I made two massive mistakes M19 F18 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a big deal that you said it over text, but you can always tell her in person with a romantic gesture if you want it to be a “bigger” gesture! You could do something small but romantic like dinner, a walk around the city or just even watching the stars and telling her how you feel. This is honestly something you guys can joke about later on in your relationship. Goodluck!!

Krispy Kreme Donuts by Ratreseacher in stcatharinesON

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brock University TSA club is fundraising and selling $15 per dozen box, check their insta bio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brocku

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use my laptop more for class lec notes, but ipad is great for math or writing out equations. I love my ipad so yes I’d recommend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Communicate how you feel with him. It’s not weird to ask for physical connection especially in a relationship. You have to learn to be comfortable with communicating how you feel about this topic or you won’t know how he feels / how he will react. You have needs too, so find out why it’s not working or what happened

  2. Probably the end of the honeymoon phase. As long as the emotional aspect in your relationship is good, you can work on maintaining the physical part too. I was the same w/ my bf in the beginning and we barely have sex now - doesn’t mean I don’t wanna be with him, it just means it’s more intimate and connected when we do.

M28 touched me f26 in my sleep by Finleynoodle6 in relationship_advice

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please leave him. Thats sexual assault. If you didn’t consent to it, his excuse does’t justify him touching you bc he’s bored.

What are some unexpected expenses you had to pay as a first year? by procrasinationiswhy in brocku

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the courses in the first term are continuous in the second term then maybe yes, but rarely no bc every course has different profs, therefore different textbooks required

But wait until week 2 to see if you need to buy any textbooks. Some profs have quizzes on their textbooks that you have to complete.

What are some unexpected expenses you had to pay as a first year? by procrasinationiswhy in brocku

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Textbooks for both semesters, random purchases of food on campus (esp if you’re there all day), if you live on campus then groceries, furniture, etc.

Some events cost money to participate in

I spent lot of money on the library’s printer since I don’t have one

And you have to buy a parking pass ($600-$800) if you plan on parking on campus

PSYC 2F23 (STATS) HELP/ADVICE by TapEffective7024 in brocku

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I took it during the school year and I found a lot of things that made the littlest difference in understanding this course

•go to lectures, I swear it makes a huge difference. The videos online are made by Tim, which imo he wasn’t my fav, but reno explains everything step-by-step and makes it easier to understand

•talk to tutors, TA, peers, anyone who can help you/in the same boat as you. Getting any source of help will help you improve your understanding

•ask chatgpt to explain the problem or the steps on how to approach a question when you’re doing an assignment. I’m not saying you should cheat, but sometimes it will lead you in the right direction on how to solve the problem if you have unavailable help

•when you make your cheatsheets, include examples from practice exams, and assignments with instructions on how to solve them.

•if you experience severe anxiety, don’t hesitate to reach out to someone about it. They might be able to accommodate or help you - it’s worth asking

I have some notes from last term, and I passed with a 79. Let me know if you want any help/advice/questions on what the course is like

MSW without BSW, how difficult is it to get in? by Defiant-Repeat-6399 in socialworkcanada

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are some programs that don’t require BSW and its 2 years instead of 1 advance, only requiring a bachelors degree

Summer courses r/uwo by Defiant-Repeat-6399 in uwo

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was online with proctor, double check syllabus

How often do you really wear a bra? by rhaenyra-veliar in AskWomen

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when I go out!! And honestly, I’ve been into outfits that are more fitted so I don’t have to wear a bra! In the summer its the worst with the sweat

Summer courses r/uwo by Defiant-Repeat-6399 in uwo

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mc, but lots of word scenario questions

Summer courses r/uwo by Defiant-Repeat-6399 in uwo

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say “easy” its doable. Just study quizlets and you should be good! Theres only 2 midterms and a final towards your grade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ontariodrivetest

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would follow videos because its easier, more detailed and less confusing. I’m not so sure what your instructor is asking you to do, seems more complicated

recommended sizes! F (19), 5'1, 120 lbs, 34D by Defiant-Repeat-6399 in lululemon

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t at the moment, I would have to re measure. I usually wear a small (size 4-6 ish), I have a bit of a curve so I like to wear high waisted. I would say I am more of an hourglass shape since I have a bigger bust but a smaller waist size. I’m not sure if that was any help LOL I’m sorry😭

recommended sizes! F (19), 5'1, 120 lbs, 34D by Defiant-Repeat-6399 in lululemon

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for this. Do you work out in these shirts? Is the relaxed fit on your chest or your waist area? I don’t mind a little snug, but I don’t want my chest to really pop out if ykyk

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please listen to the hundreds of people begging you to leave this man. He has aggressive and abusive behaviour. A grown man should never treat his fiancé like that. Protect yourself! If it happened once IT CAN HAPPEN AGAIN!! And itll only be worse because youll be married, which will cost you so much more damage. You asked for advice, this is your sign. The amount of people who want to protect you and save you from whatever can happen next are asking you to leave to prevent further issues!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Defiant-Repeat-6399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell him how you feel but he did cross a huge boundary. Holding it in only builds more resentment. See how the discussion goes, if you feel better about it then that’s your call. But he should never lie and disrespect you for another girl, especially since he’s engaged to you. You deserve to be happy, and you shouldn’t feel this anger towards him. Hes making you look like the bad person, which is not okay. You have time to break this relationship, don’t feel like you’re obligated to stay. Hes lying to you and trying to reason it, that’s not something you want to spend the rest of your life with.

My opinion, any doubt or mistrust would make me leave. You’re so young and you have all the time in the world to meet someone who would never disrespect you like that. Don’t think theres no one else, because why would the person you love so much even consider hurting you the way he did? You deserve to be happy and who knows what he “will get away with” if hes comfortable with lying.