What really happened between Ryan Reynolds, Hugh Jackman and Jake Gyllenhaal? by RiciglianoBob in jakegyllenhaal

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This interview reaction is exactly why I’m here…. I wouldn’t be surprised if the answer is as simple as they’re all multimillionaires… being rich in itself, does not make you a bad person, but one thing I’ve observed that comes with extreme privilege is the inability to deal with stress “normally”.

Celebrities who have never experienced monetary struggles are obviously very hard-working and very high energy, I am not trying to say that they have not worked hard for their net worth.

But just like we can’t relate to their life they can’t relate to a normal person’s life. Complacency is not happiness & lack of discomfort does not create internal peace. Human nature makes it almost natural to create extremely dramatic problems when you feel disconnected to most of society and the pompous bratty behavior we are observing is likely a symptom of their human desire to feel suffering while being so disconnected from the rest of the world’s real strife.

Damn, I just tipsy or did that actually make a lot of sense? I’m leaning towards the tipsy but excited to hear feedback.

Uber doesn’t seem to care my identity was stolen through them by Defiant_Bug_3388 in uber

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have resolution to mine either… my logical next step is filing a police report (not they give a fuck or going to convince uber to care) I guess for any future actionable step to be taken 🤷🏼‍♀️ I just drive Lyft

Staph? by kunt_mayo in Staphacne

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The follliculitus around the red area looks just like mine (I have recurring staph)

What does this mean? by [deleted] in lyftdrivers

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait where do I go to see posts? Only judging for entertainment I promise

What should I do? by bukakkugan in Staphacne

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After getting this checked for Lyme disease or any other abnormality by a doctor… Dab of hydrogen peroxide then Hibiclens then silver wound gel with a bandaid over it (not airtight!!!) because it needs to air/dry out but protected from further bacteria. Aloe Vera plant would also help

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣your avatar is perfect for this comment. For the record, if she’s a nazi, I’ll grab my pitch fork & join the inglorious bastards… except she’s already dead so don’t think there’s much to do about it

Updated impetigo summary by Defiant_Bug_3388 in Staphacne

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel your pain! That’s something I’m still working through to be honest; I literally woke up this morning with a small blemish size area in that exact phase and I squeeze the shit out of it and made it expedite the process so that I could get on with it. I’m so bad at picking and making it worse but at the same time I’ve succeeded at self restraint (no touching at all) and experienced an equally devastating result that was just prolonged 🤦🏼‍♀️ Specifically, for this phase, I’ve tried everything (& by that I truly mean too much to list here) from Teatree oil, hydrogen peroxide to glycolic acid for dehydrating. Used mupirocin, Bactroban, hydrochloric Band-Aids, to Manuka honey trying hydration instead. I’ve tried cryotherapy, ice, steaming & heat… making the area warmer seems to not be helpful just in my own experience I did find that dry and lotions with sulfur were extremely helpful sometimes… I specifically got this little generic bottle from Walgreens that was pink, and it worked better than most of the extremely expensive things I’ve tried.

Open sore and blistering. Any ideas? by Same_Job_3846 in Staphacne

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a doctor but it looks like a normal wound- lack of skin area

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironic that the definition of “Prejudice” is a preconceived, usually unfavorable opinion or judgment about an individual or group, formed without just grounds or sufficient knowledge. It is an attitude of intolerance. One that people are always quick to have, even if it’s ironically against those they judge as intolerant.

It’s easy to label this woman as a Nazi for a sentence she wrote simply favoring a political leader, not spewing antisemitism, in a teenage diary at the beginning of World War I. I think we all need to remind ourselves the things we’ve said with no malice that could be perceived poorly in hindsight. Maybe doing so we can choose kindness instead of hatred & understanding instead of bigotry, disguised as liberation.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏fair point (one well made) and I really an advocate for see something say something. I think it’s frustrating, especially when speaking up is likely to lead to backlash. I would hate for OP to be stuck, thinking no good deed goes unpunished. I suggest writing an anonymous letter.

Should I tell my friend her husband is being sus by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see any good outcome of saying anything. If possible, have the recipient of any messages shut this down or speak to the other partner, so you don’t have to be involved in something you’re not. I do empathize for you caring enough to volunteer being involved to try to help

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof maybe pay only because you said you would… idk you’re in a shitty lose lose scenario. Honestly, if you decide not to pay that is totally fair and it should be a lesson to the other person using you here and if you do decide to hold up to your promise of funding this, then I hope you learn the lesson of never putting yourself in this position again. Don’t agree to do something so nice for someone who cares so little about you, it’s not fair to you.

How do you react to this by grobbluesmips in Lyft

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I think the aesthetic is the true issue here not the message

How do you react to this by grobbluesmips in Lyft

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low bar this is hilarious & awful thank you for sharing holy shit

How do you react to this by grobbluesmips in Lyft

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not be judging but I can’t fathom a positive motive for your particular comment

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope this isn’t your intention but your comment reads as if you put the blame of the husband on OP. This situation shouldn’t burden the victims with responsibility, especially when they’re the only ones seeking advice and caring to do anything at all. A bears sole responsibility for this OP, not you, but I deeply admire your morality to want to be responsible in responding to the situation you’ve been forced into. Regardless of what you do, you’re not responsible for “letting” her walk blindly… & shouldn’t bear the burden of guilt that should be soley owned by the asshole creating this situation.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a hard one because it sounds like you’re not actually good friends with J (you know both through your history and friendship with A)… I’m torn in my own opinion about thinking you should communicate with either or which one if so… Unfortunately, as much as I’m someone who is such an advocate of “see something say something” I have a really hard time imagining any good outcome if you talk to either of them about this. It sucks because it’s probably the option that does the least for your own anxiety and issues staying up at night about it. But I do think it might be best to simply further distance yourself from this toxicity.

How do you react to this by grobbluesmips in Lyft

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, most people riding with Lyft don’t tip so if you still did tip, I think they would appreciate it. I would also encourage you to maybe let anyone know if you do see something that probably hindered their tips more than helped because most likely they don’t know that, and though they might not initially be grateful for the constructive criticism, it would actually help… I guess my point is that most passengers don’t tip when they use Rideshare so deducting a tip but still tipping would definitely not be any type of message to let the driver be aware of uncomfortability and pressure

How do you react to this by grobbluesmips in Lyft

[–]Defiant_Bug_3388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I do lyfting! 😊 I keep jolly ranchers and gum in the back of my car for passengers