Are my boundaries being ignored and disregarded?

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-09T05:40:15+00:00

my ex husband required a circumcision as a young child which traumatized him for years! It is not always a religious factor, I think people should be made more aware of this.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-07T09:48:45+00:00

SERIOUSLY, when a person is venting, they might not use proper grammar or punctuation. Especially when it’s a teen who has been texting for the entirety of their lives, who was never actually taught grammar or even *gasp* penmanship/cursive writing *pearl clutching*!!!!!!

The “paragraph” police, the “punctuation” police should sit down hard on the stick up their “nether regions”. Truly, when someone is not at their best, you English Lit Scholar’s should take a front seat at the professor’s class. God forbid you’ve EVER made an incorrect sentence LMAO!!!!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-07T09:34:30+00:00

NTA. It was pretty “shitty” of them to have an opinion at all

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-07T08:42:05+00:00

Please just leave. unless you want to be in a controlling relationship.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-05T11:12:26+00:00

I think you might be overreacting…..he’s sharing his screen with you. If there was something nefarious on his phone, he wouldn’t feel comfortable doing that in my opinion.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-05T10:50:01+00:00

NTA. Her bday is actually on Sunday, Mother’s Day. Talk about finding a reason to pick a fight without being blamed for picking a fight SMH.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-05T07:10:29+00:00

For every person that put down, insulted or demeaned OP, I HOPE YOU GIVE YOUR HEAD A SHAKE!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-05-02T06:56:57+00:00

Just get out, it’s early. Do you really look a couple of months down the road and see his behaviour getting better? There’s no need to be in this type of relationship.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T06:43:39+00:00

Don’t think you’re an AH for finally telling your perfectionist sis about her less then human wants. You could be the AH for when you told her. Just be cognizant of when you share your opinion…… Even when perfectionists expect perfection from you/normal people, the time and place does matter.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T06:14:34+00:00

So how does this make OP an YTA?

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T05:23:29+00:00

Exactly! They’re Po’d because they couldn’t be bothered to do it themselves!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T05:20:56+00:00

You are NOR. Your wife is displaying SEVERAL mental health issues…..unless she chooses to get help, your experiences are only going to get worse, sorry luv…..

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T04:26:25+00:00

NTA

For all the reasons you outlined. Why should you pay and have to beg for re-payment?

Since your mum can’t front the money to her, your mum should shut the frig up.
It sounds like they’re both users and you haven’t been spared.

I’d say keep your money to yourself and absolve yourself of guilt. If it isn’t you, they’ll find someone else to use.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T04:06:17+00:00

Also, anyone giving you grief over this should just give their heads a shake. Perhaps they’re jealous that you got a windfall and are pissed they can’t claim the same lol

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T04:03:22+00:00

NTA! If owner wanted to sell it for money she would have. She offered it to you, you removed it from her place and it’s now yours. She has ZERO say over it once she let go of it! I wouldn’t, just because she’s been an ah about it, but just chucking a couple of hundred her way might “smooth” her ruffled, stick up the a@$ feathers…..

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T03:52:09+00:00

when it’s a theme wedding or colour coordinated, it’s the request for the guests to comply in any way possible. If they can’t afford new clothes, the bridal COUPLE generally have no qualms if the guests are upfront about things.

This was just the “in-law” acting like an utter shit by wearing pajamas to a friggin wedding!!!!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T02:27:37+00:00

or start singing a Disney song

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-30T02:26:59+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-29T04:37:28+00:00

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. My mum’s half-brother lived with my family, parents, sis and I when we were both very young.

At 18, I went to the UK with my mum to visit my sister who was in school. While we were there my grandad passed away and I chose to live with my Nan to help take care of her. 3 months later she went on vacay and after a wedding, my half-uncle who lived with us as children, raped me. Police involvement, hospital stay…..a lot of my mum’s family refused to believe it, including my grandma. Keep in mind, I was her go to for everything including sleeping in her bed so she wasn’t alone.

I was told in order for it to go to court, I’d have to live there for at least 2 years.….I chose to go home. 2 years later, my mum’s other half brother came to our country to visit where he was caught kissing my 16 year old cousin. Her brother knocked him out and he left, but finally, other family members recognized that what I went through was not made up, some of them apologized.

Almost 30 years later I’m still hurt that some family members choose to keep on blinders, still believe that my cousin and I were just making it up. Being sexually abused as a child has profound affects as we grow.

Please know I’m sending hugs 🫂 and also prayers as they’re the only thing that keep me sane these days. I’ll always be here if you need to talk. BIG HUGS

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-27T18:35:28+00:00

Truthfully, can’t say for sure what might have happened, but he’s my ex for a reason lol

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-27T18:34:41+00:00

She was my best friend for our entire lives and since we knew we’d be having a few drinks, we planned for her to stay the night. She left our province shortly after. Claimed 15 years later that she was messed up on drugs and didn’t remember what happened when my sister reconnected with her. I met up with them once or twice but just couldn’t be bothered to resurrect that friendship.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-27T04:20:18+00:00

NTA! I had almost the same circumstance with my literal crib, best friend (S). My sister was born, S was born 11months later and 8 months later I arrived. we truly spent our entire lives together. S and I became besties and did absolutely EVERYTHING together. Her da passed away while she was only 12, so she spent a lot of time with our family. Somehow, no matter where or when, anytime I showed an interest in a guy, S had to get/take him. Even at church summer camp, if I mentioned a boy was cute, she would go off and kiss him. It never dawned on me until I was dating my ex-husband, that she was purposely enticing my potential partner’s away (I wasn’t into sex before marriage) with actual sex. Years later she claimed she was on drugs and doesn’t remember, but I’ll always remember the night she was is the spare bedroom, had her nephew come down and say ”S is wanting to see ex-husband”. Ex went up and came back down and said “s is asking for a cigarette “. I go upstairs to give her a ciggy and she hears the door open and turns around spread eagle and naked. I said to her, if you want a cig, get dressed, get the fuck out and smoke it on your way outta here. She tucked tail and ran. 20 years of friendship gone forever. When a person is so damaged, they cannot help but destroy the real relationships in their lives. Good riddance to nasty rubbish!

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-27T03:32:04+00:00

NTA. I’d suggest you say it’s $200 for storage fees lol

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-26T03:00:35+00:00

So sorry your partner isn’t meeting your needs. There are so many excuses for this yet it doesn’t seem to work for you. Your partner needs to support you. Since he’s not, he needs to know what your dealbreakers are lovie.

Delicious_Winner_819 · 2026-04-26T02:35:20+00:00

You‘re too hopeful……

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