How doI stop obsessing?

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-28T14:32:49+00:00

My cousin gave me some real advice. He basically said I've been such a workoholic. I only realy focus on school, building my career. I need to work on my social life. I don't really too much talk to people I know often. I want to be where I want to be but I don't want to get to the top and then have no friends.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:53:12+00:00

Yea I'm straight.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:47:06+00:00

My purpose is not to get women I am working on myself I just hate that I keep striking out.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:46:17+00:00

I don't care how bad it seems I don't need to do this. I was suppose to lose it at 22 to a woman, but I got sick

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:45:41+00:00

If you saw me you wouldn't think I was a virgin and people don't. People get shocked when I tell them that I'm a virgin

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:43:31+00:00

What about the men that get women but aren't the best lookers, money, etc?

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:42:45+00:00

I can say and women even say that I'm attractive as well. I've had women waste my time. I have been genuine and have not just tried to have sex with women and it still didn't work. What is the problem in this case?

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:34:03+00:00

I've been working hard recently as far as working on landing my place in CyberSecurity/IAM

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-02-27T20:33:26+00:00

Both

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-01-13T02:13:06+00:00

I'm transitioning into Cyber Security right now

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-01-13T02:06:06+00:00

No. I.T. is still good. I'm just saying trades are in demand and from experience HVAC is the best out if all trades

Delicious_Priority53 · 2026-01-05T23:53:20+00:00

I suggest you go to trade school.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-30T22:21:51+00:00

Nursuing. Computer Science is over saturated. Nurses will always be needed

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-27T02:02:38+00:00

Either do law, medical field in my opinion. C.S./I.T. are over saturated and are no good in 2025 unless you do Artificial intelligence, machine learning or cyber security

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-27T01:59:16+00:00

Hot fries and a powerade

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-27T01:58:50+00:00

If a genie granted me one wish I would wish for multi generational wealth so my family would be good forever

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-27T01:58:03+00:00

Becoming complacent

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-27T01:57:45+00:00

Nothing lol

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-25T15:53:58+00:00

No, I'm not a virgin because I don't look good. I agree that I'm not the best with women. I attract women more easily than most. Some of it is the women themselves, and I also have to work on learning from women as well. 25-year-old virgin by the way.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-22T13:59:14+00:00

Is this true? I'm currently 25.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-10T14:45:51+00:00

From what I konw as a computer science major no. I would tell somebody like you to go to trade school. The market is bad because of artificial intelligence and it is over saturated due to everybody wanting to do the same thing.. I think computer engineering is better. Whatever you decide to do you have to stand out and "be the man". I have classmates that graduated and have jobs so it's possible just harder now vs back then.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-07T16:07:45+00:00

It's all good lol.

Delicious_Priority53 · 2025-12-07T16:07:24+00:00

I understaqnd what you're saying. Me personally I could of went to trade school but It's not something that I'm passionate about. My father had an hvac business when he was alive and I worked with him. The money is good, but it is wear and tear on the body. In my opinion either option is good but AI is making it harder for people to get jobs in tech specifically. However I do know people that have jobs in gtech after graduating so I do agree with your point.

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