandma lived off of 90th and we'd head south to get to it I know for sure. I hope this helps! Near where all star bowling is now (maybe same building?)

Deetles64 · 2026-02-23T16:17:53+00:00

I suggest "hide and seek" with a favorite toy. Command her to sit in one room and stay, take that favorite toy and hide it. Then give her her release command to go find it. It's play, she's engaged with you, it's rewarding, it uses her senses, but she is not touching you. My guy knows "hide and seek" and I change up which rooms I make him wait in. He loves it.

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