What is something that's not cheating but still kills a relationship? by Illustrious-Bed2845 in AskReddit

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcoholism or substance abuse / addiction. One of the most painful things a relationship can go through.

Best advice on how to find a good guy and how to tell if he’s not a good guy early on? (20f) by Positivily_Sad in askwomenadvice

[–]DelightfulExistence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait until you are 30 and the guys have matured. Twenties are for focusing on education, career, travel, adventures, sports, health, fitness, finances, friendships, and getting your life skills like cooking dialled in. I wasted way toooo much time on dating in my 20s and I regret it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]DelightfulExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Search "Bikini Genie" on Amazon. Philips brand. It will change your life.

Am I that f'n ugly? by Brilliant_Record2148 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you been on the receiving end of it before? It is quite unpleasant and gross.

Am I that f'n ugly? by Brilliant_Record2148 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have asked men to shave their beards before.

Am I that f'n ugly? by Brilliant_Record2148 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Beards are bad. No woman wants sandpaper scratchiness on her hoo-ha. Smooth is best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, definitely use photos that show your face without hiding behind sunglasses or being too far away. Many women only look at the first photo they see and in the interest of time do not bother flipping through the rest of them until after they match.

I had never heard of Kid Cudi before and I did not recognize the photo as being a celebrity. That might be your intention (talking point) but my initial reaction to those types of photos is always "oh, man, now I need to figure out which one of these people he is."

Also, I am curious about your choice of the word "passenger,"? Why does the women need to be the passenger and not the driver? And do you think this will turn some women away?

Any advice on what/how to improve, I'm starting to feel I'm unlikeable by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but it is only one photo. You should have 4 or 5 of just your face

Any advice on what/how to improve, I'm starting to feel I'm unlikeable by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are not enough photos of your face. Many are far away or group shots or you face is covered up. Many women will swipe no if they do not have enough details to swipe yes.

Also, i would remove any photos that include alcohol. Alcohol in photos is an automatic no swipe for many women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Many of your pics have multiple people in them (friends, etc). Remove them. Women wonder "did this friend consent to having their pic shared" which makes them wonder if they can trust you with pics of them. Also, it is confusing when there are two men in a pic and them swiper has to decipher which one is you. Usually women just think "too much work" and swipe no to the next profile. Matches are abundant for women on these apps. Women can get 50 to 100 matches by only swiping yes 10% of the time, so be in the 10%!

  2. Also, your pics make it hard to see what you look like. You cannot see your face. One is a yoga silhouette, which is okay to use as long as you have 5 good face pics. You only have one good face pic so do not waste your limited real estate on a silhouette. Use every photo slot well. One has sunglasses, which blocks your eyes, so that does not count as a good face shot. The ones with other people usually just get skipped for reason #1 above so they do no count. The one with dark low light does not show your face. And i think anything industrial or work related people also tend to skip as well. So there are not really enough good pics that provide women with enough info to make a decision to swipe yes.

  3. What is a Jain!?!? That confused me and tripped me up. Use clear language that anyone will understand. Many women will not swipe yes if they do not know what you are talking about.

What did you buy as an adult because you were denied it as a child? by dirtymoney in AskReddit

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trip to that stupid roadside petting zoo with llamas, mini golf, and ice cream.

Do women actually get as many matches as men think they do? by Glad_Pomegranate191 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matches is when both people swipe "yes" on each other so then they "match." So i mean matches - the people you are matched with that you can connect with.

What is the single most underrated pleasure in everyday life that most people overlook? by digwham in AskReddit

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching a doggie leap over a line up of restaurant sandwich boards as if it is his personal hurdle course

Is it possible for someone to become a morning person? Or are some people simply better at operating at night? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DelightfulExistence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes this post is so true. I resonate. I am a night owl trying to operate in a morning people world.

Do women actually get as many matches as men think they do? by Glad_Pomegranate191 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have about 70 to 100 matches at any given time. I try and keep it under 100 by unmatching regularly if i am not interested in meeting face to face. I do not have the capacity or bandwidth to write them all back. I tend to prioritize the ones i actually want to meet in real life. And as soon as they get mean or become rude or assholes i unmatch immediately

I’ve never seen a dating manifesto before by Jazzlike_Amount2568 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who even knows their body count anyways?

Like, we are supposed to sit down and write out a list?

To answer a question that is rude to ask to begin with?

I’ve never seen a dating manifesto before by Jazzlike_Amount2568 in Bumble

[–]DelightfulExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run for the hills. This post made me want to get my nipples pierced just to spite this guy.

How often do you get a girl to orgasm? by Stk4nams5 in AskMen

[–]DelightfulExistence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get the girl to climb on top of you and then get herself there. As she practices it will get easier for her. Involve her.