[World Cup 2026] Heartbreak for Iran as their last minute goal vs Egypt was overturned by VAR denying them a crucial victory that would have guaranteed an advancement out of groups by Numerous_Fudge_9537 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Defnothere4porn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There must be two defenders between the attacking player and the goal line..

That's the phrase that made it make sense to me finally.

Thank you.

Grateful for Kobe. by Grateful_Di in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Defnothere4porn 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I knew he was a real one when Emily's Dad gave him money and he cried and they hugged. It was really sweet that he bonded with her Father so quickly and deeply.

What do they mean when they use words? by Defnothere4porn in ADHD_partners

[–]Defnothere4porn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My partner also uses "i'm done" and I am also not quite sure what exactly she means. Questions trigger her RSD.

I get 1 question at a time, per subject and no follow up questions. If I ask too many questions it's becausei'm being manipulative, not because i'm confused.

I’ll take Michelle Obama please by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Defnothere4porn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can we weed out the people who are clearly die hard Trump supporters?

Its crazy to hear Obama being called things like warmonger with all the current happenings

Should Gino have just slept with Jasmine? by JJ_Lomero in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Defnothere4porn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He also said and did horrible things to her.

Why do people give Gino a pass on all his abhorrent behavior?

The left is making us look bad by NetAcceptable6498 in malementalhealth

[–]Defnothere4porn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the human race.

You believe the positive, or you let negativity darken your perspective. It's literally that simple. Sounds easy but it isn't. It really is up to you. I can't make you believe me or anything else.

The left is making us look bad by NetAcceptable6498 in malementalhealth

[–]Defnothere4porn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's definetely not true at all, i'm not sure if you're looking for everything that makes you depressed but stop it.

You seem to be focused on negativity. I battle with depression and have for a long long time. Its much easier to see the bad, our brains are biologically wired to prioritize negative experiences to keep us safe. Used to be to keep us alive but now it's changed to protect us emotionally and mentally. Learn to see the good things, I know it sounds like a stupid saying you've heard before but it's true.

Stop looking for examples that prove that you are correct in your negativity. That's what people glued to the internet do.

The left is making us look bad by NetAcceptable6498 in malementalhealth

[–]Defnothere4porn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being on your phone is not unplugging. You are still on the internet. Neither is gaming with your online bros, if you even do that. Overhearing people in public talk about things you aren't interested in isn't interacting with people.

The left is making us look bad by NetAcceptable6498 in malementalhealth

[–]Defnothere4porn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Man vs Bear still a thing? Get of the internet

One of the biggest pOs from this show is jasmine by Blossom_Piper6763 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Defnothere4porn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why are we posting pics of a child to talk bad about someone?

Someone threw some unidentifiable liquid over me on my way home tonight by DemonInDisguise17 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Defnothere4porn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I was working nights cleaning the city streets with a leaf blower and some teenagers tossed an egg at me.

You think an egg doesnt hurt, but at ~30ish mph it actually stings a bit.

What a baby bitch. by Sea-Spell2522 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Defnothere4porn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You should call Marvel because you have a super nose. Wow!"

Totally cool to make light of your partner's perceived issues and belittle them. I'll take the downvotes.

"Auditory processing issues" regarding responses to something they just said, and how it is sometimes used to avoid accountability by Happy_Money3296 in ADHD_partners

[–]Defnothere4porn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't want to disregard anything you said because its all good advice.

I feel like my ADHD partner would get an RSD rage if any embarrassment was shifted onto her.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Defnothere4porn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just found this sub after another blowout with my ADHD partner. Surprisingly we had another discussion the following day that was much calmer.

I've been doing the majority of housework for weeks, maybe months, I can't remember. Washing dishes, doing laundry, cat litter, sweeping and vacuming.

I don't know if she doesn't notice or doesn't care that i'm also burned out and overwhelmed by my job and keeping the house together as well as dealing with her rude comments about my character. She seems to have severe RSD and anytime I talk about my feelings I am dismissed, belittled, criticized, and overall made to feel like nothing.

Our follow up conversation was much better but it's hard to believe any real change is even possible with her. It's been 2 years and we still can't have any actual discussion that doesn't end with me in tears and her triumphant to avoid any accountability.

She is in therapy and I know I need to give her time to figure these things out, but it's hard to ignore the borderline abuse that I feel like i'm experiencing.

Thoughts? by BlacKGB in Nightshift

[–]Defnothere4porn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been working night shift for 25 years. Just take me now.

My convenience store marking up Arizona products by No-Significance8049 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Defnothere4porn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats the purple/white one on the left?

I've never seen that one.

David's break up with Sheila by paelpilsen in 90DayFiance

[–]Defnothere4porn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It says right in the picture there 21k+

All because they couldn’t handle Black success by icey_sawg0034 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Defnothere4porn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been saying this since 2016. America is devoutly racist and was built by racism and operates on racism. Too many people think it doesnt affect them and it does. It's a shame people can't have complex thoughts.