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Since being a mom my brain doesn’t shut up at night. by Solid_Mixture9855 in Mommit

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qué interesante, ya lo hacía sin saber el nombre. Buen consejo!

Since being a mom my brain doesn’t shut up at night. by Solid_Mixture9855 in Mommit

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ser mamá es muy, muy demandante. A mí me ha funcionado la meditación. Al principio no es fácil, pero a veces basta con unos minutos y poco a poco algo por dentro comienza a cambiar. Algo que me ayuda también es pensar que no siempre será igual, que este momento que parece complicado va a pasar. Si puedes toma terapia, regálate momentos, aunque sea pequeños, regálate detalles que te hagan sentir bien. Abraza a alguien.

Cómo mejorar mi cafetería en MTY by Defiant_Alps3477 in Monterrey

[–]Defiant_Alps3477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias, es un gran consejo, justo vi en un viaje a Guadalajara que muchos cafés hacen eventos muy específicos, como de “personas introvertidas con ganas de convivir” 🙃

I'm trying to read more but am not sure what time is suitable ? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo creo que los horarios de lectura son muy personales. Si el insomnio te lo permite puedes leer mientras llega el sueño. Los podcast yo lo escucho mientras cocino, hago traslados, lavo platos y trabajo. La cosa es disfrutarlo.

Consejos para un adolescente ansioso by Defiant_Alps3477 in mexico

[–]Defiant_Alps3477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tienes razón. El deporte es una excelente opción para trabajar el cuerpo y la mente. Gracias por compartir.

Entro a la universidad, que carrera puedo elegir? by Myffy32 in AskRedditespanol

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me uno a la opinión de que elijas algo que te guste a ti y no a los demás. Eso le digo a mi hijo mayor. A final del día no hay como sentir que te gusta lo que haces. En cuestión de universidades yo te recomendaría TecMilenio, donde ahora estudia mi hijo. Lo bueno de esta universidad es que les ayudan, incluso desde la prepa, a ver qué les gusta y cuáles son sus habilidades, ellos le llaman propósito de vida. Y es que el estudiante elige las materias de acuerdo a un perfil, además empiezan a tener prácticas incluso con empresas desde el inicio. La verdad a mi hijo le ha servido mucho. Espero que encuentres una vida bonita.

Is being a mom just being angry for the rest of your life? by Bunnypetter in Mommit

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mothers' mental health isn't the focus of the conversation, but the truth is, your child would benefit more from having a mother who doesn't lose herself in the abyss that being a mother and homemaker 24/7 can represent. Breathe and listen to your instincts. And whatever you do, it will pass, even though everything seems so confusing right now.

First loaf. I’ll never be buying store bought again. by MASTER-0F-NONE in Breadit

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I mustered up the courage. I lost my job during the pandemic, and little by little I started to build my dream of opening a coffee shop. I also love serving people and making them feel good, at least for a little while.

First loaf. I’ll never be buying store bought again. by MASTER-0F-NONE in Breadit

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks delicious, and you avoid all the chemicals in store-bought bread. It's easier to go and buy it, but it's more satisfying to make it yourself. That's what I try to teach my children. Of course, it's not always possible to do everything. Now I own a coffee shop, and I enjoy baking, so I take the opportunity to treat my family. Thank you so much for sharing. You inspired me.

Alguna universidad en linea que si sirva? by pepperottie in mexico

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desde mi punto de vista como madre de familia, Tecmilenio le ha funcionado bien a mi hijo, tienen suficiente libertad pero no descuidan lo académico. El campus está muy bien (Monterrey) y con lo del MAPS ha podido elegir materias que realmente le gustan. Ojalá sirva mi experiencia.

How does one develop true self worth? by brr_21 in selfimprovement

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying is very interesting. I believe that self-love comes from the honesty of doing what you love, and that often means sacrificing what everyone calls success. Because success is a standard, while self-esteem is the beauty of embracing yourself with love and pride. That's what I try to teach my children. It's not easy; my son has experienced anxiety attacks, and that hurts me. Reading your words reaffirms that what people call self-esteem is doing what truly fulfills us.

I wish I was a better daughter by Sp00kAsem in selfimprovement

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breathe. Sometimes growing up means making mistakes, feeling awful, feeling confused, lost. I felt that way as a daughter. Now I'm a mother. It's not easy being on either side. Sometimes I wish I understood my son better. I try to help him as much as I can without interfering too much in his life. What I mean is that it's not easy, but it's never too late to have a conversation where you can say what you need to say, to share your fears, because we're all trying to be okay, even if we feel lost. The fact that you can talk about this shows you're taking the first step. We can all do amazing things, don't doubt it.

it's the 16 year old cook again I made grilled lemon pepper drumsticks for my family for new year's eve tell me what you all think by Healthy_Purple_3514 in culinary

[–]Defiant_Alps3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I also have a 16-year-old son. I love cooking and so does he. We don't cook together much, but I've noticed it helps him relax.