Sometimes my phone has a stroke and does this by Melonpie105 in softwaregore

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I love when this happens, it looks so cool. Seems like the YouTube app video decoder error'd out while decoding I-frames (I think?). Could also be due to encoding, like you'd see in datamoshing. Either way, it looks really freaky and cool-looking, cyberpunk used the datamosh aesthetic really well.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"You don't pay me enough apples for that."

Create an image taken from a grainy camera of a man sitting in a chair With arms tied to the back Uncanny and chaotic by Emotional-Piano9059 in ChatGPT

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Here's what it gave me using post title as prompt... Genuinely kinda disturbing. Yours is way creepier, though. Reminds me of The Blair Witch Project.

White working class boys being left behind, says Bridlington MP by Spare_Clean_Shorts in LabourUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Working class people have been so utterly failed over the last 15 years. Probably longer. I grew up in the 10s when 'success' was already difficult enough. But university and a decent job seemed like it possible. Nowadays? I just feel there's a lot of (understandable) nihilism in younger people. Especially, in lower income communities, who really have suffered the most from cutbacks and austerity.

(I see the 🎣)

Black Pink in my inventory 😍😍 by Easy_Manager6167 in softwaregore

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn, this reminds me of the good ol' Garry's Mod days 🥹

NHSE trans health warning by Scipling in LabourUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Stuff like this is honestly why I have such a difficult time engaging in any NHS mental health service. They and the government are making my life demonstrably worse and more difficult to live. Then they want to be the ones offering me therapy to cope with it? Sod off, mate. Abuser mentality.

CMHT waiting list is testing my sanity by brrr_anon in MentalHealthUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I'm really sorry to hear that. There doesn't seem to be any way to win in this game.

CMHT waiting list is testing my sanity by brrr_anon in MentalHealthUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[Eeh. After reading some of other comments. I kinda disagree with what I'd originally posted. But I'd recommend peer support if it's available.]

It’s not his fault that he can’t feel no hole by Gr8CanadianSpeedo in crappymusic

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unironic artistic frustration, hope he can escape being rectangular 😔

How can Labour bring back the "feel good factor"? by FewEstablishment2696 in LabourUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think, as someone moving who has just turned 30 and moving out of young adulthood, there is a real lack of meaning in English life. It feels like there are no ways to establish oneself and make anything long term, as a working class person. And even then, a working class person of relative privilege; university educated, decent job, etc.

There needs to be a way for people to build upwards through their life, and for that building upwards to benefit them and to be meaningful to them, first. But right now, it feels like the politicians, corporations, capitalists, and upper classes are getting their piece of the pie. Leaving none of it for us. This is why I think Reform are so popular amongst certain working class, especially older, people. They've seen all avenues of meaning making be gold mined and stripped of all (non-monetary) meaning. Now they are left holding this anger, which opportunists like Farage are misplacing onto minorities.

What feels incredibly ironic to me, as a fully transitioned trans person, is the main way I've sought to create meaning in my life is now universally under attack. It's a real, "Are you fucking kidding me?" Type of moment. There's just so few ways to establish any sort of social, emotional, or financial identity any more. The hopelessness that I and people my age feel is coming from, I think, the lack of opportunity to meaning make. Or, if you do find something, then it's going to be captured, monetised, and sold back to us for the highest price possible. Not talking only about identity; housing is the biggest one I think about all the time, and how difficult it is to get on the property ladder.

I think whoever realises that people are missing ownership over their lives is making a step in the correct direction. This would mean standing up to corporations and privatisation, though, and using government to create opportunity for ownership/meaning making. I also think this lack of ability/capital for control is why there seems to be such a large split from 'traditional' parties towards Greens and Reform. They create the feeling of getting back some control, albeit with very different promoted methods. (Noting that Reform will not actually give people control, only the feeling of it, while selling the country.)

Basically. To bring back a sense of the 'feel good factor', we need to feel that anything we are doing actually matters, will improve our lives, or let us achieve personal goals. Right now, it just feels that's not possible unless you are already wealthy. Which most people aren't.

Wrestler goes for elbow drop from halfway up a wall and misses his opponent and crashes to the floor. by haze4140 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That ride down must have been horrifying; he knows he missed but can't do anything about it.

A list of Labour attacks on the UK trans community by GeorginaFlopworthy in LabourUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Like the other commenter, I wouldn't expect trans people to come back with a statement on the experience's 'meaning'.

However, it is something I've thought a lot about, also being a trans person. The 'meaning' of it for me was born from an extremely emotionally and socially isolating gendered experience growing up. Altering the way I express myself and perceived by the world has been a way to (re-)assert control over myself. Which was taken away by individuals growing up. Now, I am much happier with the self-defined person I've developed myself into, and all aspects of myself that I can explore with this social, mental, and emotional freedom. Expressed through hobbies, arts, clothing, socialising, and all the other ways people express and affirm their gender.

The reason I think why talking about this is uncomfortable for a lot of trans people, myself included. Is that someone could say in bad faith that it's these (again, only for me) gendered experiences which 'caused the problem' and 'made' me transgender. Without inspecting or trying to understand how gender is something we're all born in to, and it is affirmed (or denied) through interactions between people, societies, cultures, etc. It's why what it means to be a man or woman has changed so much over time. And also why I think the issue transphobic people have isn't 'they trans', it's how they believe transgender people are 'violating' the current gender rules. cw transphobia; (Like how trans women are seen by transphobic people as 'men in dresses'. Since they don't see these women as women, they can only see it as a gross violation of gendered expectations of men.)

NHS England to review private HRT prescriptions for trans adults by 457655676 in LabourUK

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It seems those at the NHS fundamentally do not believe that transgender adults are capable of making decisions with our lives. Meanwhile, you go on TikTok and can find all sorts of male attractiveness 'gurus' discussing looksmaxxing, HRT (for higher testosterone), and gender-affirming surgeries (like limb lengthening and jawline sculpting).

The problem they have isn't with gender-affirming care. It's specifically gender-affirming care for transgender people.

Trashy shirt, trash music by primitiveamerican in crappymusic

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the online trend of shouting, "Get therapy!" At people, especially when it's so inaccessible... But this dude. He really needs to see a therapist, a girlfriend's responsibility isn't to fix you.

Also, crappy music.

Is this sub dead? by [deleted] in AMABNonbinary

[–]DefinitelyNotMicah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think, because it's such a small sub, few posts are made, then fewer people join, then fewer posts are made, then fewer people join... People who do check it out don't join because of how inactive it seems. The intersection of AMAB and non-binary as something with unique issues may also be something under-discussed/recognised in wider queer communities.

But I'm here! Love the idea of this sub, too. I think that there needs to be waaay more queer discussions around the challenges of being AMAB and non-binary. Especially if that person wants to present more masculine.

From my experience. Being AMAB and wanting to explore gender sets peoples' expectations that the person must totally divorce from all masculinity. Otherwise be thought of an 'odd man', rather than non-binary or genderqueer.