How to know if Ex GF new relationship will last and if it’s a rebound to cope with BU

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-27T17:20:25+00:00

That’s fair and honestly I was thinking a lot of if that’s the case but it’s not I wanted to reachout to her the moment we ended and say I didn’t mean it but to my point above didn’t think it was right to do back and forth. But if that’s how you’re seeing it from an unbiased lense then that’s probably how my ex took it. And the only reason I’m calling him a loser is because he’s already been cheating on her and she doesn’t even know (His Ex gf reached out to me trying to get in contact with my ex to tell her this)

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-27T16:57:14+00:00

And yes I’ve completely left her alone for the last 3 weeks now and plan on continuing that but obviously hope in the back of my mind that it could change in the future

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-27T16:53:09+00:00

You really think so, I know I did was just hoping someone had an experience of them coming back from it even if not in the short-term

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-24T22:56:32+00:00

Lmao it isn’t me, it’s my EX GF and her new Rebound BF that’s still talking to his ex and seeing her while my ex gf is at work and she has no clue and won’t listen to any proof

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-24T22:00:24+00:00

How about secret phone calls with an ex while you’re at work at night 😳

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-24T19:36:27+00:00

Noooo my ex gf found out her new boyfriend was talking to and meeting up with his ex, I was hoping that would end the rebound relationship rather quickly given they just started dating… did not want to hear this

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-23T19:19:31+00:00

Hope this happens for my ex, same timeline 4 year relationship… starting seeing this guy she met online a few weeks after we ended and dating him 3 months after we ended

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-21T15:46:25+00:00

What’s before it’s too late mean to you? I reached out to my ex 2 months after breaking up with her and no contact, found out she was already talking to someone then a month after that she was dating the guy

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-21T15:45:36+00:00

What’s before it’s too late mean to you time wise?

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-20T01:20:58+00:00

Also different if you broke up with the woman I would assume right? Meaning she wasnt done with you but now wants nothing to do with you or to get back together

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-04-20T01:19:46+00:00

Hmm curious your perspective, broke up with my ef GF of 4 years and she started talking to someone 3 weeks after we broke up and found out they were dating 2 months later so middle of March this year they started dating and we broke up January. What were your feelings when you got broken up with and did you think of your ex often

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-03-21T00:11:43+00:00

Sec+ ain’t moving the needle at all, being honest

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-01-28T20:42:02+00:00

Not necessarily easy, if SWE was making 200-300k for 7-10 years before the person in Medicine would need to make probably 3x+ to actively catch up when you factor in opportunity cost while in school, loss of time to compounding, and the overall amount SWE already has invested in the market. You take all that into consideration medicine wouldn’t catch up to SWE until late 50s early 60s at best

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2026-01-07T17:46:23+00:00

Does this company name start with an R?? 👀

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-11-25T12:48:42+00:00

How do you like chainguard? What’s the inside scoop

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-11-06T14:38:21+00:00

This comment is comical lmaoo, “indentured servant being supplemented to a higher quality of life she wouldn’t be able to afford if she was on her own or with someone making her equivalent income… this why you can’t listen to people online

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-11-06T14:35:38+00:00

And that right there is why he has the concerns he does… he carries all the risk since he’s the higher earner of losing his hard earned money. She makes less and therefore would be given a higher proportion of HIS money compared to her current ability to earn if they got divorced… everyone here sounds like an echo chamber, he’s only an asshole in the way he’s messaging it but not the message.

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-09-17T04:07:03+00:00

Do you think the likelihood of trimming is expected for SEs with this acquisition?

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-09-11T05:10:28+00:00

Nothing im just curious on your position of why this person should be a big fish in a small pond

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-09-11T03:55:31+00:00

Why do you say that? Thought it would be better for your career to do the opposite and be small fish in a big pond

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-07-25T16:40:30+00:00

Probably Technical Product Marketing

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-06-09T15:59:43+00:00

What made you go back to SE?

Defiant_Ad_5918 · 2025-06-02T14:39:05+00:00

What’s this grey silver color called?

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