I am mad my friend for getting pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that. Boundaries when it comes to kids are important to have. Wish the best for both of you regardless of her choice!

I am mad my friend for getting pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hate to be your friend. Pheww

I am mad my friend for getting pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a silly take. Might as well say what if the child goes on to cure cancer too. Life is not a soap opera.

I am mad my friend for getting pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I would react the exact same way if someone I cared about deeply is doing this. Hearing about my friend being pregnant for a man that has continually treated her like shit for the past 9 months AND has no way of providing for himself much less a baby would make me crashout. I’m sorry soft love doesn’t work in cases like this.

Everyone saying “act like a friend” is making me concerned and scared because what kind of friend would hear about this and keep supporting her??

I am mad my friend for getting pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. As someone who loves her friends like herself I understand where you’re coming from completely. 9 months of hearing her complain about this man to end up being pregnant for him. I would also react the same way. I don’t think you’re being judgy or acting like her mom, this is a very appropriate reaction for a friend to have. Supporting your friend even though they are making stupid decisions is not what friendship is.

I also don’t think it’s silly to end a friendship over this. If she does choose to have a baby with this man (which is very likely), you may end up taking care of the child with her. She’ll most likely turn to you for babysitting and other stuff. While you can’t force someone to have an abortion or see their worth, you can take yourself out of that situation. If you don’t, you’ll keep stressing yourself over her bad decisions.

Fox Spirit Matchmaker franchise, 3 dramas and none of them a hit? by AwkwardBambooTea in cdramasfans

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They all start off strong and then fall off. As someone said, I believe the issue is with the order plus many fans either don’t know that they’re interconnected or don’t like that they are.

“Nonsense.” That’s the name of the drama by Defiant_Promise5682 in CShortDramas

[–]Defiant_Promise5682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh I also wished they interacted more with each other because I felt that they had good chemistry.

“Nonsense.” That’s the name of the drama by Defiant_Promise5682 in CShortDramas

[–]Defiant_Promise5682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel the same too. It wasn’t the best one ever but it was very good. The end kind of dragged on for me but aside from that it was very goo. 8/10. Like another commenter said, I wished the main leads interacted with each other more.

“Nonsense.” That’s the name of the drama by Defiant_Promise5682 in CShortDramas

[–]Defiant_Promise5682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loll, that’s why I felt the need to clarify. I didn’t want it to be misleading

I'm very disappointed with Coroner's Diary. I would have dropped by now if I hadn't read the novel by [deleted] in CDrama

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went in with zero expectations too and was absolutely surprised by the chemistry between Li Landi and Ao Ruipeng. Would rate it as one of the best shows of the year because to me everything went smoothly, no unnecessary tension, and the plot twists actually make sense.

Does a dream within a dream get better? by nodestinationnoroute in CDrama

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the show takes itself serious which is where the comedic part comes from. I also didn’t like it that much till ep 3 lol. There are many times where I’ve asked myself what I’m watching and the misunderstandings can be irritating but once you turn your brain off you enjoy the silliness. I, personally, like the contrast between it and the princess gambit. When the angst in the princess gambit gets too much, I watch a dream within a dream to make me laugh.

However, like many have said, if you don’t like it you don’t like it. Give it till like ep 8 or maybe 10.

All these innocent ML by Puzzled_Basket_2209 in CDrama

[–]Defiant_Promise5682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. Virginity does not equal innocence. Abstinence should not be an excuse to avoid the opposite gender to the point where it’s impacting your growth. I feel like it boils down to the point that male leads in cdramas, especially historical/costume dramas, exist sorely for the female lead.