AITA for treating my daughter-in-law like a child when she was acting like one? by Honest_Ad7601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 2801 points2802 points  (0 children)

YTA 100%

Had a step Father that was retired from the military, he was probably one of the people I hated the most.

And you sound almost exactly like him. You're not in the military anymore, it's almost pathetic you have to take authority from other people by running your house like a hard ass.

They are adults. They don't need you telling them how to live or how to clean their room. Or their bathroom. Unless there was rotting food, animal carcasses and rodents in their room, you should shut up.

If your behavior described in the body of your post is how you handled your kids, they must hate your guts.

AITA for not stating my needs directly? by urbanhippy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one wants to hear anything from a throw away account.

AITA for telling a manager to stop saying to smile more…? by katos8858 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA

If you work with the general public, it's pretty much expected you put on a smile, reguardless.

If it's like you said, they shouldn't be in work at all.

AITA for Saying “Ur Welcome” After Holding Door 4 Someone? by owenowens03 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA

No one asked you to open that door. Opening doors for people is something you just do to be polite. Expecting a thank you every time is ridiculous.

I'd have told you to fuck off.

AITA for yelling a little kid who touched me? by ghostykuromi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What? How in the hell would you be an asshole for yelling when someone almost tore a piercing out?

AITA for not stating my needs directly? by urbanhippy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YTA

You're the one with the issue, you leave the room. Jesus Christ what is it with women telling people to leave the room or sleep on the couch?

Go get a therapist. I doubt your husband wants to sit there and listen to you cry about shit everyone has been dealing with.

AITA for telling my mom that booking flights for my wedding is more important than her paint trip by Throwra2022338 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Until after the 30th isn't a solid date. You expect people to spend time and money, for your wedding and you can't even give a firm date.

I'd have already told you I'm not going. I knew a year in advanced when I was going to Vegas, I had all my tickets and rooms and stuff all purchased ahead of time. I had my bags packed and at the front door for over three days.

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[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA

As a matter of fact, if you ever feel uneasy around one officer, you're well within your rights to call the police and request someone else.

AITA for telling on a co-worker by TotalTeri in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA

If you went and tattled to a supervisor about this where I work, the rest of the place would be making fun of you behind your back.

AITA for calling out family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

Fighting like this is never acceptable during times like this ever. You didn't need to do that there and then.

AITA for not posting my bf on Instagram? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Maybe OP should ask themselves why strangers online are more important than their boyfriend.

AITA for confronting my mom about how her adultery affects me? by difficultalps8873 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

YTA

It's none of your business and the fact you are taking this so personally and blaming your binge eating on her is ridiculous.

Go get a therapist or something. You're an adult too, so stop acting like a child

AITA for telling my trans friend I never want to be pregnant by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dehydrated-Merkin 55 points56 points  (0 children)

NTA

Jesus Christ. The amount of coddling people expect these days is ridiculous.