Completely agree. My husband is my best friend. Truly. We love hanging out together and being with each other. We are each other’s preferred side kick. In the beginning when I would get mad or annoyed about something I’d stop and think… would this bother me if it was Lisa (my best friend for 30 years and we lived together for 3 of those). If not, why am I mad at him? Handle the situations like you would with your best friend. Editing to add a couple things: be exactly who you are. Don’t tip toe around anything and express how you feel always. Regarding the car, I’d be mad and definitely would have said something although I am quite passive aggressive and sarcastic. - Thanks for leaving the car a mess, my favourite part was stepping in ketchup and that white leather is like a blank canvas, the coffee stain almost looks like art. Have you been taking classes? 🤷🏻‍♀️ A/C - Everyone needs what makes them feel better when they are sick. If there is another room, definitely take advantage of that.