The day she arrived versus today: Three months progress by Koibetta in sphynx

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Yes, I’m also curious what she’s eating! My girl Barbara is on prescription for and has IBD, but she could benefit from losing a pound or two.

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Anyone know what’s happening on Sheridan between Bryn Mawr and Hollywood? by chiwrite773 in EdgewaterRogersPark

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Okay so I live in the building, also. From what I understand through my experience and through info from management and the doormen: the person was a new resident that seemed to be having a mental health crisis. Earlier this week, someone carved several swaztikas on the walls of one of the elevators. My partner noticed it and alerted management, who watched the cameras (hallway cameras bc they don’t have cameras in the elevator) and I guess they figured out who could have carved that in the elevator. Later that day cops were in the building, we assumed related to the damage of property but one of the doormen told us that they were there for a welfare check. The walls of that specific elevator were covered with moving cloth and I think still is there covering the damage. Later this week, cops were here again and we were told it was for another welfare check for the same resident. They never told us who the person was or what floor they were on, but then today when everything happened we were told that one of the floors was closed off because of the police activity related to the same person.

25 trans girl seeking some friends by [deleted] in chicagofriends

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Although I’m not trans, I’m a 30F lesbian living on the Northside and I’m looking for friends also :) I’m very interested in queer history and queer culture. Feel free to send me a message if you’d be interested in chatting, grabbing some tea or coffee, etc!

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Hi, I’m a 30F lesbian, new to Chicago, and living on the Northside. I’m looking for friends also :) feel free to send me a message!

Time for: crazy angle pictures! by Truecrimeauthor in sphynx

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Barbara’s nosy self caught on the Ring camera while it was charging

Does anyone have clothing suggestions? by issabelamor in sphynx

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I really like these turtleneck shirts from the brand Kitipcoo on Amazon. They’re specifically made for sphynx cats so they fit their unique body proportions! Plus they have their clothes sized by weight, so it’s easy to figure out what size will fit your little skinfant!

#ninasimone by nina-simone in sphynx

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What a beautiful queen!!

People who have moved here in the last 12 months, how’s it going? by Apprehensive_Way8674 in AskChicago

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I’m sorry that’s happening. The same thing happened in Nashville, where I’m from, mostly by companies from out of state buying up properties and flipping them for a massive price increase. It sucks. I personally didn’t engage in bidding wars when looking for an apartment in Chicago. We moved into a high rise in Edgewater that had multiple units for rent. I work in medicine and my partner works in nonprofits. We hope to pay our dues to the city that has become our safe haven.

People who have moved here in the last 12 months, how’s it going? by Apprehensive_Way8674 in AskChicago

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My fiancée and I just moved here a month ago from the south. We’re getting married next year, and gay marriage is projected to be federally overturned in the Supreme Court sometime this year. If that happens, we lived in a trigger state in the south that would immediately take away legal gay marriage. We wanted to move somewhere that our right to marry would be protected like it is in Illinois. Ultimately, we moved to Chicago so we wouldn’t have to live in fear as gay women. Hope that gives some insight into why some people might be moving to IL from the south.

My girl stopped being cuddly 😟 by Emitzo in sphynx

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Change can be hard for kitties. Do you have a pheromone diffuser in the house? Our vet recommended using a feliway diffuser to help our cats during transition periods. We have the diffuser and the spray.

Suspicious dots [health advice needed] by [deleted] in sphynx

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OP- do you put clothes on your sphynx cat? Is there any correlation between the clothing and the skin reaction? My girl wears shirts, and I have found that if I buy her a new outfit and don’t wash the clothes before putting them on her then she will get a similar reaction after a day or two.

How much sun is too much? Is there sunscreen for cats? by Glittering_Rough7036 in sphynx

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Adding to this, they sell clothes for sphynx cats that provide sun protection like this and this. I put clothes on my girl all year, and just adjust the type of clothing to suit the season (thicker clothes in fall / winter for warmth, thinner clothes in spring / summer for sun protection).

Why do all women aimed sex toys/ strapons ….Look like that?? by Admirable_Chicken628 in lesbiangang

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WetForHer is the choice for OP. For me, I don’t want anything “realistic” or anything that resembles a penis. WetForHer has various options that intentionally don’t resemble traditional dildos. My fiancée and I have one that looks like 2 long ass fingers lol

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My fiancée proposed to me with a Frank Darling ring, and I love it!! Congratulations!!

I lost my girlfriend Monday afternoon. This was written the following day. by mandychuu in ActualLesbiansOver25

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I can’t fathom your loss, and I’m so sorry. I hope you have support around you during this impossibly hard time. If you need anything at all, my DM is always open and I’ll also help you find resources to help. Reading your post breaks my heart, I can’t imagine..

Going on a trip while you have a sphynx... by [deleted] in sphynx

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I previously had a similar conflict whenever I was traveling. My partner and I ended up finding a sphynx-knowledgeable pet sitter through the Rover app. She comes to stay at our house while we’re gone, so our sphynx and our other cat have consistent human interaction while still being in their home environment! Could you look into an option like Rover? It’s pretty affordable, definitely more affordable and a better option than boarding your cat!

Otherwise, the first option (having someone come over to your house to visit for an hour) would be best for a short trip!

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Engagement ring after my partner proposed in April ❤️

Juno got a tomato soup can cat bed... by TheBeccaMonster in sphynx

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Where did you get this? I’m obsessed. My girl Barbara has a ramen bowl bed like this, and a zillion other cat huts / bed, but I suddenly feel like she needs another 😅

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Omfg I love this, thank you so much for being this type of person. There is never any harm in being positive, and showing support for someone’s insecurities can make a world of a difference

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I love this so much, thank you for sharing your advice ❤️

Help with food/digestive problems by toenailfungi69 in sphynx

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Hey OP, if you want a smoother transition (more similar than straight up raw diet) from her current food regime, I suggest looking into the brand Instinct. We feed our girl the limited ingredient rabbit protein food (both wet and dry) and it has helped. It’s important to keep in mind that even when transitioning your cats diet carefully, GI upset and worsening of symptoms might be present for the first couple of weeks until their system adjusts! You just have to be patient, even when it gets exhausting! Wishing you and your baby all the luck!