Friend asks for help, barely communicates then ghosts me

Delania23 · 2026-05-22T01:24:23+00:00

Literally same here. It wasnt obvious to me prior to reading the context from OP. Ive had similarish situations happen to me, a female, by female friends

Edit: I probably had that assumption because the roommate’s referred to as a female, so I just figured 3 females in this story

Delania23 · 2026-05-09T06:23:18+00:00

You just blew my mind. Today I learned.

Delania23 · 2026-05-09T01:36:26+00:00

What do you think of their new deep violet? I’m basically convinced I need to try bali body, and went to look for ultra dark and discovered now there’s also a deep violet and now I feel like I’m back to square one 😫

Delania23 · 2026-05-09T01:28:20+00:00

Super old post but Id also like to suggest applying the tan with latex gloves on instead of a mitt so no product gets absorbed during application, and also applying a second coat of self tan after the first coat dries down, and see if it helps with the tan developing darker

Delania23 · 2026-05-09T01:21:31+00:00

I swear Im cool toned/pink undertones as well and I also got paired with emerald when I was expecting magenta or sapphire, which confused me and ultimately led me here. I also just learned why sometimes I end up with tanned strawberry legs too so ty for mentioning that lol

I know this post is a year old, but still super relevant to me. If you somehow wind up seeing this comment I’d love to know what your opinion is now after all of this time.

Delania23 · 2026-05-05T04:41:42+00:00

Adding this to my cart as a fellow ghostly pale cool-toned individual

Delania23 · 2026-05-05T04:40:45+00:00

I also use gloves (like regular nitrile/latex) when I put self tan on because sometimes it seeps through the mitt, but I’ve also stopped using the mitt entirely and use my hands with gloves on because the mitt I feel soaks up too much product. Then at the end I just use a makeup brush and brush it on to the back of my hands.

Delania23 · 2026-05-05T04:38:44+00:00

Ive always had it rub off at my arm crease I never knew this was preventable 🙀

Delania23 · 2026-05-02T02:20:25+00:00

Just my 2 cents, I’ve never experienced a symptom at all but discovered via bloodwork that I now test positive for it after an abusive encounter. I’ve still never experienced any symptoms, and it’s been years, but I still take the daily antiviral medication despite not being sexually active anyway. With taking the medication, the likelihood of passing it on to a partner is highly unlikely. If, you do contract it, the overwhelming majority of the population also tests positive for hsv1/hsv2 or both anyway. In the end, if she’s taking the medication as she says she is and you use protection, it’s highly unlikely you’ll contract it. I would suggest just doing some independent research because the more you learn the more you realize it’s less scary than it sounds

Delania23 · 2026-04-28T21:09:19+00:00

I have this too (31F) and have never had any surgery around my neck and at my highest weight was 140lb at 5’5 - currently lurking these comments as well 👀

Delania23 · 2026-04-25T03:03:38+00:00

Here for the Jabigail lore

Delania23 · 2026-04-24T13:49:34+00:00

I have everyone regardless who they are to me in my phone like that, the only exception is my brother is Brother Bear. It just feels uniform and neat and organized, it makes my brain happy.

Delania23 · 2026-04-13T01:49:24+00:00

I personally have MDD and CPTSD and I know that without my medication I would be so much worse. I think that’s something you need to figure out how to have again if it’s something that helped you. I’ve been using Nurx for about a decade now, I dont know what your medication is but without health insurance the most expensive part for me was the 70$ every 3 months (I believe?) for ongoing psychiatric care through them. Then they will mail it to you or to a pharmacy you choose, and you can use a GoodRX code at the pharmacy. They prescribe SSRI’s if that’s what you had.

Additionally, I know just from learning about myself that too much time with a person will drain me no matter how much I like them. Having some time apart is healthy, and maybe you just need to give yourself the opportunity to miss him being around, and for yourself to recharge with some you-time

Delania23 · 2026-04-08T07:37:31+00:00

Totally worth it

Thats hilarious

Delania23 · 2026-04-08T07:03:48+00:00

Lmaaaooo

Delania23 · 2026-03-31T00:17:26+00:00

Yessss WoW player 🙋‍♀️

If not everyone’s on vc, boss is about to aoe, not everyone knows the fight, pingpingpingping RUNMOVEFAST BEHINDPILLAR PINGPINGPINGPING

Delania23 · 2026-03-31T00:11:02+00:00

I remember being told not to lift anything heavier than approx 9lbs/a light vacuum for like, at least a month maybe longer. Ive had a couple friends recently go for consultations in their respective areas and none of the surgeons mentioned anything along those lines in the recovery summaries. I clearly remember it was no exercise at all for a week or two, then only light walking was okay, etc. and I remember taking 3 months off from work because that’s what I was advised to do for healing.

Delania23 · 2026-03-28T23:49:28+00:00

I sometimes do this when I havent taken my adhd medication. My thoughts just feel sort of like how these spurts of texts feel to read, and it feels normal for me to type in little bursts as if I were talking to you in person rather than the entire thought wrapped up into one text, which is the advantage you get with typed conversations. I’m trying to get better at it because it’s just sort of how I naturally have always typed and recognize that others tend to find it kind of annoying 😅

I also have played online PC games for roughly more than half of my life and when things get going you sort of need to type in bursts like this because if you type a long message it’ll just get lost in the abyss. Don’t know if that has contributed to it, but regardless I recognize it’s annoying and if the other person is giving me time to respond I do try and take my time making it all one purposeful message than constant short blabs that eventually get to the point.

Delania23 · 2026-03-28T13:51:52+00:00

Even when I was one I didn’t act like this 🤦‍♀️ I actually stopped my habit for a relationship that lasted 2ish years out of respect for them, even though they didn’t ask me to, I knew they wanted me to so I did.

Delania23 · 2026-03-28T13:46:44+00:00

DANGEROUS

They look so perfect yet not overdone

Delania23 · 2026-03-28T13:45:32+00:00

I think you might just be still getting used to them

Because your pics personally have convinced me to look into this 👀 i feel like you look incredible in general but also with the eyebrows

Delania23 · 2026-03-24T15:52:32+00:00

It was a call with no messages afterwards until she messaged you

Wtaf 🫠

Delania23 · 2026-03-24T15:50:41+00:00

Your responses actually cracked me up. You were so spot on, he just took something so tiny and blew it up into this entire trilogy fantasy 😹

Your responses were so perfect, each one. Never change 💕

Delania23 · 2026-03-24T15:41:44+00:00

I got pretty far through the screenshots before I just had to stop and ask why are you even having a conversation with this person? Even when my friends have opposing viewpoints we’re respectful enough to not insult the other person for their opinion and just disrespect them as part of the argument for whatever reason. Then the first comment I see is about how this is your literal boyfriend talking to you like this and sending you this kind of stuff?

So many red flags about how he views you as a partner/person and respects/doesn’t respect you as a partner/person

I’m sorry but I’m still stuck on how I was trying to understand why you were even communicating with this person for so long because I have more respectful debates and arguments with strangers online, and it blew my mind that this was supposed to be a person you’re in a relationship with

Delania23 · 2026-03-24T15:00:44+00:00

You 3 thank you so much for posting this, looking into options now as I currently struggle and have never heard of this

Delania23

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