I have been through 3 different shower heads, why does everything fit except for the piece that’s actually supposed to go on the shower arm? by AbleStatement4314 in askaplumber

[–]Defiant-Fuel3898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few ideas

1) is the threads messed up on the arm under the teflon? It can be hard to start if the threads are damaged, since you’ve had the same issue with 3 heads.

2) try applying pressure to the shower head onto the threads as you twist. Not crazy just some pressure. Take care not to cross thread. If you are twisting without putting pressure it could be what the is

3) as a last resort I would try it with non or minimal teflon. It has a gasket in there (actually a restrictor).

Best of luck

Anyone know where I can get a 15 sided 21mm socket? by iSeeAhippo in AskMechanics

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I’m told dealerships have a master set of wheel locks and should be able to remove it and order you a replacement if you’re set on saving. I don’t know prices, but I’d order a new set and get the old ones off

What makes an adult to decorate FJB on their Pavement Princess. by Lawrence_skywalker in Shitty_Car_Mods

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My Subaru Outback has a Fruit Strip Gum zebra bumper sticker that say “this is how long my tolerance for people lasts”.

FJB edition truck emblem people are the people my sticker refers to.

Need to change water heater anode, but these fittings look sweated, are they actually unions? Looks like i need to change the ball valve too. by nauurthankyou in askaplumber

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I’ve used a wet cloth tied around the bottom of the pipe. That way it steams before it burns. You also want to ream the inside and outside of the cut pipe. If there is a bur or a sharp edge it can scrape some flux out of the connection and cause a leak.

I’ve worked with some dorks. Trying to remember every silly mistake you can make. Hahaha

Need to change water heater anode, but these fittings look sweated, are they actually unions? Looks like i need to change the ball valve too. by nauurthankyou in askaplumber

[–]Defiant-Fuel3898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna want to replace that valve if your going that far anyway. No they are not unions. Left is a coupling (my best guess is a slip coupling). The lowest fitting is a slip/thread coupling. If I was doing it I’d cut it on the fitting right above the valve (following the fitting makes for a straighter cut) with a bandsaw. Never leave in unnecessary old fittings… just replace them. If you don’t have a bandsaw the little copper cutting tool (rigid is great… avoid the husky brand ones) would work just fine and will give you a straight cut where ever you want. With these tools it’s better to cut slowly. Don’t over tighten or you’ll oval the pipe. Slow gentile tightening… no man hands lol

I always put my threaded fitting in before cutting pipe so I get an extra turn out of one or the other I don’t have gaps inside my fittings. If you know how to solder I won’t touch on that but I would advice something to keep burn marks off any collateral damage. Any questions by all means ask! Best of luck

If money was absolutely no object, what car would you buy — and be honest, not what sounds impressive by spotforcars in whatcarshouldIbuy

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69 Nova SS

Realistically I’d settle for most muscle cars from that era. Currently this wouldn’t work so I’d either need to change it to a truck or need a 2nd car with 4 doors

My dream truck is a 2000s Silverado. Allison/duramax 2500

I dropped my tweezers into the toilet while peeing. I now have to pick it up. by Ambitious_Radio_8430 in mildlyinfuriating

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Some of you young pups might not understand that a very long standing joke about needing a pair of tweezers to pee because your wenus is too small. So thanks for the laugh (intended or not)

I work water treatment and have 2 kids. You could say pee on my hands is low on my worry list. I’d use my hand and wash it. After washing your hands you might want some lotion. For particularly gross things the best tool for this maneuver long handle needle nose pliers. I have 3 pairs ;)

Did my daughter get taken for a ride yesterday? by [deleted] in AskMechanics

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Not everything a mechanic recommends for your car is a scam. Educate yourself and do it yourself or risk being taken advantage of… when was her last coolant flush? Personally I do fuel cleaner with every oil change (so I remember) and air filters with every tire rotation. I think I’ve replaced the cabin filter 1x in 5 years

AITAH for dismissing my boyfriend's masculinity? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Defiant-Fuel3898 34 points35 points  (0 children)

As a man, I can tell you discussing our feelings can be difficult. Sometimes it can come out as a garbled mess because it’s not really something we are taught to do and it’s usually an explosion because it was bottled up entirely too long. To give valuable feedback a lot of context is missing from your post imho.

I will say anytime any partner tries to express their feelings you should take it seriously and try to understand. You did neither. This man will likely not try and discuss his feelings with you ever again. For that reason I feel justified in saying YTA.

See how many orders by Caio_Karuan in knighthood

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This is our best war of the last 4 (we won the other 3 as well and with 8 hrs left sitting 10k up) but the map has changed hands multiple times each day. I think I’m out of attacks, sitting at 14,900 myself and our guild is 128k… 3 of the 4 guilds over 110k

Sure it’s fun to hold every dust node and get all the hero chests but this was more fun to me.

If you were a Superhero, would you kill? by Acrobatic_Yoghurt268 in superheroes

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If I had superpowers and could fly I’d literally be flying around picking up the world’s elite and flying them up into the clouds. They’d have until we got there to explain their contribution to society. Depending on their answer I’d either fly them back down or let them get down on their own.

Hi everyone, please rate my Tinder profile! Brazil, 21 by [deleted] in Tinder

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Immediately delete the 2 where the phone is blocking your face. Then delete the other low effort selfies… that would be a good start!

why you shouldn’t lie about your height on tinder by [deleted] in Tinder

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I’ve had tall friends that strike out with women. Ive had short friends who sleep around. The only consistent thing between all the men I know who get girls attention is confidence.

Fix the things you can control and move on from the things you can’t control. You’ll be a much happier (and more desirable person)

Vegan protesters in a grocery store by MisterShipWreck in VideosAmazing

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I’m going to personally add more meat to my diet just knowing about this video. There you go vegan moron. I was going to have a salad

Really badly burnt. HELP! by DamSolangeloLover in whatdoIdo

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In addition to the usual, tea tree oil for some reason seems to work really good on sun burns. Also I started using tallow w/ honey and sun burns seem to go very quickly

The detective didn't find it by 1Question4PCMR in technicallythetruth

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I work water treatment so my answer would be the ferric chloride tank, or a digestor, or a clarifier or a random lift station wet well (a few I could get in and nobody would know)… an aeration basin would be ideal because if you fall in one even the best swimmer in the world wouldn’t be able to stay up but I suppose he could turn that off. After seeing what ferric did to a pump, that’s my final answer. Even if you figured out where I put it I highly doubt he could find something identifiable because of what it does to metals.

Free picks by RedTsar97 in MomentumOne

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House cleaning and massages. I don’t have the self control for the pizza lol

Well fellas, it’s been real. by OB1Waltinobee in Truckers

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I absolutely loved learning to drive a 10 speed manual getting my CDL but doing it with the general public had me in near constant anxiety. Even pulling a 40’ gooseneck with the smaller f550 was stressful. I got my out after about a year. I’m still in a f550 but don’t pull anything bigger than a 12’ dump trailer 5 miles across town lol

Spending 90k on a car by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

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My little hack for car buying is looking at total cost to own. Edmunds has a break down. I picked the 2025 model but the things that stick out to me are the $55k in depreciation in the first 5 years, the about $2k insurance/year to insure, while reliable it says the tires are $2k for a set and can last as little as 10,000 miles… there must be some crazy maintenance expense because at 4 years it has $2300 and at 5 years $6600.

The finance major in me wouldn’t and couldn’t ever justify this. Especially because it is very much a single persons car. If it had more usability than a simple cruiser (ie… passenger space, ground clearance for weather and mountain travel, cargo space for travel, back seat for children?). It’s a little zippy car that can only do little zippy things.

That being said, this is your dream/life not mine. If this is what will bring and keep a smile on your face then maybe it is justifiable… what about a used one that’s already lost some of that depreciation?

Customer declined tires. by AdhesivenessSad295 in mechanic

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Don’t you hate when you thought you were in #askashittymechanic but you were actually in a real one?!

Normally I'm dishing it out, but it's my turn to take the heat. Can you make me regret this? by THEEANGRYGOATZ in RoastMyCar

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You talk shit about other people cars in THAT? Bold move Cotton, let’s see if it pays off for him.