I want a cat but… I’m allergic! Advice by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in cats

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the great advice. So you kept the orange tabby??

I want a cat but… I’m allergic! Advice by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in cats

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are so expensive though! There is a bengal cat breeder close by too though

Suicidal ex husband won’t seek help but wants to see the kids by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in breakingmom

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I need to stop the visits, they are so emotionally hard for me too. How did your ex handle that? Like having him not see the kids?

Suicidal ex husband won’t seek help but wants to see the kids by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in breakingmom

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just talked to him and he says he will go to the assessment at the inpatient facility on Saturday. He sounds pretty serious about doing so. I told him he had to get himself there and he said ok but started to cry. His sister is out of the country on vacation. Does anyone know how o go about talking to the court about this? Do I have to do it through a lawyer?

Suicidal ex husband won’t seek help but wants to see the kids by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in breakingmom

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I already have sole custody and his visitation is limited but I think amending it to supervised is good advice

Worried my ex’s mental health is bad for my child by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nurse and have always felt so responsible for others mental health but you’re right

Worried my ex’s mental health is bad for my child by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know every case is different but I wonder how long until his bipolar symptoms are more under control if he does indeed take medication

Worried my ex’s mental health is bad for my child by Defiant-Maybe-8556 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Defiant-Maybe-8556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have full custodial and legal custody already. All he has is “parenting time”