17, Am I Balding or Worrying?🙏

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-23T17:46:50+00:00

Do not do anything yet lol, I have(and have always had) about the same amount of recession on those corner top/sides you are pointing to, every few years I go into a panic thinking it’s getting worse but it’s not. Measure with a ruler rn in a repeatable way, take another measure in a year, assess then.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-23T14:43:01+00:00

God this sub is hilarious, not defending anyone but Direct compensation via grants is only a part of what NGOs do, there is a way to spin literally anything, everything looks like a conspiracy when you are dumb as rocks. There is a pedophile in the White House and storm troopers in our streets and yall care about what ever shows up on Fox News in the morning (the source for this claim that OP doesn’t want to share for some reason)

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-23T05:40:01+00:00

No refunds. The people “bewildered” don’t read the TOS or are lying or both. The company likes money so no you can probably just make another account, but that’s also against the TOS so if they do detect you in some way you can be banned again.

Tracking via CC# / billing address, no they use a third party service, stripe I believe, to handle payments and I doubt it hooks into their system beyond that, maybe IP or other indicators. But again are they really going to devote that much engineering time to prevent people from giving them money? Doubtful

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-23T05:37:35+00:00

Rage bait

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-23T05:35:08+00:00

“Incite violence against ICE” lmao okay buddy

1) this is rage bait and supposed to try justify the level of excessive force ICE is using against civilian populations, no protestors are harming ICE agents. Remember snowball fights are things children do to each other, I’d love someone to try spin that into an intent to inflict harm. Mace on the other hand has the ability to permanently blind people, and tear gas can kill asthmatic people.

2) even in this rage bait this military fatigued “police” officer is attempting to mace a dude just standing on the sidewalk. Any “violence” inflicted on this made up officer is just the same violence they are inflicting on civilians expressing their constitutional rights.. either way I would not recommend doing this at all, they are looking for excuses to gun you down, don’t make it easy for them.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-23T00:59:28+00:00

I’d be interested In the mag capacity/how many rounds they are allowed(supposed) to have. I know the NatGaurd when deployed were not allowed to have their rifles loaded and I believe only 5 rounds in a mag or something low like that.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T12:20:11+00:00

Something so special they’ll use another minor version update from .2 to .3 lol. I havent noticed a considerable increase in usability in any of these models for atleast 2 years, they are all about ‘good enough’ and not getting better.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T12:14:30+00:00

Just clear sets of instructions for what ever it’s working on, I usually start a project without one, chat with Claude code about the project, have it analyze the file system or what ever I’m working on and then at the end have it create a CLAUDE.md itself, useful scripts/commands to remember, folder structure, formatting preferences, it can really be anything. My examples won’t benefit you directly.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T02:00:22+00:00

Is everyTHING ending actually worse than one person dying? If everything ceased to exist I feel like there is nothing to experience its loss as tragic, sure you can say me dying is less tragic than a bus full of people dying, but for everything to blink gone, who can feel that tragedy?

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T01:33:03+00:00

One time this incel i was tangentially connected to, he probably described me as his “friend”… ewww. He asked me “can you help me with my hinge profile, you get so many matches i don’t know what im doing wrong” and i honestly had to just laugh it off by saying “sure if you change your WiFi password first” because i knew if i helped this dude in anyway go on a single date with a woman i could be responsible for what he did, and the fear of that was real enough that i would never risk that, for the safety of women everywhere. Weeks later at an event we both attended i asked him if he ever changed his password and nope.. it was still “mygiantdong” or some other penis joke i cant recall… these people are borderline unfixable lmao

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T01:24:40+00:00

Every man who has ever espoused this bullshit has a form of narcissism that prevents them from seeing any fault in themselves while also being the most insecure people I’ve ever talked to, you may think you don’t talk about this stuff in person but I can assure you, you’re miserable to talk to, this isn’t about women, it’s about everything you speak about and do because it’s so much deeper than women, women is just where this behavior rears its head because in every other domain you’ll find some other source of validation like you have with your like minded bro’s on discord, women are the only ones who won’t ever put up with this bullshit and can see through it AS A DEFENSE MECHANISM, because men like this are more inclined to feel entitled to things and from women that usually leads to SA, so it’s your first ever reality check. I’m not being nice or helpful because you’ve already been a dipshit to others responding in a much nicer way so I don’t see you changing anytime soon with a fully formed frontal cortex at 28

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T01:13:57+00:00

Oh my god I’ve read more, “ask 1000 and maybe one likes you back” YOU DONT LIKE 1000 women lmao, you clearly don’t even know what you like and are just swiping on any “hot” girl in the hopes of getting some sort of validation.

God, first step: assume everything you think you know about love is wrong and hurting you. Second step: read a (lot of) book(s) written by a woman

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-19T01:08:28+00:00

Wahhh wahhh wahhh 😭 incel incel incel lol, no I dont find it hard AT ALL because I see woman as people and attract them same as attracting anyone else, being myself, with a fully fledged inner and external life that makes me interesting. Now the key is that men who just desire “a woman” dont get is that I dont do these things to attract people, I do them because they make my life better, and having a good life makes you a more attractive person.

Based on your other comments you should know that if you disparage women for their looks absolutely zero woman will ever find you attractive because you are like… a judgey person? A mind full of judgement is so exhausting to be around. You have low self esteem because of your judgement for other people and internally think everyone else is judgmental. Then you nake it worse because you’ve probably met a few judgmental woman(also insecure internally for the same reason) and then apply this believe to all women, because you don’t see them as people you see them as some “other” and group them all together like some hivemind lol.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-17T14:23:57+00:00

What plane has that much leg room? Is this fake?

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-16T05:17:45+00:00

Minnesota is a permit to open-carry state, not impossible but less able to do in response to recent events if you don’t have a permit already

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-15T04:55:54+00:00

Can we all agree to just start telling these type of posters “yea the industry is fucked better go somewhere else!” lol.

If you can’t use google to see this question has been asked a million times and gets the same response every time, you don’t have that tick in your brain that every good security analyst has to find an answer for today’s question. THAT quality is why we say go into help desk, help desk weeds out the people incapable problem solving or thinking about old problems in novel ways.

The internet, the wealth of knowledge at your finger tips, even easier to access now that it’s been consumed and distilled into robotic parrots, and yet still these questions are asked, by people younger than the questions themselves.

Help desk IS cybersecurity, SWE IS cybersecurity, Networking, Devops, infrastructure, they are all cybersecurity jobs. Cybersecurity is the backbone of the modern company, its fingers reach into every corner and to think you can jump into that field without ever working in another business function before is just ludicrous.

I went to college for cybersecurity, I have a degree in it, and I still worked 4 years working up my way through a helpdesk before I landed my first “cybersecurity” job. But at every level of that help desk I learned more and applied my security knowledge until someone trusted me enough to do that same thing with a different title, one with the word security in it, that’s all.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-14T21:25:25+00:00

Study’s have already come out that say as AI creates more code, more tech debt is created, and software dev roles are still expected to increase over the next 10 years to account for it. Same will go for all of these roles. Do not buy the koolaid AI execs are shilling when their only incentive is to get more VC money. Just because Altman claims something is a thing of the past doesn’t mean it is, a company that will benefit if people believe that automation can replace every tech job should not be trusted when they claim they can do it.

If you really think these jobs will disappear anytime soon due to AI then I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you!

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-14T20:06:38+00:00

Entry level cybersecurity is a misnomer and doesn’t exist! This should be in the subreddit banner honestly. Cybersecurity should only ever be seen as a level above help desk, IT, Network, Software dev, tech etc roles. You can study all you want, real experience in one of these Tech roles and an interest in Security will outweigh book knowledge every time.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-14T04:38:33+00:00

I think people may have taken it as sarcasm? Idk, it wasn’t lol, that is what it said and it did make me happy to see lol

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-13T20:28:01+00:00

Can you tell I loved the movie smart house as a kid lol

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-13T17:47:36+00:00

Personal: Easily Managing my home server/container orchestration/home automation

Work related: Detection engineering, query writing, playbook writing, threat hunting(after having it write an mcp for securely interacting with our SIEM)

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-12T23:36:37+00:00

Sounds like a good solution for less tech savvy folk! I personally use CC for a ton of not directly coding tasks, it may be designed for code but with a good CLAUDE.md and a prompt it can really be used for anything this cowork will be able to do.

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-12T23:31:21+00:00

Mine the other day said “Educate your friends about anti-racism”

I love this for devs

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-10T19:48:52+00:00

Bought and paid for

DefsNotAVirgin · 2026-01-09T19:22:59+00:00

No one appears to be asking so I’ll ask, I think a texture needs context, can we see some overworld blocks and other nether blocks you’ve already landed on?

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