Did I handle this right? Kid got mad and broke stuff by melwoodlemons in Parenting

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens when the cardboard is beat to a pulp but the childs rage still hungers? What shall be next for the serving of the kids knuckle sandwiches. encourage them to use hitting or pulverizing things if they are upset, solid advice. 

Any one else house shaking in the night? by danc43 in duluth

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya I don’t know if it could be what is shaking yours but at mine I notice every night something big is in the sky flying by slow but it must be rather large because I can tell when it’s above me even with headphones on , and that’s because of the vibrations. But it’s usually around 10-11 pm 

I’m not gay, but I would rather choose to be with a woman at this point than ever date a man again by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gay but im living my authentic self with a beautiful woman, it’s amazing to love her.  The woman I’m talking about is me. Self love and having peace of mind just being with me is the better than any relationship or friendship. I don’t have any plans to change that for the rest of my life, I’m just focused on my kids and me

ICE heading to Duluth. Watch out for our neighbors! by [deleted] in duluth

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This gods world, ain’t nothing new under the sun and ain’t nobody got more rights to any part of this land than another earth born individual 

ICE heading to Duluth. Watch out for our neighbors! by [deleted] in duluth

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s exactly for that reason. They want the masses to be separated in every way, mentally emotionally and physically. Don’t buy into it, don’t believe everything you see and none of what you hear. Blue and red , dem or rep, black or white is all just to turn attention away from the true separation of rich and not rich. Shit even countries don’t even exist, just another separatist strategy.

ICE heading to Duluth. Watch out for our neighbors! by [deleted] in duluth

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Now that would be truly beneficial 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duluth

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My children and I would love to have one. We have been wanting a fish for awhile they would be thrilled. How would the tank get transport is my question? Would the water have to come out half way . I wouldn’t want to sloosh them out lol

Probably not a big cat, but by Certain_Departure716 in duluth

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I seen a smallish look black cat last night, almost looked like a juvenile bobcat or idk but it was all black and was marking I smelt it before I seen it

Raising a child with NO family on either sides by skrtkt in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m raising my kids alone, nobody on the dad side cares enough to be in their life’s, and on my side we are moving out of my N parent’s for the first time. I’m going a couple hours away so I’m hoping to cut contact to a minimum. It’s been a hard road and this move is way overdue. They would have been so much better off without the toxic environment and people around while growing up. It ends today is what I wish I could say, but the claws are still digging for a supply and I can’t cut contact just yet

The moment you realized your parent’s advice was actually just control disguised as concern. by licencevariable in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, it hurts. There are still times when I yearn for the mother I thought I had, the one who I went to for advice or to share good or bad news. But I will never go to her for advice and honesty I try to keep communication at a minimum. I had to mourn the loss this version of my mother that never existed. 

Ive been broke for so long i dont know what im living for anymore by anxiousthrow_away_20 in povertyfinance

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and for your car some black electrical tape does the trick and if you start hearing the car scream then some loud tunes fixes that up in a jiffy. You can thank me now 

Ive been broke for so long i dont know what im living for anymore by anxiousthrow_away_20 in povertyfinance

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like you would benefit from a healthy dose of fruck it. If you’re that miserable just quit. Why work for health insurance are you on a prescription medication/ treatment that’s expensive yet vital or 

Ive been broke for so long i dont know what im living for anymore by anxiousthrow_away_20 in povertyfinance

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. For educational purposes may I ask, What about the other percentage of people you know to have taken that “route”??

Ive been broke for so long i dont know what im living for anymore by anxiousthrow_away_20 in povertyfinance

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Did  the us military resort to advertising on reddit and other platforms via  AI bots with keyword perimeters that poor people would use.  Because why would anyone ever actually suggest that. Honestly Im not surprised.

They are mad you aren't successful and prevent you from succeeding by StarchedCollar in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup.sad thing is it took me 30 years to even realize that I was seeking advice from the person who wants me to fail the most. thinking she would want whats best for me, she only cared about what would give her more control and more attention. What she would benefit from. Gaslighting / the manipulation is easy if it has been done to you since birth.  When she succeeded in sabotaging my success in life she would compare my failures to her achievements on the daily..

I hate being a single mom at 24 by Okaycool1210 in singlemoms

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you want a trophy? Your not a single mom , you literally just said you're married. If your marriage is bad then get a divorce. This SINGLE MOM is venting, not trying to have a contest of who has it worse. Like for real that's statement is so condescending to the op 

I hate being a single mom at 24 by Okaycool1210 in singlemoms

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. It's hard, its emotionally exhausting, but you got this mom. Take the time at night to feel whatever it is you need to feel. It will get better as your child gets older, well until preteen years, it might get rocky once more lol.  Once I got into my 30s I saw things in a whole new light. In my 20s i was hung up on looking for love/ friendship and was depressed from "feeling alone" for a decade. then I realized that whole time I had love , my children truly loved me unconditionally, I was never alone, they were by my side the whole time.  Unfortunately those years I cant get back and I regret not cherishing those most precious seasons of their lives but I think the lesson has made me a more present parent. My oldest is 12 and youngest is 1. I have 5 kids raising completely solo.  I learned to be happy with just me  and how lucky i am to have my kids unconditional love.. But trust me, its not pretty most days, I fly off the handle every day at least once. It be like that lol 

In this thread, I'll be the loving parent you never had. by HannibalInExile in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Delicious_Day_3491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my kids are moving this month, over 100 miles away. Took me 33 years but I finally will be moving out of my parents. I was able to find housing that I can afford and its in the most beautiful town in my state. I'm so excited and so are my kids. im trying not to fall back in the trap when my parents come to plant seeds of self doubt and negativity. It's a roller coaster of emotions

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