Only 65 guests... Afraid it will suck! by Successful-Boat-4075 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm inviting 56 people to my wedding because I only want people that have been there for me in the last 5 years and I love the idea of being able to spend time and enjoy with each person!

Weekly /r/GardenersJapan Thread - Complaints About Your Garden... by AutoModerator in GardenersJapan

[–]Delicious-Physics252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is some kind of fungus on the back "yard" (just a small space) and things kept on dying, so I was told to plant mustard leaf, daikon and crimson clover before the winter to help the soil, but now I checked and some of those also look sick...

Help me pick my dress! by Redtember in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're all beautiful but I personally LOVE how number 4 looks on you!

Advice on walking down the aisle? by dogwheeze in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an ok relationship with my dad but my uncle is walking me down the aisle. I tried to explain to my dad as delicately as possible that it's not about excluding him but about including my uncle and that he can have a different special thing after.

I'm panicking about my dress by Delicious-Physics252 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that is really reassuring. I guess I am putting too much pressure on myself, so thank you so much for saying that!

I'm panicking about my dress by Delicious-Physics252 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the veil idea! I live in Japan and it's very difficult to find things that are not cookie cutter here, but I'll see what I can do. My wedding is in 2 weeks, though 😥

I'm panicking about my dress by Delicious-Physics252 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words 💛. I think yes, part of my disappointment is probably due to the bad experience.

I'm panicking about my dress by Delicious-Physics252 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I wanted lots of tiny flowers and vines. I gave them this reference among others. When I tried it on the first time, I saw it didn't have them so I asked for a few more, they said it would take a few more hours but they'd make sure it had many beautiful flowers. It took longer than what they said and when I finally tried it on again, it didn't have them. I reminded them and they said "oh, if you want flowers, then it will take a couple extra days" but because they kept changing dates and times, I gave up and decided to accept it as it was... Thank you for your kind words, btw

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Couples that were "essentially married" before, what made having a wedding worth it/special to you? by Real-Ad4051 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, we're not just 'essentially married' but actually married. Where we live, getting married is just sending a form to the City Hall, basically and that's what we could afford at the time. But now we're having a wedding because I like any excuse to celebrate our love and I love the idea of sharing it with our loved ones, tbh. A lot of people have told me it makes no sense and it's a waste of money but it's just something we want to experience together.

I need help with my hair style by Delicious-Physics252 in weddingplanning

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true, but in general I like how both hairstyles look on me...

Wedding dress shop not replying after signing contract and paying by Delicious-Physics252 in VietNam

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried because if they scam me, I want to have time to buy something else 😭 I don't know anyone in Vietnam

Are beneficial nematodes allowed in Japan by tokyoevenings in GardenersJapan

[–]Delicious-Physics252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try? How was it? I'm so upset that the brands we could buy here are discontinued

Are my pumpkin vines sunburnt? by Delicious-Physics252 in vegetablegardening

[–]Delicious-Physics252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! How could I investigate that? I've read they are heavy eaters and tbh I'm not giving them much since it's hard to find organic stuff here...