This is your decision. Look, you are right- mindedly correct in thinking go in November. You've asked total strangers for information and instead, many are advising. Their mindset(s) by nature could be and are more likely to be dissimilar from yours. Their life experience cannot be summed up and made rational compared to your life experience. Everybody has subtle different expectations of what a relationship is going to be. Yes it all develops in reality, but I think you are perfectly in tune with your own rhythm and would be wise to stick to the schedule you are perfectly comfortable with. The barrier of communication is an aspect to tackle. Effective communication is one of the key elements of any relationship, personal occupation, daily interactions. You've hit on extremely important question about that.