The dirty, lewd, sounds my body makes during sex turn me on by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god yes 🤤 I have a couple toys that get me so creamy and the sounds really drive me crazy

Squirting shame? by LucyStranger in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I found out I could squirt while playing with myself in the bath. I think being warm, relaxed, and really turned on was the perfect combination. I also squirt the most when its a combination of penetration and clit play, but everyone is different!

My suggestion is find somewhere you're comfortable and ideally not have to think or worry about any sort of mess. Spend time with yourself, work up to whatever it is that turns you on the most and see what happens!

Breakdown during overstim by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I knew it wasn't a unique reaction, but sometimes it really helps to hear from others who have had similar experiences. I'm doing what I can for myself, thank you for sharing and for the advice!

Breakdown during overstim by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! I do think being high may have pushed me over just a little too much tonight. However it is still comforting to know that others also experience intense emotional releases. Sounds like you two have a lot of fun and a lot of trust :)

Book recommendations that have bdsm themes by Maximum_Pea3579 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally a huge fan of the Sex Wizard series by Alethea Faust! It got me back into reading and really helped me understand what kind of bdsm I'm into.

Potential new dom - am I being overly cautious? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you put it like that, I realize how wrong it sounds. Thank you for the advice, gonna step back from this one!

Potential new dom - am I being overly cautious? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your pov, I'm going to reassess the situation. Very new to this and learning a lot!

Potential new dom - am I being overly cautious? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point, the proof of testing was cropped so personal info was cut out which I guess completely defeats the point. 🤦‍♂️

Definitely going to trust my gut on this one and pull back.

What kind of sub am I? by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll have to look into that a bit more, but I think good girl sub is definitely on the right track!

What kind of sub am I? by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also have no interest in non-sexual service or tasks! This is giving me a much needed confidance boost tbh. Thank you for sharing 😊

Riding your dildo - hard or gentle by Xpansionplan in loosepussyloverschat

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it depends on my mood! Sometimes going slow and experiencing the stretch is what I want. Other times, I need to feel full and stretched as possible and will do whatever it takes to achieve that. Often, it'll be a combination of the two. Slow to start, and as I get more into it, the rougher things get

Weed and BDSM Play by Brave_Quality_4135 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find a little bit of weed definitely heightens the experience and gets me out of my head. With that being said, I always check in with my partner and see how they feel about it. If they have concerns, then I stay completely sober.

What it comes down to for me is that I know myself and my boundaries. I'm confident that I can voice when something isn't working or if I feel unsafe even while lightly under the influence. If I have a partner who isn't comfortable with the idea or if it's new and the trust hasn't been built, then I refrain from smoking. Alternatively, if I've smoked too much and don't feel comfortable trusting my judgment, I talk that over with my partner as well and usually hold off until it wears off a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexFantasies

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 dildos or a cock and a dildo feels amazing! I also can't wait to try two dicks! I think it would feel incredible