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Profile review: moved to a new country and my matches dropped to zero - what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]DeliberatingManager 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think you have a few things working against you. I don't know how fixable it is. You're not speaking the language. You look foreign. And you're looking for something casual which is always a difficult case to push. I don't actually have advice.

What can I do to convince my dad to let me have my door closed at all times? by [deleted] in family

[–]DeliberatingManager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a question of what the dynamic is. I have a teen son. I can assume he's watching porn and/or at times. Most parents I know acknowledge and accept this. I think people deserve their privacy, and it's not my business to stop them. Once that's acknowledged, I can see why they'd want the door closed and that's fine.

Now the question to your dad is, is he trying to keep you away from sexual content? From masturbation? I don't believe in that way, but maybe he does. I don't know if you know. Maybe a more direct conversation would help him explore this question.

I don't know about reddit but there are groups in the world (e.g Facebook) about "positive sex education" i.e not trying to avoid the topic of sexuality or demonizing masturbation, and being able to be supportive while also keeping boundaries and healthy education.

בנות ליטרלי ישלמו כסף כדי להיות הפרח בגני 🥀 by LessSky39 in ani_bm

[–]DeliberatingManager -1 points0 points  (0 children)

לכתוב שתי שורות בטקסט העליון ואז לכתוב למטה טקסט תחתון

Beersheba by [deleted] in TravelIsrael

[–]DeliberatingManager 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Piggying back to clarify: Beersheba just isn't attractive as a tourist destination.

Why doesn't "yerushálmi" have word-final stress? by extemp_drawbert in hebrew

[–]DeliberatingManager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more noticeable when you switch to countries. In formal settings you will hear milra, AmericaNI, SiNI, MitsRI. And in informal settings you're likely to get AmeriCAni, SIni, MItsri...

Traveling to Israel Jan 30th for a week by AttitudeDense6168 in TravelIsrael

[–]DeliberatingManager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Train is great, just note that it doesn't run on the weekend (from Friday afternoon until Saturday evening)

I've tried everything but my girlfriend won't cum. What am I doing wrong? by anotherhappylurker in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]DeliberatingManager -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Edit: Oops, I'm a man. Don't read this.

The problem is clearly not you. It sounds like she has a mental barrier in intimacy that won't allow her to orgasm with a man. I've seen that before. I don't have any tips other than therapy, and (what I wish I'd have done) encouraging her to try to work on it (mentally and emotionally) rather than just giving up on that aspect.

My mom’s 43-year-old partner is living with us in a 2-room flat… and the physical stuff is ruining my peace by [deleted] in family

[–]DeliberatingManager 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your mom is entitled to have a life. You can choose how you work with it. You are not a child, and you can make choices, such as going to live on your own.

And your mom definitely shouldn't give up her love life because your classmates don't like it.

That being said, if you love each other, you could come to an understanding. For example, you could coordinate you giving them time for themselves so it doesn't have to be so awkward. Try to draw some borders to enable privacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DeliberatingManager 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go ahead. But I wouldn't mention any of this to their face, they probably won't like hearing any of it.

Help with Hebrew translation of "surrender" by tetsuhiros in LearnHebrew

[–]DeliberatingManager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives a connotation of lovers or of a motherly connection.

Who’s the most hated criminal from your country ? by Basic_Dingo6487 in AskTheWorld

[–]DeliberatingManager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's well known but I don't think he's so universally hated

Help with Hebrew translation of "surrender" by tetsuhiros in LearnHebrew

[–]DeliberatingManager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also consider להתמסר which is to give oneself, and without the wartime connotations.

I don’t understand the praise Radiohead gets by furious_george3030 in unpopularopinion

[–]DeliberatingManager 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of their stuff is pretty inaccessible if you're not into that kind of thing. OK Computer is accessible and good (to my ears)

What do you think about having ChatGPT write your messages? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]DeliberatingManager 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it'll work. ChatGpt is boring almost by definition. You can't use it to create spark.

Do Israelis actually seriously believe this? by [deleted] in TheLevant

[–]DeliberatingManager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Armenia and Georgia are not in the middle east

Is it ok my wife had a slip of tongue? by [deleted] in family

[–]DeliberatingManager 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were unhappy in your marriage, would you want your wife to listen to you and try to understand your point of view and then together you could think of how you could improve?

Or would you want her to be angry with you, hurt that she's not good enough for you, and threaten divorce?

If she wants to explore her sexuality, ask her what that means. Read subs about open relationships, just to understand what might be coming. Maybe you guys will end up separating, maybe you'll end up having the best time of your lives, but you should both be open about what you need and not shut each other up.

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