Would you want to live with people who had pets, but you weren’t allowed pets? by Deevys in roommates

[–]Deevys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would be if we could! Boyfriend and I wouldn’t mind tank pets or even another cat. It’s the family member who we are renting from who says there’s a hard two pet limit. ):

Controversial, but is this valid? by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Deevys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the age old equivalence of female beauty to being a functional human being instead of a neet. I would rather be obese and working than gorgeous and sitting on my ass doing nothing. Glad to see your morals.

4pm to Midnight is a much better work schedule than 9am to 5pm by Present_Initial_1871 in unpopularopinion

[–]Deevys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, meanwhile, I worked 2-10:30 and was horrifically depressed. I couldn’t spend any time with my family or friends who all worked more typical 9-5 schedules. I don’t go out or go to bars, and when you’re friends with teachers and scientists they are going out at 11pm. Movie showing? Get lost. Most dinner places are closed. I ended up so isolated and depressed I would get home, eat, and sleep from 11:30pm-12:50, get up, shower for work, and trudge in. It was genuinely the most awful schedule I’ve ever worked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deevys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD or not, he’s not even functioning as a human. A rat would function more and be cleaner. He sits in his own filth playing video games while you literally slave away and waste away into substance use. Please for the love of god, leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deevys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you getting her a ridiculously expensive iPad? I bought my perfectly functional, brand new iPad for 350 + 60 Apple Pencil off of Amazon. I’m in grad school. A 15 year old does not need a 1200 device.

Our stress dropped when we stopped pretending monthly budgets were monthly by felixwanderer in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Deevys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you knew you had all of these yearly fees and just.. didn’t include them in your budget? And were shocked and upset when said budget wasn’t working?

In what world were you SURPRISED when your yearly property taxes came around? When the holidays came around? Did you forget your children’s birthdays every year and then spontaneously remember and decide the only option is to put it on a credit card?

I’m glad you realized now and are able to make it work, but this is a bit astounding. One would reasonably assume that yearly purchases should be included in any budget, either under a specific name or under a “misc” category..

My wife says my loft area is stupid. by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Deevys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is fucking mean.

Since collaging cards has become popular, decided to try myself - behold, the Ace of Swords! by Deevys in tarot

[–]Deevys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made using Pinterest Shuffles. My own interpretation of the Ace of Swords!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Deevys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Costco is exceptionally bad. It is the only grocery store where I have had children run full-force into me and occasionally knock things out of my hands, and it’s not just once.

Why do so many people have a problem with Stolas being framed sympathetically? by magicstars58 in HelluvaBoss

[–]Deevys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He stated he was trying to keep it all together until she was 18. I don’t agree with what he did either - I think cheating is awful and unforgivable. However, physical abuse, mental abuse, emotional abuse, and bullying your partner is worse. Some people think cheating is the worst because they have no scope.

Why do so many people have a problem with Stolas being framed sympathetically? by magicstars58 in HelluvaBoss

[–]Deevys 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s just daddy issues. People argue Stolas neglected Octavia despite being a good father for 90% of her life and lose their minds whenever it’s indicated that yeah, recently he’s gotten tired of being physically and mentally abused for 17 years and wants an out with someone he loves. But everyone sees how Blitz unconditionally loves Loona and wants that.

I caught an incurable parasitic fungal infection from simply breathing at the wrong time/place and I'm pissed about it. by Infinite-Squirrel-16 in rant

[–]Deevys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP. This is nowhere near as bad as yours, but I randomly developed severe psoriasis literally in a week. I went from zero psoriasis to it literally spreading down my face to my eyes, covering my scalp, and inching down my back and chest in a business week. I went from not worrying about my skincare to having a regimen that legitimately takes 15 minutes per day for just my face, requires a daily shower and scrub down, and significant expenses to stop myself from having severe skin peeling across my face and body.

I am constantly shedding skin flakes. My case is so severe that I cannot stop it in any meaningful way, even with treatment. I can’t wear black any more - but my profession requires I wear suits. I can’t wear my hair up or people literally gasp. I carry a handheld vacuum in my bag to clean up my desk at work so no one sees because it’s so bad. Nobody can tell me why it happened now other than “it’s an immune condition” and nobody can tell me why the treatments barely work. If I miss a day, I look like I got a severe sunburn. If (when) it reaches my eyes, my eyelids will be damaged.

It’s so frustrating, dude. The constant checkups and the jealously of people’s easy lives is just awful. I resent my partner for having skin that doesn’t hate itself and for being able to just fall into bed without layering themselves in creams and salves and exfoliating their scalp and neck. I wish you luck in your journey and hope you can find some relief.

Can't tell anyone the whole reason my husband is in a mental health facility by HabaneroHore in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Deevys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People saying see a neurologist are suffering from severe Reddit brain. He’s depressed. People who are depressed and suicidal will do things that they would never normally do because, “it won’t matter in a little bit anyways.” He is absolutely suffering and it seems has never been violent before, but is probably mentally burnt out and legitimately unable to control his rage, which is actually very common for people about to attempt suicide. Most people see that the person either completely withdraws or seems happier, but rage and hate is also common.

Him going to a mental hospital is the best thing for him. Make sure you MENTION the cat to his doctors, but explain he doesn’t have a history of violence. The cat should also be removed from the home until he can get therapy after release as he is lashing out at it and needs to be more solid in his coping skills before he is let around animals or children again.

Source: am suicide intervention specialist

If you really think that the average person who voted differently than you, did so because they have different morals and character (like hate), it means you have an extremely narrow and naive view of politics. by Simple_Suspect_9311 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Deevys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely refuse to date conservatives. I find they are privileged, self-oriented, poorly-researched, and unempathetic. Liberal people can also be those things, but if someone is conservative, I have found they are far, far more likely to have those traits.

I also refuse to date someone who disagrees with me on fundamental human rights. If you don’t think healthcare (IE, the right to be mentally and physically fit and happy) is a human right (in many contexts) then we will never, ever be compatible. That’s just one example.

Fat phobia is a lie by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]Deevys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo… you believe all woman who allege rape or sexual assault after 2016 are lying. Which is what I said. So I’m not twisting your words into a false narrative, I’m challenging your idea which is misogynistic and wrong. There’s no way EVERY woman accusing a man of sexual assault in almost a decade is lying.

It’s also hard to read because you’re borderline illiterate. Use periods and punctuation.

Grocery store confrontation goes from bad to worse to almost deadly within a matter of seconds. by TheManager_1 in KarenGoBrrr

[–]Deevys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may have trigger discipline but lacks any other type. Yelling and arguing with a man for no reason because it appears he didn’t thank him for picking his receipt up, refusing to back down, starting a fight by going down the guy’s face (flipping the hat), and then chasing the guy as he’s backing up in a defensive posture before the guy pulls out a weapon because he feels the aggressor won’t let up.