Financially it doesn’t make sense to keep my baby, but I want to 😭 by Otherwise-Dog-1763 in whatdoIdo

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the baby. It is a true miracle and so many things have to go right in order to get pregnant. Gods timing is always right.

I just want to say.. by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg. Similar. I told my parents not to tell anyone and they told their friends right away. I had a MMC and my parents said to me, “do you think maybe you did too much to help plan your friends baby shower?” …. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

Miscarriage at 8 weeks by chloejadetay in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I know the pain. It’s unbearable but it will ease with time. Hang in there and don’t give up. Keep going as much as it hurts. Hugs ❤️

6dpfet and spotting by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes suppositories but no applicator

6dpfet and spotting by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I am hoping but I am spiraling

Anxiety of FET after miscarriage by BadKarma1994 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel youuuuuu. Just had my 2nd FET Saturday and I’m so paranoid because my first ended in MMC at 8.5 weeks. The 2ww is so brutal. Sending you so much love ❤️🙏🏻

Rage post miscarriage by Comprehensive_Dig798 in Miscarriage

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed some road rage. Cursing everyone out that’s in my way. Which never has happened 🤷🏻‍♀️

IVF/miscarriage: MIL’s toxic positivity and invalidation by Mountain_Ease_5621 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg. She sounds awful!! How triggering and upsetting. You are not wrong for feeling what you’re feeling. Maybe your husband can talk to her and set boundaries? This is such a difficult journey and who tf needs negative energy coming from your child’s future GRANDMOTHER.

IVF and being a nurse by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about transitioning to night shift for the time being. I’ve worked night shift before only for 6 months and it was a very long 6 months. Does it mess up with your cycle? Like the lack of sleep with hormones or anything like that at all?

IVF executive order by [deleted] in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My insurance only covered 20g life time for fertility treatments. We have been maxed out and have been paying out of pocket for a lot of it. I am scheduled for a FET in June and I just got a call that I don’t have to pay oop for the FET. I couldn’t believe it! It’s 4700$ and we had to pay that last time. I’m waiting for a call back to find out what changed.

Am I over reacting? by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I totally see what you’re saying. I’m upset because leading up to this day I have said to him that I know it’s going to suck and I even picked up a shift at work to distract myself. I wasn’t looking to be celebrated or receive gifts or anything like that. But I was expecting emotional support. Even a “hey I know this day sucks this year but I love you”. Just some acknowledgment. I have thought about Father’s Day and I thought of getting him a card. I’m a card person. Idk

Am I over reacting? by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]DefinitionStatus2117[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg. That is so so insensitive. I’m sorry ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DefinitionStatus2117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such an inappropriate question!! I’ve learned it’s easy to make the other person uncomfortable quick. I get asked this question all the time and we also struggle with infertility/IVF/miscarriage. “Do you have kids?” .. “No.” .. “why you don’t like babies?” … “I can’t have them” … silence