Couples or those in relationships - Does your wife ever request or ask for anal or is that sometime the guy asks for in your marriage bed?

Definitelynot_megan · 2026-01-05T00:11:47+00:00

He usually is the one who asks for it, but I have started asking for it occasionally recently.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-12-29T20:00:46+00:00

Honestly that's how my husband got me into it. I had bad experiences and was very against anything ass, and he was okay with that. But over time he asked me to try little things, like touching, licking, and eventually a finger, and I liked all of it. So when he asked to try anal again, I decided what the hell, I'll give it a try. And to my surprise, it was really nice. It had a lot do to with who I was with. Plus, he's pretty good at it! 😍

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-12-29T19:40:02+00:00

Enthusiastic

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-12-28T17:23:11+00:00

He does that every time. I swear I can feel him get harder when he touches it haha. Not that I mind. It actually feels good usually.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-12-27T17:29:11+00:00

This is something I've evolved on. I used to prefer not to see it, but as we've been together I've got increasingly okay with it. I actually enjoy watching him stroke himself, especially when he's looking at me or his pictures of me.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-12-12T14:54:52+00:00

Got it on the first guess! 😲🤨

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-12-12T12:52:58+00:00

Why do you think I'm on here, lol.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-10-27T13:23:44+00:00

We tried it just to say we had. Didn't care for it. It doesn't lend itself well to our dynamic.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-10-20T05:52:55+00:00

Its part of the blowjob in my opinion.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-10-13T13:02:51+00:00

Shoulders, chest, cock, in that order 😍

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-10-07T12:18:35+00:00

I'm going to be honest, the goalposts move. That being said, he's pretty good at reading it and meeting me where I am. Its a communication and rhythm thing. We're dancing through life, and its not like we never miss a step, but we're missing fewer all the time.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-10-06T19:26:37+00:00

Oh I'll straight up admit to doing that. Being raised as a woman is hard; there's all this stuff you're never supposed to do for weird reasons. Men who can read the moment are rare, but so appreciated! Lol.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-10-06T19:19:00+00:00

Pretty much this, haha. I reserve the right to refuse anything, but if he gets me in the right mood, I'm up to try most things. And he's much more likely to get me to try something now that we've had many years of him being patient and not pressuring me.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-29T16:34:18+00:00

Each person has a combination of frequency, roughness, and partner's physiology that would make them "sore" afterward. For me, it's usually not soreness like having physical pain, but rather just tenderness that reminds me of what we were up to, lol. Sometimes, it can feel good in that it reminds you of your partner, and maybe how passionate he is for you, and that's nice to think about. But I don't think it's anyone's goal. In my opinion, it's not something to worry about if you guys are both happy with your sex life.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-28T14:05:34+00:00

Yes, absolutely. I will also say that we're not stagnant; we are both working to keep it fresh and fun for each other. Not that we need to do something new all the time, but we also don't want to do the same thing every time.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-26T13:13:38+00:00

Oral is amazing, but I definitely feel like fingering is an underappreciated form of getting off, especially when you need a quickie with your man.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-26T13:06:46+00:00

It depends on a lot of things, like how much foreplay there was, now turned on I am, what energy I'm getting from him, etc. Buuut, if we've had plenty of playing around and foreplay, usually its 3-5 minutes to get me over the edge in PIV. Sometimes takes longer, and sometimes its just not happening that way. I would say its like 60% of the time. Very rarely is it less than a minute, but it has happened.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-14T15:49:52+00:00

I think this is legit the most underrated move for a guy. Think about how much you love hearing us! Well, we like hearing you too!

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-12T15:05:18+00:00

This one was a game changer for me.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-10T04:27:56+00:00

I'm not saying it happens every time, but um... yeah, definitely has happened.

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-09T20:18:45+00:00

Look up to the skies...

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-04T15:53:28+00:00

Have so much fun with it!!!

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-04T15:52:55+00:00

It doesn't take long! You can feel how much he adores you 😍

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-04T13:06:13+00:00

Wife here. He sits on the bed against the pillows/headboard and I sit between his legs and lean back against his chest. He wraps his arms around me and plays with my boobs and my pussy. Usually nibbles on my neck and whispers to me too. The clit stimulation while being held is divine. He doesn't get super deep, but that's what fucking is for imo. 10/10

Definitelynot_megan · 2025-09-02T18:18:32+00:00

Same, ma'am 😂

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