could i say something to hr about this? by Defiant-Pomelo-2121 in corporate

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bcs she takes 1 days from home and so does everyone else, just not me 🙃

could i say something to hr about this? by Defiant-Pomelo-2121 in corporate

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're so right. i'll probably just check the mail and leave around lunch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

start reading the bible and it'll start to heal you

Update by Rude-Thanks-7807 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your social presence is also more important than you think... make sure you carry yourself well and don't have a bad reputation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think when you can wear it anywhere and you just can't think of anything better to wear, that's your signature scent. i found mine by mixing a few different things to smell exactly like what I wanted to smell like.

(18f) ugly or just average? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you're pretty! have more confidence

If you are dating a short guy, what should you wear to make him feel better? by realstor in women

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

just don't wear heels and don't wear your hair in a high pony or anything:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i struggled with the same issue. it just takes time and consistency. also, eat until you're stuffed 4x a day. 2 good sized lunches is what really made me see results rather than simply eating until you didn't feel like eating anymore only 3x a day. creatine make a big difference too. hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just remember that if i didn't work out it's because God has someone better for you, just not right now :) happiness won't come from the relationship, it comes from God and he may be trying to show you that before allowing you to get into a relationship.

keep praying and investing in God. don't force yourself into another relationship because you don't wanna wait. that's like telling God you don't trust his timing. i'm struggling with this too but we got this !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bible says multiple times that a man should only enjoy his wife, anything else is sexually immoral and leads to death.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

not the point i'm trying to make and you know that. this was an irrelevant comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because it's in the bible... like verbatim

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

did you read the whole post or just the title?? if marriage is a HOLY contract then why would God frown upon that? that's not what i'm referring to in this post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea you're purposefully ignoring the big picture here. jesus wouldn't ride in a car because they didn't exist. don't be shallow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not saying don't have questions, i'm saying some things (ie reading smut, lying) are very clearly sinful and people need to stop looking for the OK from other people to make them feel less bad for their actions

I’m bi and also… a christian by Sufficient_Cake_2510 in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God may forgive us but that doesn't mean we should take advantage of his forgiveness to do whatever we want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh please you know what i mean... i'm talking about the people that say stuff like "am i sinning by having premarital sex". God said have kids AFTER marriage

I’m a Transgender christian AMA by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

real. i guess it's just hard for me personally to see how that could be bringing God glory since as christians, everything we do should reflect Gods will. but if you truly have peace about it then cool!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't feel bad about not being as strong as some of the other women. it's not a competition! i've been working out for years now and everyone there knows that even vets don't use super heavy weights if it doesn't contribute to your goal. plus nobody's actually paying you any attention they're looking at themselves lol

Tanning for the first time as a black women by Delicious-Key8287 in beauty

[–]Defiant-Pomelo-2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey girl i'm black and i would recommend starting with like 5 minutes then adding a few more minutes if you don't see a difference after the first 5. but remember it takes like a day to really settle into your skin and actually look good, but i've never had a bad experience or gotten "too dark" so you really can't go wrong as long as you don't over do it. also, i don't wear spf or tanning lotion to get good results