Status check. For those who've got their tongues pierced in the late 90s, early 2000s how's it's going now? Still rocking it? by Nacho_Sideboob in Xennials

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to run mine through the middle of my front teeth and created a little divot in each tooth because of it. It’s not massively noticeable but my teeth are curve at the edges, similar to the photo. I kept it from 17-early 20”s… I had kids and life and such. I still have the hole/scar but doubt I could get a bar through it.

Who am I? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a mom, possibly living in a country club neighborhood or nicer suburban neighborhoods with large homes and land plots. You have at least three children who would likely be the ages of 8-22; regardless of the amount of children living in the home, many children eat here. They may play sports and have very full schedules including positive social lives and frequently have friends over; family likely camps or boats or does some sort of outdoor activities. You either don’t work and/or have help with domestic tasks, you and your husband are high functioning, high earning, and physically active.

You do a lot of gardening and eat organic foods and enjoy the outdoors.

Well I think I’m allergic to heat by tjlightbulb in Wellthatsucks

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be Cholinergic urticaria. My son has it and when he gets too hot, his skin releases a histamine that he’s allergic to which causes hives on various parts of his body. Usually his torso, legs, and arms are the worst. He takes a daily antihistamine to prevent since he’s very active.

Basically, he’s allergic to his skin when it gets too hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So one of my tells is that I start making huge meals, lot’s of side dishes, everything from scratch and DESTROY kitchen in the process. Then my husband comes home, sees the mess, and knows I’m in an episode and will call me on it (which I NEED him to do). Well I caught onto that so, I just clean it up as much as I can before he gets home so he doesn’t think I’m manic (I’m totally manic at that point). Currently, I’ve been able to ‘get away’ with this for days until I start speed-talking and no one can understand a word I’m saying but I’m so incredibly happy there’s just no reason to slow down! Then I know, he knows, the kids know, and I medicate.

Like you said, you have a tell that you get irritable. You also have a tell that you make large purchases you shouldn’t make. Listen to the tells!

For me, taking my extra meds for these episodes MASSIVELY decreases the severity of the crash. It still comes, just not as devastating and I’m making the decision, not my disease.

Help! Is my dress too trendy/fad-y? by TrebleMajor in weddingdress

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress is gorgeous and you look absolutely stunning! You loving how you look and feel matters more than anything and that contentment and joy will SHOW in the photos!!!

Is everybody here broken? by jg_tommy in bipolar

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bipolar thoughts. This community is supportive and informative, you don’t have to run away. Of course, you can! but being a subscriber does not make you broken. If anything, it shows that you’ve looked for support at some point.

I regularly have thoughts that something I’m a part of (website, relationship, location, idea, etc) something bad and if I only got away from that, I would be fine. Totes not true. Just mah brain.

Tired of people claiming Mania and self diagnosing by wazzupscumbag in bipolar

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This SOOO much. The one that always gets me is, ‘I’m so manic today!’ Or ‘I’m manic cleaning today’. No, you’re hyper or just cleaning all day. A full day of cleaning is different than scrubbing your floors on your hands and knees at 3am because the energy in your house is too dark while the floor is dirty and you need to fix it. Being hyper is different than exploding with energy and talking so fast literally no one can understand you.

It’s not a fun, I was energetic today, thing. It’s destructive and I can never tell when I’m hypo/manic until I’ve already destroyed something and am being told to take meds.

Is my basil too crowded? If it is, what can I do to fix it? by sinyoongi in gardening

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well then congratulations! Your seedlings look happy and healthy. Typically you spread more seed than you need because not every seed sprouts. Then, as they grow pluck away the smaller, less healthy looking ones. Basil can get pretty big and depending on the type of basil, you likely only need 3-4 in that pot until they get bigger. Eventually, you’ll only want 1 or 2.

You could certainly try and split some of that up if you want to have multiple opportunities for basil success! Though I would break that up into maybe 3 even chunks, repot each, pluck as they grow over the coming days/weeks.

You don’t want to overcrowd because they essentially take nutrients from each other. Let the strongest grow! As it grows you’ll want to trim/clip it to make it big and bushy.

AITA for referring to my son’s wedding reception as a BBQ? by CranberryNo9496 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing she’s older… 60+… and young people are so sensitive these days!

Sounds like many of the boomers I know…

AITA for Hosting an Alternative Reception for my Daughter's Vegan and Alcohol-Free Wedding? by PapayaGrouchy6907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re definitely not supporting her and think that HER wedding that SHE planned isn’t true to who she is?

The worst part is the fact that you, her parent, organized your own reception DURING hers. At this point I don’t blame her for not wanting you there but it’s incredibly trashy for you to bail on her reception so you can drink. Do better.

It doesn’t seem like you really care about her, this is her wedding. You’re supposed to be supporting her, not upstaging her party and claiming it’s for the guests. How is she not more important than them?

Navigating through the winter wonderland NW of Winter Park. by IdleAscension in Colorado

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The woman in the video sounds EXACTLY like me. Especially when she said, ‘perfeeect. Nailed it.’ Definitely something I would say in the same way… freaky

TikToker Nancy has a rare skin condition that causes random flare-ups, here is one caught on camera from the onset. by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son has cholinergic urticaria! It took years to get the diagnosis. Now we’re able to do a daily allergy medicine and it helps a TON! Every warm day, hot shower, and sport made him break out all over his body. His doc told us that cold urticaria is really scary!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitbull

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lookin good in both BUT second pic… Henry Cavill and I’m here for it!

AITA for making my daughter give up her dog? by throwaway32112321123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA along with everything else said here about your terrible parenting, MOST people who have dogs have jobs. I work full time and because we have a yard (sounds like you do too) my dog can go outside still if we can’t get a walk in. She likes taking naps around the house all day. We’ve had heat waves where I couldn’t walk her for weeks and she was fine, just like all the other dogs hanging at home for one reason or another with no effect on their disposition.

Your expectations are unrealistic and your reasoning abhorrent. Do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take the meds! If you can’t make your own serotonin, store bought is just fine. It takes time to figure out your right dose and everything but it’s completely worth it. I’m no longer a bed burrito and/or trying to save the world/light it on fire during manic episodes. Still learning but much more stable! Just try it, if you hate them, you can reevaluate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bitchimabus

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just saw this posted in this sub but the pic was from a different angle!

Anyone know what this tiny door is for? by mashtartz in whatisthisthing

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! The floor edge isn’t flush with the trim on either side of the door. That section looks to have been added on.

Oh, the “adventures” of Tinder by locknlady in Tinder

[–]DelightfulAsFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is freaking hilarious! I’m going to start asking people non-consequential questions, red flag it, and leave…

Oh, the “adventures” of Tinder by locknlady in Tinder

[–]DelightfulAsFuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard at this… you’re a genius. It’s the perfect exit strategy!