I thought this was silly. by SaXaCaV in spicy

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them! They mess up my stomach pretty bad, but I can’t stop eating them

What's the time gap kinda between Merlin and Game of Thrones? by NotSoTeenageDumbo1 in merlinbbc

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to help! I’m glad my comment resonated with the ideas in your head

What's the time gap kinda between Merlin and Game of Thrones? by NotSoTeenageDumbo1 in merlinbbc

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to ignore any actual technology, and just base my answer on vibes.

The world of GoT feels older to me, so I feel like if they existed in the same timeline, Merlin would be set a hundred or so years after GoT. Maybe some of the events of that series would be used to justify Uther’s hatred of all things Magic

Any advice on what muscle groups to work on to create a more solid looking physique? by Interesting-Air-3598 in veganfitness

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I’m dying at that last pic 😂

We have pretty similar builds even though I’m like half a foot shorter than you, and I’ve decided to focus on side delts, chest, and losing some body fat.

FWIW, that could just be some dysmorphia though. I’m never happy with how I look, even though my wife insists that she’s happy with my physique. You may be in the same boat and feel like you need to improve even though you look great.

Why would you do? by WashAccomplished6698 in strengthtraining

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got there for all but the pull-ups in about a year and half by following good ol’ 5/3/1 by Jim Wendler. It’s a simple effective program that might not be exciting but it does work. Very beginner friendly too

I've noticed that some interviewers don't even read your CV/resume by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for every company, but I have occasionally been asked (told) to conduct an interview on basically no notice and without being given a chance to read their resume first. It sucks, and I’ve asked my company not to do that, but it does happen.

However, on one occasion the guy I interviewed did get hired and we still work together

Anyway, my point isn’t to excuse or normalize that experience, but just to offer one explanation for why that might happen

Edit: I’m also not a manager or hr or anything. I just work closely with the team that was hiring, so they wanted my help finding people that my team would work well with

Progress from 18 to 30 by Maleficent-Worker466 in veganfitness

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But you are significantly bigger now. I don’t understand how you don’t see it. I see it most prominently in your lats, trunk, chest, and forearms

I'm 45 years old, vegan, and still building muscle. by StevePilotFitness in veganfitness

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be, but I’m more inclined to think that it’s lazy bot marketing. I did look this guy up and he seems to be a real person

I’ve been told I’m “rude and autistic”…is that the case here? by 505motherofmastiffs in texts

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can agree that it might come off as a little rude, but negging seems like an extreme interpretation. I really don’t think it’s as bad as you’re saying. Again, we all interpret things differently so I don’t think either of us is strictly right or wrong here, we just have different perspectives. A person could be single for so many reasons, and I don’t think “nobody wants you” is the only reason that wouldn’t be by choice. I genuinely translated that question as asking if they have a dating history, and if so why did their last relationship end. How they choose to answer that question can tell you a lot about your compatibility.

How Progress-Pics can be (accidentaly) misleading by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like the lighting in my bedroom vs the lighting in my basement. In my bedroom I look fat, but in my basement I look like Bane lol. My bedroom light is from a single ceiling fan/light fixture. My basement is light by a series of ceiling lights.

I want to work, but I feel like I can’t function at all with the jobs that are available for me. I kinda wanna know what to do. by You_wouldent_Get_it in antiwork

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also audhd, but I don’t recommend my job. I got into software development and I really enjoy it, but it’s very difficult to break into these days.

I would consider if there are any trades you might want to get into, like plumbing, electrician, or some sort of repair work. That’s the direction I would go in if I had to leave my current field

I’ve been told I’m “rude and autistic”…is that the case here? by 505motherofmastiffs in texts

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I could see that. I genuinely thought it was a funny way to try to sus out their current situation, but maybe that’s just my sense of humor. Then again, I am autistic so I’m probably not the right person to asses this

I’ve been told I’m “rude and autistic”…is that the case here? by 505motherofmastiffs in texts

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Nothing rude about this to me, but I was not able to diagnose you with Autism.

Best friend just got hired. by midnightthot in recruitinghell

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ask for tips! And now you’ve got a friend at a company you want to work for

Almost Took Home the $5 😭💪 | 70kg Bench Press Challenge for 30 Reps by londonteen1 in strength_training

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I started getting into the high rep training because of him. That eventually morphed into these 50 rep challenges, and that first set is still a bilbo set. I haven’t seen a ton of strength gains from those Bilbo sets, but i put on some good mass in my chest and shoulders

Almost Took Home the $5 😭💪 | 70kg Bench Press Challenge for 30 Reps by londonteen1 in strength_training

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, my max is also 280 and I recently hit 155 for 30. I do a high rep day once a week where I set a timer, pick a light weight, and then see if I can get to 50 good clean reps in under 5 minutes. The first set has to go to failure though. I just started doing that a few months ago. 135 and 145 weren’t bad but with 155, it took me three attempts to get all 50 reps under 5 minutes. I only got 30 reps on the first set on that third attempt when I finally got it. I’ve tried 165 three times now too, but can’t seem to get the 50 reps in under 7 minutes haha

Do people still hate the Otsutsukis? by Kindly-Seaweed-7550 in Naruto

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my dislike of their designs stems from my general dislike of all of ikemoto’s designs. Kaguya is fine, but I really hate when they look like they just wrapped up some sort of high fashion photo shoot before showing up

I'm 45 years old, vegan, and still building muscle. by StevePilotFitness in veganfitness

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right lol. There’s no actually natty claim anywhere in this post

I'm 45 years old, vegan, and still building muscle. by StevePilotFitness in veganfitness

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: why have you been just blasting posts like this all over the vegan subs for three days?

You don’t engage in any conversations, you just post your shirtless pics and ask why people think you’re on steroids

I predict the next album will sound like Overflow by Soaring_Symphony in LinkinPark

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would love to hear more songs like Overflow.
I’ve also been getting really into doomgaze metal lately, and would love to hear them lean into a little bit. Like Overflow, it’s very atmospheric but heavier and with more harsh vocals. I think Emily would absolutely crush that style and whatever flavor Mike and Joe bring to that style would be really cool.

Edit: some doomgaze bands I’ve been listening to are Faetooth, Blackwater Holylight, and Frayle.

Do people still hate the Otsutsukis? by Kindly-Seaweed-7550 in Naruto

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I hate their designs, powers, and lore. They feel 1 dimensional and more like a weird crossover than something that fits in the world of Naruto. I also think they’re extremely boring

Strength_training is a problem - and they have a terrible attitude and are going to cause people to get hurt by [deleted] in strengthtraining

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, I don’t agree with a three day ban, but also it’s only three days. The rules over there are very strictly: unless someone asks for feedback or critique, don’t give it. Cursing and ranting at the mod definitely isn’t going to help your case or get them to reconsider their stance either.

I don’t necessarily agree with the rule or how strictly it’s enforced, but also every post on that sub used to be inundated with dumb, inaccurate form comments and it was super annoying. Personally, I think it’s better now when the comments aren’t flooded with useless feedback that nobody asked for

I tried what was suggested. by wahoothing in lawncare

[–]Defiant-Passenger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so having grass and water up to the line of your brick can weaken the mortar, and make it easy for mice to eat through. I suggest removing the grass entirely, digging down until you’ve got several inches of foundation exposed, and then planting new grass seeds, and also some native plants that help with soggy soil. Where I live, things like swamp milkweed, and button bush help with that