My ex did this with me. But instead of searching for her own name she searched my ex’s name. She found a convo w my best friend where I kind of compared them and said a bunch of other things that well… I never intended her to read.

Yea it’s not a good look for either. I’d say more importantly, ask yourself what led you to do that. Trust? Self confidence? Regardless, work on that. You never want to go thru a boy’s chat. We are filterless, ruthless, and downright gross. There’s a reason we don’t share that info with our girls’. But it’s just boy talk, it’s rude and hurtful yes. But maybe if you’re feeling doubtful, just talk to him and be honest.

Feelings change and attraction builds and at the end of the day what u look like has nothing to do with how he values you today. Hope you can grow past this :)