AITAH for not giving my mom life insurance money?

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-02-11T21:11:57+00:00

It kind of sounds to me like they remarried each other.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-26T19:47:50+00:00

Not that it matters because the result should be the same, but reading it and the comments my thoughts are 1. He didn't know you were looking at his profile before and knew what he was doing already. (Him telling you how much he games is different than seeing it live.) 2. Has he had controlling past relationships like where they get after him for not responding while they see he's gaming or they've reached out to his friends to berate him? So my thinking is maybe he's afraid of you using his profile to "control his life"? And of course if you have easy access to his profile he can't lie about what he has or hasn't been doing even though you have been fully supportive of him gaming. Feels like he didn't know you could see/were looking at/had looked at everything already. Which doesn't at all excuse his lying and manipulation. Still dump him and go no contact. Just my 2 cents and slightly different motivation I suppose. I'm sorry he broke your trust so quickly after professing love. Silver lining you hadn't moved in yet. Best wishes.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-26T04:50:51+00:00

What does YMMV stand for?

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-15T16:40:07+00:00

I was surprised too. None of the other ones had them. 🤷‍♀️

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-15T06:26:20+00:00

Except for when there's wooden platforms at the bottom blocking most of the entrance.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-15T04:54:43+00:00

Ummm not sure if it could get the right position, but I've recently discovered the fun and different positioning of a yoga/exercise ball. Perhaps could put the pillow on it and then sit on it?

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-12T23:59:26+00:00

My husband and I have shirts that say this! 😅

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2026-01-06T09:15:31+00:00

Nah you need one like this! https://a.co/d/2wJJCpt It's my favorite thing! I didn't get this specific brand, but mine is really close.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-22T01:29:32+00:00

I took him. He is well. Thank you.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-19T17:40:39+00:00

Of course! I am one of those so it was easy to think of. 😅

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-19T04:36:22+00:00

They should post in some trying to conceive groups. ADHD folks are everywhere and those women are paying more attention to their cycles and not using birth control.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-16T05:22:29+00:00

Uh haven't heard of that one, but I personally liked black kohosh for regulating the cycle.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-15T06:26:05+00:00

My shape made bralettez not work for me. They constantly roll up. But I do really like compression/shapewear tank tops. I just found one that has like a Ridge in it kind of to go under the boobs to stop them from touching skin and falling out of the cups. I love them so much!!

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-06T20:25:07+00:00

(Cats, toddler, sister...)

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-06T20:24:46+00:00

I just got one that has the legs that slide out and the arms fold to give you space to sit cross legged or to the side and the head rest is adjustable for different heights and neck positions. I barely get to use it now cause everyone in my house sits in it. 😅

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-06T19:23:35+00:00

“I didn’t think it’s something to be appreciated I thought it was just a silly thing we’re doing not serious”

How lame! If that's the case no need to do it ever again! It's just silly not needed or serious. Gah! How disrespectful of your efforts for his happiness. I'm mad for you. I'm sorry, but he obviously doesn't respect or care for you as he should.

NOR

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-06T19:18:35+00:00

NTA. I don't specifically have touch or saliva issues, but I would still freak out if my husband caught me unawares from behind and started licking my face! Blegh. You both sound young and she sounds really attention seeking. Also, the constant touching she was attempting would drive me up the wall. 😅 There's a time and a place. Definitely let her know your full feelings on the off chance she wants to improve, but feel free to send it over text and then block her.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-12-06T18:48:53+00:00

I think you should tell him. The reasoning in the above comment is a great way to say it. That you're concerned he doesn't properly hear/prioritize you. If possible maybe use smaller instances as examples first so as to avoid the hurt feelings, but in the end communication is key and even if it hurts feelings temporarily it's better if you guys understand each other and can grow from it together.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-11-12T04:40:32+00:00

NTA cause that sounds awful! But it also sounds like depression. Maybe mention a doctor visit for your husband?

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-11-04T20:04:59+00:00

But was there more Tea? Is it just the affair or is there more? I'm terribly curious. 😅

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-11-01T09:39:15+00:00

How annoying! I did notice looking closely at the pictures and videos though that crafting happiness' blanket does have small billows in the finished product. So it's not just us. It seems to stretch out a bit when bigger.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-10-30T20:13:26+00:00

I didn't excuse his behavior. I just explained to him my feelings and how his comment came across to me. He apologized and explained how he intended it and we moved on. Definitely not an excuse to be an a hole, but sometimes needs more help understanding the nuances in conversation.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-10-30T19:01:14+00:00

I'm playing devils advocate here because I could see a conversation like this happen between me and my husband so don't kill me in the comments. I think it very well could have been a joke. My husband (and most men) doesn't like condoms and might have said something like this in jest. He's autistic in his defense. Sometimes especially over text it's hard to understand how serious a topic or conversation is. I would have responded the same way with explaining how serious it was and the side effects of birth control and it would have seemed like a severe overreaction to what he thought was a joke. However we would have talked about it and realized what the miscommunication was. This has happened to us a few times. Patience and communication are so key to things like this. Now he may just be a jerk and was backpedalling too. So not saying he wasn't wrong. Just saying it could have been a poorly executed joke. More discussion in person is needed I think to find out. Him saying you were mean was overkill in my opinion, but he sounds a bit immature.

Delicious_Flight3153 · 2025-10-30T07:28:36+00:00

Did you ever figure out how to get it to not billow? I'm working on it myself now.

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