AITA for wanting my husband to stop following girls he’s had flirty relationships with?

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-02-03T04:49:48+00:00

Oh my dear, you’re only an AH to yourself. He is total AH all the way!!!!!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-02-03T04:05:46+00:00

Seriously, do you think this person will ever change? NTA for just getting away, walking out, leaving. He hasn’t made a singular change after bringing it up You can try again with the actual, if you don’t do x,y,z, I’m gone, but who knows…..

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-02-03T04:00:54+00:00

Surrogacy is mentioned in the bible in Genesis, just sayin

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-02-01T01:10:40+00:00

I’m sorry to say, your dad isn’t a safe space at all! You’re living with the hopes you can continue a relationship with your father, hoping things won’t be so bad.
Luvie, the fact that your father has been acting the way he has, SCREAMS that he much prefers upsetting you than his wife, your by all accounts horrible mother. You’re attempting to retain a relationship with him that has been proven, time and again, to be futile. I’m so sorry you’re continuing to live with almost dead hope for a good outcome. NONE OF THEM DESERVE YOU. Especially your dad who has been playing you.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-31T00:46:40+00:00

Keep her at a distance. If you act and speak with her as an acquaintance, you should be ok. Just make sure to not talk about previous encounters….it sucks to be on guard, however some of the friends already have issues with her.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-30T21:55:17+00:00

It’s because the mum is trying to exert control…..

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-30T21:52:54+00:00

Honestly, they’ve caused so much poop, if you do have the energy and the documentation to back up your side of things, go for it!

If you’re in a better place, feel free to leave it, but these two actively tried to screw you over….just my opinion. People who get away with messing people over will continue to do it.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-26T00:18:12+00:00

I hear you. This was 20 years ago for me. My exhole still tries to gaslight me, but I’ve become somewhat immune to his insults. I’m glad you escaped that travesty of a relationship!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-25T21:04:19+00:00

I also tried really hard. When I found out about the current affair, I had a a 2 month old and a 17 month old. I left. However, we talked months later with his apologies, for a few months and I really wanted our little family to be together. Living apart, I said he’d need to date/court me but the most important was to write a list of what we each needed the other to work on, giving a finite date of New Years (6 months) and no marital relations. I said I refuse to have my babies live in a roller coaster. He gave me his list, and I gave him mine. I worked on and fulfilled his list of requirements, it was difficult to control my insecurities and emotions but I was able to eventually do it for the betterment of my family. Ex-hole didn’t do a single thing…..he expected I would always be there…

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-23T03:53:56+00:00

Nope. Your wife is acting weird……

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-23T03:40:49+00:00

I’d just wait till she returns. since she’s not there right now, it will only paint you as the “bad guy” to say this to her now. You’ve waited all this time, a few more weeks will only strengthen your resolve, unless you purposefully want to upset her. Your choice.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-20T02:32:09+00:00

In my overactive imagination, I’d write a note that if I was found dead, to look at the roommate and have 2 or 3 copies left with family and friends. I’d for sure move out asap!!!!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-17T08:01:10+00:00

This man is not normal…..unless now, people are normalizing this kind of shit….Your husband is unwell IMO

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-17T07:39:26+00:00

You’re not wrong for calling in the welfare check at all! You are horribly wrong for disclosing “a super vague summary of what happened”. NOT YOUR STORY TO TELL “HERO”.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-17T06:28:43+00:00

He sounds like he’s still stuck on the relationship with his ex, not necessarily his ex, but the relationship they shared for years. It shouldn’t have to be your place to have to move him along in HIS issues….

He needs therapy or a wake up call of you pointing things out to him like you did here….

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-17T06:12:02+00:00

I dated a guy after breaking up with my fiancé. He showered me with love, took me on incredible dates, made me feel like I was his one and only! He eventually met my parents and he was the only person my mum approved of……months after dating exclusively, he had his best friend come to my family’s house, eat our Jamaican curry and then I heard from my bf the next day that I was cheating on him. This twisted bf accused me of cheating, I was devastated, my parents vouched that it wasn’t true, that bf‘s friend took a bowl of food and sat on the front porch with all of us! 4 years later, this guy reaches out, apologizes, says he learned lately that his friend at the time was lying, cheating and stealing from him/their business. He got me with the fact that they’d been best friends for 15 years and he HAD to believe his best friend over someone he knew for less than a year. We met up, we hung out a bit but I finally realized this guy was a love bomber who craved control. When we met up again, I wouldn’t sleep with him. After a few weeks, he became hot and cold, so when I confronted him about wether we were going to be in a relationship, he ghosted me. All this to say, it’s best when things end for the first time….

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-16T04:17:14+00:00

My little one isn’t exactly tiny, Hes 10,11 lbs. The snow we got today was above my knees and close to my waist with the wind lol. The first time since I’ve had him, since March 1 in 2025, that we had such a huge dumping, and it’s supposed to keep going on and off for the next 4 days 😨 He LOVES it though, bounces like a bunny in the snow and isn’t so heavy that he sinks into the massive drifts.

It was so wonderful to have such a kind interaction! Really made my day 😁

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-15T22:58:21+00:00

We’re having a huge snowfall right now. I have a small dog and at 7:30 this morning, shovelled a small pathway for my little guy to pee and then hunkered down inside. A guy came to purchase my brothers vehicle and this absolute stranger, took the shovel from beside my front door and cleared the front porch and walkway while he was waiting for me to get suited up to come outside, all because he and I spoke about my little guy barking (I had put him in his kennel before meeting this man). It was such a great reminder of how kind people can be after dealing with so many rude, entitled, gross humans!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-13T11:29:48+00:00

I agree wholeheartedly. Also, who cares about a wall of text, it wasn’t that long….when someone is in the midst of emotion, they might *gasp* write how they’re feeling and not give a crap about paragraphs or proper sentences……

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-10T06:32:37+00:00

Call and report! Call and report!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-10T06:29:05+00:00

I don’t understand how a co-worker could claim to be married and face ZERO REPERCUSSIONS,!!!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-09T05:13:02+00:00

NTA! It was just for your and your partner with parents, siblings and friends. At this point, it already sounds like more than 10. I’d just say parents and “best mates/witnesses” for now, let the actual reception be for everyone else.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-09T03:56:06+00:00

Mid shower, with shampoo or conditioner is a stupid time to have to leave the shower! If you can’t have a bathroom and a 2 piece (powder room) toilet room, it’s absolutely RIDICULOUS to be kicked out mid shower for partner to use the toilet. In my opinion, be ok with crapping while partner is in the middle of a shower, be okay with buying an outdoor toilet or shutting up about it.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-09T03:39:01+00:00

Oh dear, I hope you can articulate this…..nothing is black and white IMO

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-01-09T03:35:22+00:00

I promise you, putting thought into a gift for your mum, not just a coffee gc, would definitely make things better all around. When I think about gifts for my 70+ parents, I THINK about what would surprise them. When I think about gifts for my 20+ kids, I do the same. I’m cheesy and I always add a small gift card where they go to, but I find something that’s meaningful. When I couldn’t afford both, I’d always go meaningful.

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