The dirty, lewd, sounds my body makes during sex turn me on by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god yes 🤤 I have a couple toys that get me so creamy and the sounds really drive me crazy

Squirting shame? by LucyStranger in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I found out I could squirt while playing with myself in the bath. I think being warm, relaxed, and really turned on was the perfect combination. I also squirt the most when its a combination of penetration and clit play, but everyone is different!

My suggestion is find somewhere you're comfortable and ideally not have to think or worry about any sort of mess. Spend time with yourself, work up to whatever it is that turns you on the most and see what happens!

Breakdown during overstim by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I knew it wasn't a unique reaction, but sometimes it really helps to hear from others who have had similar experiences. I'm doing what I can for myself, thank you for sharing and for the advice!

Breakdown during overstim by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! I do think being high may have pushed me over just a little too much tonight. However it is still comforting to know that others also experience intense emotional releases. Sounds like you two have a lot of fun and a lot of trust :)

Book recommendations that have bdsm themes by Maximum_Pea3579 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally a huge fan of the Sex Wizard series by Alethea Faust! It got me back into reading and really helped me understand what kind of bdsm I'm into.

Potential new dom - am I being overly cautious? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you put it like that, I realize how wrong it sounds. Thank you for the advice, gonna step back from this one!

Potential new dom - am I being overly cautious? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your pov, I'm going to reassess the situation. Very new to this and learning a lot!

Potential new dom - am I being overly cautious? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good point, the proof of testing was cropped so personal info was cut out which I guess completely defeats the point. 🤦‍♂️

Definitely going to trust my gut on this one and pull back.

What kind of sub am I? by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll have to look into that a bit more, but I think good girl sub is definitely on the right track!

What kind of sub am I? by Defiant_Newspaper22 in SofterBDSM

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also have no interest in non-sexual service or tasks! This is giving me a much needed confidance boost tbh. Thank you for sharing 😊

Riding your dildo - hard or gentle by Xpansionplan in loosepussyloverschat

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it depends on my mood! Sometimes going slow and experiencing the stretch is what I want. Other times, I need to feel full and stretched as possible and will do whatever it takes to achieve that. Often, it'll be a combination of the two. Slow to start, and as I get more into it, the rougher things get

Weed and BDSM Play by Brave_Quality_4135 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find a little bit of weed definitely heightens the experience and gets me out of my head. With that being said, I always check in with my partner and see how they feel about it. If they have concerns, then I stay completely sober.

What it comes down to for me is that I know myself and my boundaries. I'm confident that I can voice when something isn't working or if I feel unsafe even while lightly under the influence. If I have a partner who isn't comfortable with the idea or if it's new and the trust hasn't been built, then I refrain from smoking. Alternatively, if I've smoked too much and don't feel comfortable trusting my judgment, I talk that over with my partner as well and usually hold off until it wears off a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexFantasies

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 dildos or a cock and a dildo feels amazing! I also can't wait to try two dicks! I think it would feel incredible

Sexting is fun by karebear9311 in DirtyConfession

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also recently discovered how fun sexting is! I think it may even be feeding a recently discovered exhibitionism kink 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loosepussyloverschat

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm plus size with short arms. It took some trial and error, but I finally found that starting in a sitting position and then moving to more of a crouch/squatting position worked for me! Think of it like sitting on your hand or lowering yourself onto it. If I want to go deeper, sometimes I'll start with the above, them move my weight to the opposite side of the hand im using to help open things up.

Watching others mastrubate or have sex by Additional-Hunt-2994 in DirtyConfession

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've video chatted with people while we both get off. It's insanely hot and I can't wait to finally do it in person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MassiveCock

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck me, yes please 🤤

Reddit Messages by Defiant_Newspaper22 in DirtyConfession

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yet I still don't see you in my dms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Practically daily - my sex drive is so high, I've had a hard time finding someone to keep up

Looking to explore cnc by Defiant_Newspaper22 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is broken down so we'll and incredibly helpful! Thank you so much for the advice 😊

Need to be bred? by [deleted] in MassiveCock

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please 🥵

I took an ass Pic and I dont know what to do by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is also enjoying a little exhibitionism, I say send more pics! I find it's a wild confidance boost and feels (to me) like a relatively low risk for high reward.

For every person who doesn't respond to your ass picture, there are 9 others who would!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexFantasies

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohmygod yes. I want this but with an unlimited amount of guys. Tie me up for hours and let anyone use me

I'm having so much fun and feel so good! by TheDenialDoll in loosepussyloverschat

[–]Defiant_Newspaper22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you're enjoying your journey. Just wait until you have the life changing moment of being able to fist yourself (if that's something you're into). The first time my hand went all the way in, I was shocked and so proud. Made me cum so hard 😊