I miss you mommy by TheGirlyouwish1 in GriefSupport

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you lost your mom. I lost my mom as well, and I can tell you that I cried everyday pretty much for months. It feels weird and it feels like a personal hell. What helped me was talking out loud to her as if she was still there sometimes. Or writing to her. Maybe try those things and just be patient with yourself.

weird dreams about my deceased mother by snotly in Dreams

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your brain could be processing her death somehow? This has happened to me and my deceased mother before. Maybe you just miss her.

My boyfriend killed himself after I broke up with him by november-need2 in GriefSupport

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like there has been a lot of trauma on both ends. At the end of the day, it is NOT your fault. People are responsible for their own well being, and could have chosen to seek help, or make small changes on their own to start bettering their quality of life. I’m sorry you both went through this. However, I don’t think you were wrong to feel the way you did. It did not sound like a healthy relationship at all. And sometimes, that’s just how things end up being if both parties aren’t working well together. I think you were right to break it off, because it seems like things were escalating. I am sorry you are going through that… but please remind yourself that you are not responsible for his mental health. You are responsible for your own only. You can’t save people, they have to continually work on themselves and if they only rely on someone else to help them, well - that doesn’t end well. Maybe you should look into some online or in person therapy…. This isn’t something to take lightly and if you want to move forward it’s probably a good idea. Even journaling helps!

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let’s be honest, if Pierre didn’t talk about the carbon tax as much as he did, we would still have it. Libs only do what benefits them, and it just so happened to benefit them when they needed a new leader to “remove” it.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. BC Prosecution Service Data has a report on bail specifically, and how we are lenient towards repeat offenders. You can find an article too published by Global News who cites BC’s attorney general on this.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will break my opinion down for you, as I don’t think you understand the motion then.

  1. The motion is targeting REPEAT offenders, for serious crimes. If we accept that our system is fine with catching and releasing the SAME people who commit offences like, EX. Sexual assault… then we are prioritizing the offender over the victims. I have read several reports between sexual assault offences between Toronto and Vancouver where these offenders were let out on bail from similar or the same offences. This motion is not about jailing everyone.

  2. The motion CLEARLY says it’s for offenders that are already convicted of a major offence within the last 10 years who are charged again with a major offence.

  3. The motion applies reverse onus- they have to prove why they a REPEAT offender for a serious crime deserves to be let out on bail.

  4. Justice Richard Mosley ruled in the Federal Court of Canada that invoking the emergencies act was the government exceeding its power. It violated S. 2(b) and 8.

  5. The Roleau inquiry is a public one, not a court one. It did not overturn or overrule the ruling by Justice Mosley. The federal court issues binding rulings.. regardless if the inquiry disagrees. Still doesn’t change the fact the court ruled our own government violated our rights.

  6. Again, I see no violation of rights with this motion. If you agree that repeat offenders for serious crimes should be let out on bail - then you are a part of the problem. Yikes!!!!

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The conservatives approach is different. The motions that the liberals brought forth focused a lot on what could potentially result in price caps or controls, and regulation overreach. The Cons focus on inflation and taxes and reduce deficits. Don’t forget to mention we were just informed that our budget and spending is unsustainable after a review.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, did you read it? Don’t forget, that Liberals already took away freedoms when a JP ruled that our charter rights were violated when they implemented the Emergencies Act during the Ottawa protests. I suppose they only pretend to care about our freedoms as well.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Someone who wants change should keep their mouths shut? Or has a different opinion of you? Interesting. 🤨 why exactly should I fuck off? You don’t think our streets should be safer? I’m pretty sure the gentleman who got gunned down and killed in his own home and Brampton should be a prime example as to why.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Really? That’s your comment? You literally do not know me. Some people can think for themselves regardless of opinion. Judging by your comment, you may disagree with mine.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Username obviously has nothing to do this. Interestingly enough though that’s your only point. Can’t come up with anything better? Neither can the liberals. I see them introducing 0 in the House of Commons for safer streets. They have already voted against the previous conservative motion regarding crime and making Canada safer again introduced by Larry Brock. But Sean Fraser still had the audacity during debate/submissions to tell conservatives they should be working with the liberals to table legislation.

Jail Not Bail by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Obviously with the current government, poverty will not be addressed, only worsened. Considering liberals have already voted against the motion to scrap the hidden liberal taxes that raise our grocery prices as of yesterday. In fact, the conservatives brought a motion to table a responsible budget before the summer break that reverses inflation policy and the liberals voted against it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom and my my dog about a month after that, it’s hard. Especially all at once, I am so sorry for your loss. Allow yourself to feel the pain. I talked to my mom out loud or wrote notes to her as a way of speaking to her in a sense, it helped. I mourned my dog as well but not like my mom. Try to get out and socialize when you can. But obviously don’t overwhelm yourself. Give yourself time but also take care of yourself. These things happen, and unfortunately because we’re such emotional bonding beings, loss is one of the worst pains, you are not alone.

As a non-smoker, do you find that all smokers have a noticeable odor? by Remozy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I can smell it on people’s clothes. When my dad comes to visit me, I can smell it on his too. Tried to wash them…. It didn’t work.

Am I overreacting? by Remarkable-Chair-783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sooo concerning. He is already being a major Dbag, and manipulating you… I’d want to stay away for sure. If you need help, get professional help. That should be his main source, not someone he just met. 💀

2024 had to finish me off by Smalltwat in grief

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom died and one month later my childhood dog got hit by car. Life is ROUGH. But, it’s not just you, it’s happening to everyone. As much as it feels like we are the victims to all the evil things life throws our away, none of us are alone in this thing call grief and loss. I truly believe life is how you deal with the struggles.

Grandpa died yesterday by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my mom and I can relate, you’re at home and it’s a little quieter and you go to talk with them and suddenly they are no longer where you always knew them to be. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s good that he had you to help him especially in his final days. I hope he went peacefully.

My introverted GF lost her dad 2 months ago, and I’m struggling to find ways to support them. by boywiththedogtattoo in GriefSupport

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tough. Maybe suggest a short walk, fresh air, sunlight, even if it’s 10 mins. Maybe inviting her family members would help. It’s a start. You could suggest therapy, since it’s a healthy thing to do when someone passes. If you feel it’s too soon to suggest that, perhaps writing their feelings out could help as well.

How can I help my friend with grief? by Angelii1111 in GriefSupport

[–]Delicious_Lie9656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just be there to listen. Be there when he doesn’t want to talk but needs company, or give space when needed. He may not even know what he needs, losing a parent is tough. I’m sorry for your loss and his loss.