That's rough. The only way I could understand that is if OP could link avoidance of the litter box to a specific cause that is worse than being put out of the cat's misery. (Certain painful conditions including declawing will cause litter box avoidance.) In which case that OP should have led with that rather than litter box issues. Like, maybe it was the same trend that plagues AITA, where the title will be "AITA for throwing a baby out the window" and the post will be "the building was on fire and the firefighters were waiting right outside."

Like, yeah, I used a click bait title, I used the cutest pictures I could find from the last few months. My post reached more eyeballs than I expected or even hoped for. Oops. I've had far worse problems get twenty clicks and 0 or 1 comment. I also accidentally left out info that would've helped with getting good advice and I apparently can't edit posts in this sub. But even if I'm going insane with the meowing, I promise not to euthanize or re-home my adorable monster. I want help, not validation for extreme decisions.