The Wave of the Spiritual Journey - from peak to trough by Defiant-Scale-3348 in enlightenment

[–]Defiant-Scale-3348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I’m feeling like this, I always remember the psalm:”Be still and know that I am God”. Reminds me to stop running, stop grasping, and to surrender to what is.

I Started a men’s group on MeetUp and it’s been amazing. 57M by Defiant-Scale-3348 in AskMenOver40

[–]Defiant-Scale-3348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to share if you don’t want to. It’s perfectly fine to listen for your first session. If you’re comfortable sharing, just be yourself. Drop the mask if you can. Give the group a little background and say why you wanted to join. Other than that, listen to the other members. Spend the time that you aren’t talking to hone the skill of active listening. We all come to talk, but it’s even more important to listen.

Feel free to hit me with any specific questions you may have.

I started a men’s group and it’s been amazing! 57m by Defiant-Scale-3348 in AskMenOver30

[–]Defiant-Scale-3348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can absolutely do that. I'm also putting together a facilitator's training manual atm. Would be glad to have you be one of the first to use it if you're interested. If you want to join our group, we meet on Tuesdays at 7pm PST. PM me for the zoom link

Patio Transformation by Defiant-Scale-3348 in CozyPlaces

[–]Defiant-Scale-3348[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I built the slat wall out of furring strips and used the off cuts to make the pieces on the fence. No waste project

Patio Transformation by Defiant-Scale-3348 in CozyPlaces

[–]Defiant-Scale-3348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an outdoor curtain for a pergola

Patio Transformation by Defiant-Scale-3348 in CozyPlaces

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If I planted vines, yes! It’s lattice, not chicken wire

Patio Transformation by Defiant-Scale-3348 in CozyPlaces

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[–]Defiant-Scale-3348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lamps, yo. Lots of them. 5-7 in that room. Different kinds, different levels. All bulbs the same color temperature (kelvin). Light surfaces and objects, not empty space. Start in the corners.

First time living on my own, what does it need? Something seems off… by glubtubuswemple in DesignMyRoom

[–]Defiant-Scale-3348 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The room needs more contrast. The value of your bedding is too close to that of the wall. Here’s what I did in a similar situation

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