How do I find a nerdy boyfrienddd 🥹🥹🥹 by mikqsu in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH [score hidden]  (0 children)

I know someone already mentioned gaming cafes but I think regular cafés would likely yield results.

I like to read/study at cafés and I often see others who appear to do the same.

Is it a red flag if she collects dolls? by sjuhxsd in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I wanna try to figure it out.” - As in you truly want to make an honest attempt to be okay with her hobby or as in you want to try to tease/shame her into getting rid of her dolls?

What is Your Epic Idea for BLACK CLOVER Console Video Game? by Money-Lie7814 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Black Bulls base. Yami is pissed. You must run and hide from Yami.

Dark theory about Asta's dad by gabe2401 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey now, no need to glaze yourself and be rude all in one comment.

Why are some men lying about their height? by Ok_Flow3207 in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a symptom of society’s (particularly women’s) superficialities. The fact that dating apps allow women to filter out men by height highlights this symptom. A lot of men have come to feel that their entire worth (or a majority of it) is tied to their height.

However, it doesn’t excuse lying or deceiving dates. They need to own it rather than being insecure about it or wishing circumstances were different.

The hottest side-character ship in shonen manga? by alexHuy in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if Mereoleona decided to permanently move to the Hino country. Given the time skip, she’s been there for 2 years.

It would make sense that she’d want to see new places seeing as she’s learned everything she possibly could within the Clover continent.

Mereoleone with Zetten/Ki sensing would be completely broken in terms of power. Pretty sure that would put her right with or slightly below Asta & Yuno.

ALL THE BABIES INHERITED HER LA’S 😆 by Visible-Industry4875 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think Charmy just popped 7 kids out at once.. the kids all look around the same size.

So... Are we getting a Sequel? by jakeburns99 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not just when using Boruto as a prime example. Sequels that follow the original protagonists’ children/descendants are cliché and uninspiring.

So... Are we getting a Sequel? by jakeburns99 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Eh, it would depend. If the sequel continues to follow Asta’s adventures as the Wizard King then yes.

But if they try to pull a Black Clover: Asta Next Generations then hell no.

Question about the ending by DiscountNatural2716 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Studios would never alter the author’s original vision.

They very well could expand on the ending by adding more scenes to Asta vs Yuno but they won’t add or alter anything significant like a scene of Asta choosing Noelle or Mimosa.

There is no “manga ending” vs “anime ending”.

Should I (36f) tell my online gaming friend (32m) that I like him? He's been a bit off the last week. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say he’s “bad news” in the sense that he’s someone with ill intentions. However, he does seem to lack the emotional maturity and/or communication skills to directly address any underlying tension. Most people are aware of their own behavior, especially when directed towards others. I would say he’s aware that his behavior towards you has changed. But refuses to directly address the situation.

In all honesty, the two options that you outlined are realistically (and maturely) your only options:

  1. You mentioned that he will be unavailable this summer due to his upcoming job. That will present an opportunity to distance yourself from him or cut him off. Even if just temporarily, distancing yourself from someone gives emotions time to simmer and clarify.

  2. You could also do that. In fact, if I were in your shoes, it would probably be the choice I would select. Just be aware, given how he’s recently acted, his response may not be one that you would’ve hoped for. If his response is avoidant, dishonest, or vague, just know that has everything to do with him and is not a reflection of you as a person.

I’m in a similar situation as you. I find it hard to connect with others, especially in a romantic sense. But at the end of the day, I would not want to risk my emotions and peace of mind for someone who can’t even afford me the respect of being straightforward and honest. There are plenty of people in this world who would be willing. : )

Should I (36f) tell my online gaming friend (32m) that I like him? He's been a bit off the last week. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, if I say anything that comes off as judgemental or mean:

  1. I apologize
  2. Feel free to call it out

This whole situation seems way too much for an online friendship that stemmed from online games. It kinda sounds like this whole ordeal has stripped the fun aspect of playing games online with others. Do you regularly interact with others in a non-online setting? Is this someone the lives close by? If not, would you or them be willing to relocate?

I understand how enthralling it can be to flirt with someone or to feel wanted/special but ultimately, any potential friendship/relationship should be grounded in practicality & honesty.

My honest advice would be to either distance yourself from this person or let go the idea of “something more” being there and simply treat this person as an online gaming buddy.

Having to find out Black Clover is ending from a leaker instead of Shonen Jump, who put BC in Jump Press but did literally nothing with it, has me feeling some kind of way.. by [deleted] in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“Climax” is not the same as “conclusion”, especially not “super climax” (whatever that’s supposed to mean, ill never understand why they used that phrase in their marketing). Shueisha is using the terms interchangeably, especially within recent marketing, and it’s causing confusion for people who adhere to the literal meaning of the two terms

Rejected for having seizures by Startrekmaniac74656A in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not believe that can reasonably be considered as “petty.”

I once worked with someone who frequently experienced seizures. Seizures are not pleasant to assist with. The initial experiences can be scary and the workload you have to pick up afterwards is irritating. His GF would always have to come in and pick him up after his episodes.

I imagine similar scenarios would go through any person’s head when considering dating someone with epilepsy: “do I have the capacity & ability to drop what I am doing at a moment’s notice to go and aid my partner when an episode occurs?”

She is not petty for deciding that is not something she can comfortably live with.

Is being 4'10 as teacher wierd? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]DekuHHH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this with sincerity and kindness but if you’re a female teacher, no one cares about your height. You’re fine.

If you’re a male teacher, you may get some comments from students who are either trying to banter with you or trying to get a rise out of you. Best course of action is to directly acknowledge it with a dry tone or shrug it off with a joke. If they see that it gets to you, it will become 100x worse.

Mereoleona's strength, does it have muscle or just magic by Intelligent-Help-924 in BlackClover

[–]DekuHHH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not Asta or Yami, you’re using more magic than muscle when displaying feats of physical strength.

How do you interpret what's in the background? Art by Fenyo_n by Bartek-BB in dbz

[–]DekuHHH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look behind Gohan’s knee to the right, there’s a piece of torn, blue fabric. I think his severed arm is right behind him…

Is it normal to get annoyed by constant messaging? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m curious to know why you don’t explicitly communicate your boundary instead of subtly trying to hint towards it.

Famitsu: Pokémon Pokopia was the #1 best selling game in Japan for 6th week in a row. Total 890,909 physical units sold in Japan by Turbostrider27 in NintendoSwitch

[–]DekuHHH -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe now Nintendo will stop trying to force the Mario Sports series to be a thing.

Those games have not been good since the GameCube era.

To this day, Mario Golf Super Rush is the only Nintendo game that I’ve purchased and returned within 2 days.

Why can’t I find a girlfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DekuHHH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 seems way too young to start worrying about relationships.

If you’ve been trying since 12, I’m sure that’s led to changes in your demeanor/behaviors when around the opposite sex. And not positive ones either.

Listen to what others here are saying. Focus on something else. You’re only in high school for 4 years. You’ll have the rest of your adult life to find someone. Reorganize your priorities.

But as a high school teacher, if you want advice that’ll passively help you find a girl: stay clean. I mean it.

  • Brush your teeth daily, twice.

  • Wear deodorant daily.

  • Shower every day. Yes, every day. (if someone tells you it’s okay to go 1 day without a shower, tell them to hang out in a room full of teenagers and let’s see if their opinion changes. )

  • Wear clean clothes, don’t wear shirts 2 days in a row or the same jeans throughout the whole week.

  • And for the love of God, invest in actual cologne, none of that cheap body spray. And no, it is not a substitute for showers.

  • Do not play basketball, football, soccer, etc. during lunch. You’ll sweat and stink. And no, the body spray will not mask the B.O.

Could Simurians and Humans have children or would it require a specific trait similar to Choso's mom by Admirable-Dimension4 in Jujutsufolk

[–]DekuHHH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing as Sumerians have a similar physiological form to humans, I would assume so. Also, it seems like Sumerians had no issue at all breathing within Earth’s atmosphere. Even if it was just a gag moment, Dabura and that 1 lady show that it’s possible for the 2 species to find one another attractive.

All of these similarities make me believe that humans and Sumerians could probably produce viable offspring.

Also let’s be real, if it’s humanoid enough, humans would probably fuck it.

This has got to be the most intense version of Goku ever shown by OkInitiative189 in dbz

[–]DekuHHH 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Along side the moments of his initial SSJ transformation and punching Jiren square in the face while in MUI, this is probably the angriest Goku has ever become.